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[Britt11]

that is so brutal Mommywishes. They should be seeing you right away you are absolutely correct. Can you see another doctor, or if the cramps get worse maybe go to the emergency? You and I are 6 weeks tomorrow so they should be able to see where baby is on u/s.

thinking of you and try and stay calm and relaxed if possible
hugs,

 

[MommyWishes4]

If I don't get a call tomorrow, I'm going to start looking for another doctor. The only other OBGYN in the area has a huge amount of doctors - you get a new one every time so you don't build any relationship with them. I already have three years of experience with this doctor, before he took on being a head in the maternity ward in the hospital, took over a midwife place and still holding his patients at his office.

So it'll take a little while to get my things transfered to the OB and then get an appointment - I'm not sure which would be quicker, really.

I'm actually thinking about going to the ER this Saturday even if I don't have worsened cramps. I want to make sure nothing is wrong before it's too late and I'm having severe pain. If I get desperate enough by then, I'm going to go to see what's up. It's definitely not something I want to fool around with!

Definitely trying to stay calm and relaxed...but only having one pair of baby making parts puts me on edge when I don't know what's what yet. I'll be able to relax once I know that at least the baby is in the right place!

 

[Britt11]

there were 2 women on my TTC threads that had ectopics (both went on to have healthy pregnancies shortly after). The signs were pretty intense I think, the cramps were extremely bad from what I remembered, one of them had spotting and the HCG was not rising quickly like it should....those were signs that something was wrong.

Has your pain subsided a bit?

as for the doctors, yeah maybe go to the emergency on the w/e to ease your mind and keep trying your regular doc if its hard to get a new one?

 

[MommyWishes4]

as for the doctors, yeah maybe go to the emergency on the w/e to ease your mind and keep trying your regular doc if its hard to get a new one?

That's my plan as of now.

The pain isn't too bad, it's just cramping and sometimes some stabby pain lower down. I also heard that the pain is intense - but I heard it gets intense after it's too late to do anything and when it's either about or already is erupting and I'm scared to keep waiting until I might feel that and have it be too late for me.

It would definitely be different if I had two tubes and ovaries to work with. Seeing that all of my future children depend on only this one gets me jittery.

 

[Britt11]

I hear what your saying and I dont blame you, I would want to get checked out soon too, if only to put your mind at ease.
I have had some cramps on and off, it can also be very normal in pregnancy- hopefully this is the case for your situation. (I get nervous with them too)
hugs,

 

[MommyWishes4]

I hear what your saying and I dont blame you, I would want to get checked out soon too, if only to put your mind at ease.
I have had some cramps on and off, it can also be very normal in pregnancy- hopefully this is the case for your situation. (I get nervous with them too)
hugs,

Yes, I hope so too! I'm sure it is. Just, not enough sure to not have little panics about it!

The only thing I was concerned about was my insurance covering the ER visit, since they can be really expensive. My husband said he's check into it, but either way he'd like me to go anyway because he'd rather make sure I was okay than to not pay whatever we need to pay. So it looks like I'll probably be going unless a miracle happens and my doctor actually decides to call me!

 

[Jenni4]

Only 4 1/2 weeks pregnant and officially rubberbanding my pants! I have been reading everyone's posts and sending all my thoughts to you all....there's just so much going on that I can't keep up with posting to everyone... pregnant brain....but you all are in my thoughts....just don't want you guys to think that i'm not participating...

 

[fifi-folle]

Hi girls
Can I join you? Tested positive three days ago with an EDD of 15th July. This is our first baby but after 4 early losses I'm feeling really nervous. I've an early scan next tuesday cause of my history, so fingers, toes and eyes crossed!!! (I'll only be 4w 5d? so not sure if I'll see much, although saw first preg at 4w2d)

Symptom-wise: nausea, tender (.)(.)s, cramps (might be down to my endo), tiredness but can't sleep, tearful. Sure there's more but can't think.

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Hello ladies, really must keep up with the posts on here lol x

 

[Genie Doo]

Mommywishes,

that is so not fair that he isn't calling you back - I think you should try the other OBGYN. Not that I think you have an ectopic since your symptoms do not seem to be "out of place" in a normal pregnancy but I myself would really freak out if I couldn't reach my doc when I need. (I'm very lucky with mine I have his cellular, too.)

