June Bundles of Joy - 2016

[Tinky_82]

Sorry about your nan mommyxofxone, hugs xxx

Afm I spent most of yesterday at the hospital with what I thought were contactions its not wind pain as ive already gone to the toilet that morning, the tightenings are quite painful and uncomfortable but baby boy is doing okay so far, just gone home to rest and see if anything progresses... i am terrified ill loose this baby too

I'm sorry ehj that sounds scary but it's great that your little man is ok. I hope the pains stop and stay away.

 

[Rhi_Rhi1]

Tmi. Today I have weird pains in my butt. I don't know how to describe it. Sore? Its more noticeable when I'm walking about. I would think constipation but I've recently have a bm today. What could this be?

Is it shooty arse?! Feel like you're being shot up the butt ?! But I prefer Keith lemons explanation.

 

[Dory85]

The last few days my pelvis has been much better and I've been worried about looking ridiculous when my physio appointment eventually came through.

Skip to today when I couldn't roll over in bed and popped to the shops to get breakfast things early on and my hips were clicking and tooth achy with every step. I can't work out what helps and what makes it worse - I wasn't even at work yesterday!

Fortunately about 10 minutes after I got in this morning I had a call from the physio department who have had a cancellation with their women's health specialist this week and her waiting list is 10 weeks long so they've bumped me up the list to see her.

I'm kind of hoping it's a bad day so that I don't look like an idiot lol but I guess they should still be able to feel why things are sore and what will relieve it?

 

[Dory85]

Tmi. Today I have weird pains in my butt. I don't know how to describe it. Sore? Its more noticeable when I'm walking about. I would think constipation but I've recently have a bm today. What could this be?

Is it shooty arse?! Feel like you're being shot up the butt ?! But I prefer Keith lemons explanation.

I have never heard it termed that lol - you mean like sciatica type pain? That's such a good description! That's how my sacroiliac pain has started each pregnancy if that's what you mean Starlight?

 

[vaniilla]

Sorry about your nan mommyxofxone, hugs xxx

Afm I spent most of yesterday at the hospital with what I thought were contactions its not wind pain as ive already gone to the toilet that morning, the tightenings are quite painful and uncomfortable but baby boy is doing okay so far, just gone home to rest and see if anything progresses... i am terrified ill loose this baby too

That must have been terrifying for you I'm glad to hear lo is okay, hopefully you won't have any pain.

 

[ehjmorris]

Thank you ladies
Im just resting at home, im starting to think its bh as its not progressing into anything and bub is okay
Im just really sore

 

[Rhi_Rhi1]

Thank you ladies
Im just resting at home, im starting to think its bh as its not progressing into anything and bub is okay
Im just really sore

sorry you had such a scare. You keep your feet up !

 

[Starlight32]

Ehj, hopefully you start feeling better today so glad baby is ok.

What does bh feel like?

Mystery butt pain is gone (well at least for now). I was a bit gassy yesterday so maybe it was bm related??

 

[Squig34]

I hope those pains were a one - off ehj & don't come back; that sounds very scary.

Sorry to hear the update on your Gran, Mommy.

Hope the physio helps, Dory!

I had really painful RLP yesterday & last night. It made my back sore too & I couldn't get to sleep for ages as I was so uncomfortable. Thankfully it's gone now. I also think I felt more movements on Saturday & Sunday Scan tomorrow I'll be so relieved to have it, it's been a long wait this time.

 

[ehjmorris]

Ehj, hopefully you start feeling better today so glad baby is ok.

What does bh feel like?

Mystery butt pain is gone (well at least for now). I was a bit gassy yesterday so maybe it was bm related??

Apart from now ive never had them, but its like the start of labor when the cramps feel like period cramps except when it feels like a knife stabbing my uterus too

 

[mommyxofxone]

ej- i'm so sorry about your troubles in the hosp!! glad everything is seeming better now though!!!

Dory- i've been having some serious hip pain as well. going to be discussing with my mw on the 8th when i go. i'm concerned because i never had this with dd. ANd it's really bad this time, and i'm only half way. yikes.

my gram was able to answer the phone yesterday at the hosp and i got to talk to her, tell her we love her etc. even dd got to talk to her, which was really great for both of them. she knew us which was the best. Finding out what happens to her (where she goes from here) today.

 

[Dory85]

For me braxton hicks are when my bump goes really hard for a few seconds. Sometimes it feels really uncomfortable but it passes quickly. If you have the big O your uterus contracts so the way your bump feels then probably feels the same.

Sorry to hear you're also having hip pain Mommy. I think half of the problem is not knowing how much or quickly it will progress!

