June Testers - Over 35 - 28%BFP

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Junebug , wishing you and your family strength and warmth for tomorrow .
Wendy , your baaaad ! Jax will get you :winkwink:
 
I wouldn't count yourself out just yet Junebug lol, those suckers can survive 3-5 days, so who knows :)
 
Wendy - hope the nasty bug passes soon and everyone feels better (and the cat stays clear!)

Bubba - when are you testing?? soon, I hope and FX'd its good!

June - again, I'm so sorry for your FIL loss. :hugs: but don't count yourself out yet....

lynlouc :happydance: big congrats!!!! yay! :wohoo:

Eve36 :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

AFM: another nausea-filled day...:dohh: but Charlie bought me the what to expect when your expecting book and put it in a gift bag and said it was from our little poppyseed.... he can make me smile even after throwing up. What a keeper! :kiss:

Hope we get some more BFPs in the last few days of the month! FX'd!
 
Awwww! Your Charlie is wonderful, no wonder you fell in love with him!

DH and I went out the weekend we found out and bought a big hardcover day by day of pregnancy book. He read me the next day each night when we go to bed!

The nausea started for me today but I kept it down. Am now afraid to eat lunch and am really hungry.
 
My friend who is 10 weeks found eating eased her nausea so may be worth a try :shrug:

Hope the MS goes for you ladies soon :hugs:
 
Thanks NMG , I'm Better after talking to hubby about how I was feeling being a bit crazy with the wait. It gets worse when I'm this close to knowing one way or the other. We've got a good relaxation plan for the evenings ( when I'm worse ) involving bubble baths , mindless magazines. We also talked about how far were willing to go along the interventions route. Unfortunately were moving so have to wait again for another fertility specialist appoint in Oz but well take the advice and go with that. We came to the conclusion well go as far as we can afford , which prob rules out ivf .
Hope the nausea eases , what a treasure Charlie is . Happy hugs
 
Well , so much for wondering driving me crazy , now I'll be entering the sad stage , that witch got me. :cry::cry::cry:
I've cried my heart out. After 12 months of well timed bd ing I'm just about out of all hope. Not just being negative I honestly don't know how many more times I can do this. Were so lucky. No matter what anyone says it must be harder when trying for first , I hate that any of you go through this for that first child.
We just always saw three sitting at our table , I feel like someones missing and I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
One things for sure I am so so glad I didn't test , physically can't bear to see another negative test.
Blub fest here sorry. For me every month it gets tougher and more painful. I think God is trying to tell us , time to give up start work on getting over it.
A lovely friend of mine gave up the dream of a third because she got serious post natal depression to the point of being sectioned. It took her a year to get over the grief of giving up.
Cant stand the thought of joining Julys thread. Maybe I'll never stop joining the next months thread. Really sorry to go on .
 
Bubba, so sorry you are out, it's so hard to keep going isn't it? Sending you lots of hugs and prayers x x :hugs:
 
Bubba3 said:
Well , so much for wondering driving me crazy , now I'll be entering the sad stage , that witch got me. :cry::cry::cry:
I've cried my heart out. After 12 months of well timed bd ing I'm just about out of all hope. Not just being negative I honestly don't know how many more times I can do this. Were so lucky. No matter what anyone says it must be harder when trying for first , I hate that any of you go through this for that first child.
We just always saw three sitting at our table , I feel like someones missing and I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
One things for sure I am so so glad I didn't test , physically can't bear to see another negative test.
Blub fest here sorry. For me every month it gets tougher and more painful. I think God is trying to tell us , time to give up start work on getting over it.
A lovely friend of mine gave up the dream of a third because she got serious post natal depression to the point of being sectioned. It took her a year to get over the grief of giving up.
Cant stand the thought of joining Julys thread. Maybe I'll never stop joining the next months thread. Really sorry to go on .
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bubba, youve had a crazy busy month of packing etc its a stressful time for you and im sorry its ended in a disappointing month with her showing ( i dont use her name)...of course a good blubbing session is what we need sometimes (clears the stress and toxins). big hugs from me, chin up and i will meet your ass over in the july thread. :flower:
 
Bubba :hugs:

Hang on in there, when you get back to Aus there are good doctors there and maybe its just something simple and fixable. And you must be insanely stressed right now with the move etc, so be kind to yourself

I think I'd agree with what you said about being more pressure for the first, if I don't achieve this then myself and OH will not be a Mum and Dad.
 
So sorry Bubba :hugs: - yes, maybe once you have made the move things will be clearer as moving to another country is such a stressful thing (been there!).

Do appreciate what you say about trying for first. Have seen a few people on here who don't realise that and already have a few but think it is the end of the world that they can't have another.