Sometimes I have mild cramps, not too much, my BBS are killing me and I'm deffo very-very tired. Job is exhausting as always but I feel it much worse now...

With my daughter I went to Holiday for the last month - but I do think it would be much better to leave for the first two... (Anyway I have no chance so it is jus dreaming!

 

[foxforce]

Morning everyone

mommywishes - sorry to hear your Dr is not doing his job properly! hope you manage to get seen very soon by your dr or another! fx'd

Tinkerbell & Jenny - it's very hard keeping up with the posts! It's a very busy thread and still probably lots more people to come

Well I managed to get a dress for the wedding last night turned out to be one I'd seen online but I checked a few stores just to make sure it was the one....like you do!

Not slept too well, been awake since dh got up at 0530 ....with heartburn...nausea still not too bad again today hopefully my body is getting to grips with the hormones

How's everyone else today?

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Glad you found a dress Fox Force! Trouble is I want to get to know you all, but it moves so fast I get lost lol That will come in time I guess, yeah many more to come I'm sure lol Better start taking notes! Hope everybody is ok x

 

[freckles09]

Morning everyone!

It might just be me but is anyone else getting annoyed at the slightest thing?! My boss asked for a cup of tea and i just got really annoyed LOL or i find the slightest thing annoys me!

Am a lot more crampy today, hoping it's just my uterus stretching...

 

[DragonMummy]

mommywishes i had the same problem with my last pregnancy. i was having sharp cramps on the saturday. apparently there is nobody in the whole of surrey with the capability of scanning me for an ectopic so i had to stay in hospital til monday as if you have an ectopic, they like it to be within office hours it seems...


jojo - ah mummy brain... what they DON'T tell you is that your memory doesn't actually come back... mine is shot to pieces!


@Britt - not sure what the time difference is but I am having mine at 0900GMT on Thursday. Hopefully we'll have lovely pics to compare!

 

[DragonMummy]

@freckles - i'm very irritable too but not getting on well with DH the last few weeks so not sure which is causing what iykwim x

 

[foxforce]

Just watching some dogs dancing with their owners on a Pet programme and it makes me fill up!

I'm biting quite a bit with my dh Freckles a the slightest thing

 

[DragonMummy]

oh god i started blubbing yesterday when they were talking about adoption on This Morning. I mean proper, shoulders shaking sobs. What a knob...

 

[Razcox]

Mommywishes - Sorry your doctor is being such a pain, i think i would find someone else if they cant even be bothered to call you back now. Imagine what its going to be like later in the pregnacy when you may need them urgently again. Good luck what ever you decide xx

Fifi - Welcome hun will add you to the list now x

Zoe - Sorry i hadnt added you yet, done it now though for you x

Foxforce - Glad you got a nice dress, any piccys of it?

How is everyone else doing? No more pain here just a few cramps and pulls, bit of trapped wind and an upset tummy again. Lots of snotty coloured CM and some that had the tiniest of tiny brownish tint but was still enough to make my heart skip a beat before i told myself how silly i was being! I swear by the time i reach 2nd tri i am going to have a few gray hairs! Other then that got a bit of heart burn and my poor nipples are still really sore if you so much as breath on them too hard.

 

[Razcox]

Morning everyone!

It might just be me but is anyone else getting annoyed at the slightest thing?! My boss asked for a cup of tea and i just got really annoyed LOL or i find the slightest thing annoys me!

Am a lot more crampy today, hoping it's just my uterus stretching...

I snapped at DH last night as there was stuff on the sofa and i wanted to sit down, he had cleaned the whole of the downstairs but thats what i focused on

 

[Genie Doo]

Being annoyed? Oh yes, I know the feeling - I really freaked out this morning cause my daugther left the tube running...

But on the other hand I'm mich calmer then normally. I took it OK and smiling when I learned this morning that my ex-hubby's babyboy was born today.
(We are fine with each other but I dislike his girlfriend and the very thing that she is gonna be the mother of my daugther's brother really freaked me out. - But now I seem to be fine with it.