 

[mommyxofxone]

i agree dory. since this is my first time experiencing it, it's really odd. I had like nothing minus mornign leg cramps in second tri with dd. This one seems to be so different. i just hope it's phase and will disappear as fast as it came but... i also don't really expect that.

my bh contractions with dd were the same. tightening and upper belly. everything went hard. However, those are also the same contractions that started my labor when it was time. my mw told me i wasn't in labor. came in an hour after that phone call cause they weren't stopping and so close together. was admitted and had baby girl 9 hours later.

 

[iakyri]

Hello lovely ladies. I hope all is well with you.

I'm going through a hard time lately so I've been very distant from here and honestly I don't have the energy to go back and read all of what I've missed.

Short story is that I am temporarily staying with my grandparents (who raised me) while my husband gets the help that he needs from a therapist. Dealing with a separation while pregnant is definitely not easy :/ Going from living in my own house with my own rules and freedoms and with a sure-plan for the future to living in one-room at a house with other people and no idea if my marriage is going to fail is terrifying.

I hate that I have no place to put a real crib and that I can't do a nursery. I still have the house, where he's staying, but I don't want to put more money into things that I might not be able to keep if things go south, as I can't afford the house on my own.

On top of that, I got horrible news from my job that we're relocating 30 miles south (an hour+ commute) in only a month.

Sorry for the word-vomit. It's just... stressful and I don't really have anywhere else to vent, especially with the pregnancy involved.

 

[ehjmorris]

ej- i'm so sorry about your troubles in the hosp!! glad everything is seeming better now though!!!

Dory- i've been having some serious hip pain as well. going to be discussing with my mw on the 8th when i go. i'm concerned because i never had this with dd. ANd it's really bad this time, and i'm only half way. yikes.

my gram was able to answer the phone yesterday at the hosp and i got to talk to her, tell her we love her etc. even dd got to talk to her, which was really great for both of them. she knew us which was the best. Finding out what happens to her (where she goes from here) today.

Big hugs xx

 

[ehjmorris]

i agree dory. since this is my first time experiencing it, it's really odd. I had like nothing minus mornign leg cramps in second tri with dd. This one seems to be so different. i just hope it's phase and will disappear as fast as it came but... i also don't really expect that.

my bh contractions with dd were the same. tightening and upper belly. everything went hard. However, those are also the same contractions that started my labor when it was time. my mw told me i wasn't in labor. came in an hour after that phone call cause they weren't stopping and so close together. was admitted and had baby girl 9 hours later.

Yeah thats it, my belly would go hard but i mainly feel it in my uterus and then it will go loose and come back

 

[ehjmorris]

Hello lovely ladies. I hope all is well with you.

I'm going through a hard time lately so I've been very distant from here and honestly I don't have the energy to go back and read all of what I've missed.

Short story is that I am temporarily staying with my grandparents (who raised me) while my husband gets the help that he needs from a therapist. Dealing with a separation while pregnant is definitely not easy :/ Going from living in my own house with my own rules and freedoms and with a sure-plan for the future to living in one-room at a house with other people and no idea if my marriage is going to fail is terrifying.

I hate that I have no place to put a real crib and that I can't do a nursery. I still have the house, where he's staying, but I don't want to put more money into things that I might not be able to keep if things go south, as I can't afford the house on my own.

On top of that, I got horrible news from my job that we're relocating 30 miles south (an hour+ commute) in only a month.

Sorry for the word-vomit. It's just... stressful and I don't really have anywhere else to vent, especially with the pregnancy involved.

Im sorry your having such a difficult time right now and i do hope it gets better for you, sending bug hugs

 

[vaniilla]

iakyri - I'm really sorry to hear, it sounds you've got too much going on I really hope the therapy works for your DH and that you're able to work things out.

 

[Lavochain]

Hello lovely ladies. I hope all is well with you.

I'm going through a hard time lately so I've been very distant from here and honestly I don't have the energy to go back and read all of what I've missed.

Short story is that I am temporarily staying with my grandparents (who raised me) while my husband gets the help that he needs from a therapist. Dealing with a separation while pregnant is definitely not easy :/ Going from living in my own house with my own rules and freedoms and with a sure-plan for the future to living in one-room at a house with other people and no idea if my marriage is going to fail is terrifying.

I hate that I have no place to put a real crib and that I can't do a nursery. I still have the house, where he's staying, but I don't want to put more money into things that I might not be able to keep if things go south, as I can't afford the house on my own.

On top of that, I got horrible news from my job that we're relocating 30 miles south (an hour+ commute) in only a month.

Sorry for the word-vomit. It's just... stressful and I don't really have anywhere else to vent, especially with the pregnancy involved.

I'm sorry to hear of your troubles. I really hope that your husband gets better and you can relax more before LO is here. All the best.

 

[Starlight32]

Iakyri, sounds like a touch situation. Hopefully things turn around for the best.

I guess I've never felt bh. Does everyone get them? Sometimes my bump feels weird but I don't think it's bh; I think it just gets sore.