June Testers - Over 35 - 28%BFP

[lynlouc]

Oh Wendy im so sorry xxxx

 

[newmarriedgal]

Wendy - sending you peace, prayers and hugs

 

[tulip girl]

((Wendy)) so sorry, our posts before crossed and I didn't see your sad news. So so sorry. Thinking of you. x x x

 

[Macwooly]

Thanks everyone. I think its over, just had another BFN on a frer so my last hope that it was a dodgy test has gone. More spotting as well and a bit more red in colour. Not sure i could bring myself to do a digi and see those words. I can a positive on Frer last week so if they should be darker not fainter and practically non existant.

Its upsetting and i am truely devastated so is DH. I have some questions that i hope you can answer for me.

Is it a chemical or a MC ?
When i start bleeding (AF like) do i count that as cd1 and work out OV from there? This is never knowingly happened to me before and i really cant get my head around it but i wont give up. It just wasnt meant to be and we will keep trying and hope for that sticky BFP in the near future.

i think the worst part now is waiting on the inevitable.

Thank you all for your support.

Wendy
x

 

[hugs3409]

so sorry Wendy, maybe you should call your doctor

 

[newmarriedgal]

Macwooly - your current feeling is crappy....i think you need a too

 

[Macwooly]

Macwooly - your current feeling is crappy....i think you need a too

Thanks NMG

I have felt unwell all day but it's just the heat of the last few days affecting me but I started my day being then I've had nausea all day and I know it's not for any reason to get excited over

Sorry you're feeling unwell with MS but good that your poppyseed is making itself felt

 

[Indigo77]

Wendy....so sorry...

Early miscarriage / chemical pregnancy...pretty much the same thing...

My first bleed afterward was short and scant and the next one afterwards was very heavy and very long and early. I also ovulated early. But everyone is different. Many people here go for the SMEP right after a chemical and believe they are extra fertile...

Are you ok?

 

[Junebug_CJ]

Wendy I'm soooooo sorry
Agree with Indigo, "chemical pregnancy" just means very early miscarriage...

 

[Bubba3]

Wendy , sweets maybe try and get to an early pregnancy clinic. With my first I sat in a bath bleeding crying and praying convinced it was all over. I didn't sleep that night and went to the clinic, they scanned me and it turned out I had a haematoma ( like a bruise ) but the sac was still fine. I'm not trying to give false hope sweetie or telling you what to do. An early pregnancy clinic will be able to help you honey.
I'm still praying it's not mc. Take care lovely.

 

[Desperado167]

Wendy,am so so sorry Hun,

 

[Desperado167]

Bubba, wooly,indigo, jax ,

 

[Desperado167]

Indigo ,best of luck , ,didn't realise u were that close to testing,

 

[GreenFingers]

Wendy I'm so sorry to hear your news...sending hugs and prayers x

 

[Wendyk07]

Thank you all for your kind works and support.

It now feels like the start of AF this morning so i am going to count today at CD1. Its heartbreaking and i have cried buckets but i now need to get my act together and get back on the ttc bus.

Hope that doesnt sound callous. Losing this bean has made me more determined to try everything possible to get that sticky BFP and if possble makes me want a baby more.

You truely are a great bunch of girls.

Wendy
x

 

[Wendyk07]

Congratulations Redclaire


Good luck all testers for today.

x

 

[Desperado167]

Thank you all for your kind works and support.

It now feels like the start of AF this morning so i am going to count today at CD1. Its heartbreaking and i have cried buckets but i now need to get my act together and get back on the ttc bus.

Hope that doesnt sound callous. Losing this bean has made me more determined to try everything possible to get that sticky BFP and if possble makes me want a baby more.

You truely are a great bunch of girls.

Wendy
x

Awwwwww Wendy ,I really hope u get a sticky bean soon,I really admire u for pulling yourself rite up again ,well done,love and prayers

 

[Butterfly67]

Thank you all for your kind works and support.

It now feels like the start of AF this morning so i am going to count today at CD1. Its heartbreaking and i have cried buckets but i now need to get my act together and get back on the ttc bus.

Hope that doesnt sound callous. Losing this bean has made me more determined to try everything possible to get that sticky BFP and if possble makes me want a baby more.

You truely are a great bunch of girls.

Wendy
x

Wendy. It's very strong of you to get back on the bus and good that this sad event has made you even more determined, I wish you lots of baby for next month.

The got me this morning (2 days late) so let me know what your feelings are about the July thread xxx

 

[Jax41]

So.....Butterfly, blessedmom, Indigo, Tulipgirl, Redclaire, FionaJames - two days to go and counting!! What's 'appening?????????

Jax have a nose here https://www.babyandbump.com/trying-conceive-over-35/655581-help-before-lose.html for news on Redclaire

I've congratulated her on that thread, what a wally I am!!!x

 

[Jax41]

Thank you all for your kind works and support.

It now feels like the start of AF this morning so i am going to count today at CD1. Its heartbreaking and i have cried buckets but i now need to get my act together and get back on the ttc bus.

Hope that doesnt sound callous. Losing this bean has made me more determined to try everything possible to get that sticky BFP and if possble makes me want a baby more.

You truely are a great bunch of girls.

Wendy
x

Ohhh Wendy no, I can so feel your sadness and disappointment but also your determination to get that sticky BFP. Go girl, you've proved your worth, you've done it before and you can do it again!!! Just for the moment though, give yourself some kindness yea? Sending you lots of luv and xXx