July Sparklers 2016!

[ehjmorris]

I hope you feel better soon polly, husbands and bfs can be insensitive

 

[Carlinator]

I really hate to even bring this up, but the happenings in Paris were just terrible, and I don't have family there or anything, but I am really upset over it. France is a big part of my life; I've always connected to the culture through art history and learning the language (took 4 years in high school and 3 in college). I went over to Paris after hs graduation (the trip was a present from my mom), and planned to one day return, and maybe even live there (or somewhere in France).

I keep telling OH that I have faith in humanity, that there can one day be peace, but I'm wondering if I'm lying to myself. I was not made for this world of hatred. It makes me so so nervous to see this happening and knowing this is what we are bringing our kids into. I wish I could just announce to the world, ok, fine: don't get along then; build your high walls and we'll all mind our own business, just stop the senseless killing.

It's just so sad and horrific and I wish there was something I could do.

 

[WantsALittle1]

I agree, Carlinator. I have been in a daze since I heard, and haven't been able to take my eyes off the news. I can't even fathom the mentality behind what happened, or the grief that now faces these communities and families. I am probably just super emotional because of pregnancy hormones, but it just makes the future feel so bleak. And now the war is going to escalate, which just means more sadness.

 

[Psalm23v6]

Hi all, may I join this group? Myself and DH are both 31 and have been trying for our first for almost 3 years. We ended up having 2 failed IVFs and this was our 3rd IVF. We got a cautious BFP two days ago on a FRER and had our official blood test today, which came out with a beta of 124.1. I have never been even close to pregnant before and so really taking this very cautiously. If we are lucky enough to have this stick, we will be due around July 24th. Looking forward to being on this journey with you all.

 

[Miss Bellum]

What happened in France is so tragic. It really did take the shine off things and made me wonder if this is a world that I want to bring another child into. Just trying to hang on to the though that there is still a lot of good out there.

Psalm23v6 - Congratulations on your bfp, sounds like its been a very long journey.

 

[Hollynesss]

Weclome, Miss Bellum, Psalm32v6 and Bethan90!

It breaks my heart, too, what happened in France. As much as we yearn to, we unfortunately cannot protect our children from all of the cruel realities that exist. All we can do is assure them that there is far more good in the world than bad, and that we must embrace what is good and right and stick together in times of tragedy. I don't ever want my kids to lose hope in humanity, even though at times it is so easy to do.

 

[Miss Bellum]

Thanks for adding me Hollynesss Totally agree with your sentiments, very well said.

Hi Bethan 90, hope all goes well for you

 

[TTC74]

My tastebuds super sensitivity is kicking in. There is something about equal that I'm finding offensive suddenly. I commented on my coffee (my daily caffeine allowance) being too sweet this morning. Now I'm drinking diet Sprite thinking it doesn't taste right at all.

 

[babydustcass]

I haven't been able to stop thinking about the attacks in France, it is truly horrific and heart breaking. My heart goes out to the ungagable sorrow France is feeling right now and the turmoil of those who lost their loved ones.
I too am scared for the future of my children, when does it end?, but you just can't let it stop you believing in that 99.9 % of humanity are good people.


Today I managed to convince hubby I am pregnant with a digital yay!
Starting to develop some symptoms again

 

[jjbuttons]

Feel,so rough today

Was thinking of bring lo to scan with us but now not so sure- everything I'm debating over at mo and still can't think straight

Ugh

 

[Carlinator]

My tastebuds super sensitivity is kicking in. There is something about equal that I'm finding offensive suddenly. I commented on my coffee (my daily caffeine allowance) being too sweet this morning. Now I'm drinking diet Sprite thinking it doesn't taste right at all.

I was of the assumption that sugar substitutes are not really the healthiest choice in pregnancy (I just don't think they've been studied extensively). I use organic sugar sparingly but if you have a blood sugar problem I think only sucralose/splenda is approved - give it a try! I've also had many relatives and friends give up sugar in their coffee altogether - they didn't like it for the first couple days but now they say they wouldn't go back & the coffee tastes so much richer.

 

[TTC74]

My tastebuds super sensitivity is kicking in. There is something about equal that I'm finding offensive suddenly. I commented on my coffee (my daily caffeine allowance) being too sweet this morning. Now I'm drinking diet Sprite thinking it doesn't taste right at all.

I was of the assumption that sugar substitutes are not really the healthiest choice in pregnancy (I just don't think they've been studied extensively). I use organic sugar sparingly but if you have a blood sugar problem I think only sucralose/splenda is approved - give it a try! I've also had many relatives and friends give up sugar in their coffee altogether - they didn't like it for the first couple days but now they say they wouldn't go back & the coffee tastes so much richer.

From what I've read, equal is okay but saccharine is an absolute no go. I guess it doesn't matter since equal isn't passing the taste test! I might try a little Splenda in some safe herbal tea and see how that floats my boat.

 

[MelliPaige]

Omg I'm getting so sick and exhausted..I don't know how I'll survive the first trimester..haha

 

[babydustcass]

Aww melli hang in there. The first bit is hard, I hope it calms down for you soon.

I am not sure about sugar but ill be avoiding both as much as possible. I have recently weaned myself cold turkey from sugar in tea and now I just need to get through the caffeine withdrawals as a switch to decaffe. I am still allowing myself the morning normal brew though to start the day. I am a zombie without it at the best of times.

Gosh I can't believe this is happening. I had been wtt for over a year, and now we a here expecting baby number 3. Surreal!

 

[wanna-b-mummy]

Cass congratulations and welcome!

Aw Melli. I sympathise! Yesterday was a hard day for me! Heartburn, nausea, and pure and utter exhaustion all day long and we were out for the day for little man's birthday! I am my happiness sitting snuggling or laying down

 

[TTC74]

Babydust - I can relate to the caffeine withdrawal! I just got through that myself!

AFM- I've been pinning baby announcements on a secret Pinterest board as I anticipate what my own announcement will look like. I've got some time. I probably will hold off to announc until after the harmony test results, but boy it's fun planning the announcement!

 

[babydustcass]

How does anyone who cant plan to get through christmas without announcing? I guess quite a few will be past 12 weeks at Christmas and safe to.
We initially thought we could announce at Christmas, but I still think it'll be too early. I just worry about something happening and then another part of me think christmas is the perfect time to announce and I wouldn't have to constantly explain I am designated driver over Christmas when I refuse alcohol. I will also likely receive wine for christmas otherwise lol

 

[Hollynesss]

We're going to tell my husband's family on Christmas, and announce on Facebook the first week in January (I'll be 13weeks).

 

[DandJ]

Telling my dads side of family on Christmas Eve and announcing to social media on New Years Day which will be around 13 weeks too. I have 2 announcement ideas.

 

[luvmyfam]

Congrats and weclome, Miss Bellum, Psalm32v6 and Bethan90 :wave:!

I will be 11 weeks at Christmas. I guess it depends on how much I pop out seeing as it's my 3rd pregnancy if I will tell extended family then. I would like to try to wait until after the new year to tell work.