June, month of new beginnings! Thread for laughter, support and POAS! 19 BFP!

[twinkie2]

macy, you've got loads of time still! Don't give up already

 

[macydarling]

Thanks twinkie! Just one of those days. I just feel like crying, I know that is ridiculous! I also know plenty of other ladies have been trying longer than me so I shouldnt act so selfish but I just cant seem to shake this mood

 

[Ilovetomatoes]

Posted the wrong comment for the wrong thread!!! whoops.

Macy, I can relate. Let's wait together. A few more days for some of us. How long is your LP usually?

 

[twinkie2]

You have every right to take a moment for yourself, this is a hard process, despite how easy it seems for others, it is very stressing and if you don't time for yourself it will consume every moment. Do what you need to do, get a special dessert for yourself, do a little shopping, whatever will help pick up your spirits a bit again!

 

[confuzion]

Confuzion, that sounds like pregnancy hormones, no? Everything I see your siggy, I get super excited for you! 4 weeks and 1 day!!! OMG!

Lol I think it's more fear and paranoia based on my past than hormones. The hormones might be making it worse though.

Confuzion - I've got everything crossed for you that this is your sticky bean.

DH told me that as soon as I get a BFP he will purchase the paint for our nursery, even if it's not a sticky bean. He knows how much I thrive on planning and prepping.

Thanks n.miller. I'm a big planner too but have become a little superstitious/ I don't want to jinx this lately. But I look forward to feeling more comfortable doing more prepping

Macy - 7 DPO is so so early. I wouldn't even expect symptoms that early. Hang in there!

 

[macydarling]

Thank you so much ladies. I think I always just try so so hard to be positive and optimistic and the eventually all the anxiety and uncertainty just wells up and explodes. Being able to vent here helps so much. Sometimes my job, being a nanny, helps but lately it just makes me sad. Like Im tired of always being the nanny, never the mom. It just isnt the same...

Ok. Enough doom and gloom. Ilovetomatoes my luteal phase is usually 14 days? I believe? AF is due a week from today exactly.

Confuzion---I feel like I put a lot of unnecessary pressure on myself comparing every cycle to the symptoms I had with my bfp. I had symptoms early with that so then I get all discouraged like oh, no chance then. Im a little dramatic sometimes.

 

[confuzion]

I did the same. I swore up and down I was out this cycle. I got a BFP at 10 DPO with my previous pregnancies and this time I got a BFN and thought that it's it. It's done. I didn't feel pregnant either. I think it's a protective mechanism. We convince ourselves that we're out to soften the blow if we are.

It caught me by total surprise and I'm hoping the same happens for you!

 

[macydarling]

I did the same. I swore up and down I was out this cycle. I got a BFP at 10 DPO with my previous pregnancies and this time I got a BFN and thought that it's it. It's done. I didn't feel pregnant either. I think it's a protective mechanism. We convince ourselves that we're out to soften the blow if we are.

It caught me by total surprise and I'm hoping the same happens for you!

This gives me hope. Thank you! I also got my bfp at 10dpo last time. I am almost afraid to test early again. The bfns are such a slap in the face.
I am very happy for you though confuzion! Only a little jealous

 

[confuzion]

You'll be carrying that rainbow belly soon enough

 

[Ilovetomatoes]

Ladies, I have been curious and trying to find out how long does it takes for the blastocyst to implant. here is a little something that can hopefully help some of us and give us a little hope...just a little

"Just because the fertilised egg 'can' arrived in the womb at 5dpo it doesn't necessary mean it will immiediately start to implant, often the fertilised egg floats around for a while before decided to embed and dig itself in. It usually takes about a week on average for implantation to start but i can happen anywhere between 6dpo and 12dpo.

Implantation 'can' happen in as little as one day but can take up to 4 or 5 full days to complete and for the blatocyst to completely attach.It can then take a further 2 to 4 days for your kidneys to process the hcg and secrete it into your urine so it can be picked up on a HPT."

 

[macydarling]

Thanks tomatoes that is interesting to know! Kind of funny to imagine the little egg floating around in there!

Come on! Implant already! Lol.

 

[bluefish1980]

Well ladies, tomorrow I will be 10 DPO and I plan on testing. I do not expect to see a BFP but feel its a good day to start to POAS.

The baby psychic said 6 was a lucky day for me and tomorrow is 6th of the 6th so fingers crossed.........

Hope everyone is doing well.

 

[smiley4442]

Sorry about the Just remember your not out til that ugly shows!


So my OPK this morning was even lighter than yesterday (yay). So it's looking like that was my positive That makes today 1DPO, my 10DPO falls on June 14, thinking of waiting to test on June 15th-It would make a hell of a fathers day gift wouldn't it. Just a little scared and don't want another chemical.

Heres my schedule

CD5-PM
6-
7-pm
8-pm
9-pm
10-
11-(POS OPK)-Afternoon & PM
12-PM

Today I'm cd13 (1DPO) and we plan on tonight then tomorrow and going to try to do every other day the next week just in case.

 

[smiley4442]

Good luck Blue fish!!!

 

[fairyy]

Melly: Good BD and cycle day chart . How long your cycles are and when you ovulate ?

My cycles are 28/29day long. Few times it can be 30day, like this time I am expecting a 30day cycle based on my "O'' day on cd16.

cd10-No
cd11-PM
cd12-No
cd13-PM (ewcm)
cd14-No (ewcm)
cd15-PM (ewcm),(+opk)
cd16-No (ewcm),(+opk)

 

[macydarling]

Oooh not feeling quite right now, but more in the way of I think Im getting sick! My randomly runny nose and sneezing has now multiplied into a sore throat and coughing as well. I am terribly flushed and just felt so hot that I took my temp and it is 99.0. Not really a fever but still a but elevated. Im a little upset as I just dealt with a throat thing less than 2 weeks ago! I seem to always catch what the kids I nanny for have. They arent currently sick though. Who knows where I picked this yuk up! It is going to interrupt my symptom spotting Ugh.

 

[kwynia]

When I had the BFP in march i got a nasty stomach flu the day after O so it masked a lot of my symptoms that month. It was also acquired from one of my daycare kids

 

[KrissyB]

Good luck tomorrow, blue! FXed you get your !

 

[n.miller]

I'm 99% sure that I'm out for June. Been feeling menstrual cramps on and off all day.

 

[Lynny77]

So I just came back from my regular doctor regarding my blood work and my sugar is high. All that stress for sugar! Actually I'm glad that's the worst of it. I'm not much of a sugar person so it is strange- but I was drinking a coffee when I did the blood work and I'm wondering if that had something to do with it. Didn't that happen to you ILT?

Also, looks like my follicles are getting bigger and gearing up to ovulate. The fertility clinic wants me in everyday now until I ovulate which I'm suspecting will be sunday or monday. Still trying to shift my work schedule to accommodate it. I don't have time to work! I'm trying to make a baby! lol. Now my last worry is my hubby's SA results. Not sure when we'll get those.

Hope everyone is doing well! I didn't get a chance to scroll through the posts yet but I will