Isabella was born yesterday morning at 6:24 am weighing 7lb 7oz https://i67.tinypic.com/25yx6c8.jpg
Labour went like this :
I have no idea when the pessary started to work but 12 hours after it was put in I started to get painful cramps (just before midnight on Saturday), I was given codeine and paracetamol which did nothing so at 1 am I was examined as 2-3 cm and given diamorphine, I was re-examined at 5 am because the cramps were horrendous and were 3 mins apart and I was 5cm so sent down to labour room.
I asked for an epidural, they said fine, called anesthetist who took 3 goes to the bloody drip in my hand, they really made a mess! they insisted on breaking my waters first and things went crazy, I started getting the urge to push 20 minutes later and when they checked I was 10cm already and them telling me it was too late be given one now, cue chaos and me in full panic because yet again I was in labour and feeling out of control. They said that my pushing wasn't enough because her head was too high and it would have to be a csection because her heartrate was dipping. I was sat up in theatre for just over half an hour but it felt much, much longer whilst they tried to get the spinal in but trying to keep still in between horrendous contractions/pushing down involuntarily is impossible
they then decided her head was low enough to attempt forceps, by then the epidural kicked in and I couldn't feel a damn thing so had to be told when to push.
It worked thankfully and she got here okay but I was in recovery for 2 hours and can barely remember much. I am very much done with it, I can't go through it all again, 2 kids for us! I got home late last night as I couldn't face another night in hospital. I spent my time in recovery crying because I felt like my body had failed me completely, I felt really guilty that I needed forceps to be used on me yet again, horrible dejavu.
I hope things are going smoothly for Jalima
Rhi and Lavo - I hope you're both doing well
hopefully something will happen soon for you guys
Pixie - I hope the weigh in went well
so cute she's now smiling!