:hugs: :hugs:
 
Bubba - big hugs to you my lovely :hugs::hugs::hugs:. I don't think I can add much more that what the girls have written here....get back to Oz, get settled and then see what can be done, at least that will be a good thing as from what you've said living where you are isn't good for fertility treatment if that's what you need.

I often wonder whether it's worse going through this when you know what it's like to be a mum then when you don't...I mean us first timers can fantasise a bit about what it's like to be a mum but when you've never had it do you really know the heartache of not being able to add to your brood? I suspect not....

Be kind to yourself, dust yourself down and don't leave us, we'll miss you if you're not with us on the July board!!!

Loadsa luv
Jax x:kiss:x
 
Bubba,:hugs::hugs:So so sorry lovely,we all wanted this so much for u :hugs:and am sure u feel horrible but def dont give up :hugs::hugs::hugs:We are all here for u and wen u feel ready please cum back and join the July thread ,keep going every cycle brings u closer to your bfp,:hugs::hugs:And we do need u to keep jax and wooly in line,love ya babes,take care,:hugs::hugs:
 
Hi girls thank you one and all , from the bottom of my slightly sore heart. A few hours later the realization that this month hasn't worked , tears are done and i need to pick myself up a bit and stop feeling sorry for myself , for us.
I'd never ever want to cause a divide between ttc for a first or tenth for that matter . If anything I now have a new found a deep respect for you girls going through it to get your first baby. I feel like I should apologize to the world because only now do I get it. However , were a lot luckier than some . I just want this for my two imps as much as for us. I think I've placed this crazy pressure on myself because I hoped to crack it before 37 . This will be our last and I keep feeling like were running out of time. Which is stupid and doesn't help. I don't smoke am fit etc but yes the facts are fertility is an issue at our age. Not impossible though given all the lovely bfp here.
Hubby and I had a talk and we've decided enough enough of trying in the dark , time for intervention , and the whole range of tests. Then well go from there.
Thankyou again , feel a bit daft , but better perhaps just a wee bit bruised rather than broken.:blush:
Counting my blessings . Especially as hubby ( only just ) avoided a lorry that
lost it's load , they drive like loonies here ....blind loonies. Not going to get anywhere with this ttc nuttiness without him about that's for sure !:winkwink:
Thanks for putting up with me , seems your stuck with me for now. Bring on the July merry go round :wacko:
 
Bubba3 said:
Well , so much for wondering driving me crazy , now I'll be entering the sad stage , that witch got me. :cry::cry::cry:
I've cried my heart out. After 12 months of well timed bd ing I'm just about out of all hope. Not just being negative I honestly don't know how many more times I can do this. Were so lucky. No matter what anyone says it must be harder when trying for first , I hate that any of you go through this for that first child.
We just always saw three sitting at our table , I feel like someones missing and I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
One things for sure I am so so glad I didn't test , physically can't bear to see another negative test.
Blub fest here sorry. For me every month it gets tougher and more painful. I think God is trying to tell us , time to give up start work on getting over it.
A lovely friend of mine gave up the dream of a third because she got serious post natal depression to the point of being sectioned. It took her a year to get over the grief of giving up.
Cant stand the thought of joining Julys thread. Maybe I'll never stop joining the next months thread. Really sorry to go on .
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(((((bubba))))) I am so sorry she got you hun. I feel so close to you all on here that i am upset for you. :cry:
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Hi Bubba, glad you are going to get intervention towards your 3rd. Hope I didn't upset you by what I said, sometimes I just say it how it is and I'm not too good with words (or people!?£$!). Really hope you do get your third and complete your family and you have lots of time so don't pressure yourself :hugs: :hugs:

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Bubba3 said:
Well , so much for wondering driving me crazy , now I'll be entering the sad stage , that witch got me. :cry::cry::cry:
I've cried my heart out. After 12 months of well timed bd ing I'm just about out of all hope. Not just being negative I honestly don't know how many more times I can do this. Were so lucky. No matter what anyone says it must be harder when trying for first , I hate that any of you go through this for that first child.
We just always saw three sitting at our table , I feel like someones missing and I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
One things for sure I am so so glad I didn't test , physically can't bear to see another negative test.
Blub fest here sorry. For me every month it gets tougher and more painful. I think God is trying to tell us , time to give up start work on getting over it.
A lovely friend of mine gave up the dream of a third because she got serious post natal depression to the point of being sectioned. It took her a year to get over the grief of giving up.
Cant stand the thought of joining Julys thread. Maybe I'll never stop joining the next months thread. Really sorry to go on .
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So sorry bubba please don't give up see in July's thread! Massive hugs x
 
So.....Butterfly, blessedmom, Indigo, Tulipgirl, Redclaire, FionaJames - two days to go and counting!! What's 'appening?????????:shrug:

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