Just found out I'm pregnant.... 15 and scared!:(

[iamexpecting]

Hey obviously I'm new to this but I was searching the Internet and found this. This looks like a really nice supportive community and that's exactly what I need right now! I'm extremely scared and I don't know what to tell my mom cause I know that 15 is just too young is there anyone here that young? How did you guys tell your parents and when? And how did you get through it? Feeling overwhelmed

 

[x__amour]

First and foremost, congratulations on your pregnancy and welcome to BnB.
I'm Shannon, 20, and I have a 21 month old named Victoria "Tori"!

As for your age, there are definitely those around who have had babies around that age. It'll be okay though, I promise. Tell your parents face-to-face and soon, they need to know and will respect you more for it.

Always here if you need to talk!

 

[lunar]

Hello, welcome! First off, congrats. You'll find the ladies here really sweet and supportive and always willing to answer any question(s) you have.

I'm not the same age, I'm 19, but I can relate to the part about being young and scared. There are other ladies here around your age, though!

I told my parents face-to-face, starting with my stepmom. I was pretty much crying the entire time and then we went and told my dad. He was really livid, but he's come around more now. My stepmom has been a huge help and support from day one, she started with helping my book appointments and things like that. I personally think it's best to tell your parents directly, but I know that's really hard for a lot of people.

Do you have a doctor you can go to? It's really important to get checked up on, the sooner the better for you and baby. I hope you're doing okay, you're always welcome to message me.

 

[iamexpecting]

Thank you, your daughter is beautiful

 

[iamexpecting]

Thank you lunar. Idk how to message yet hehe

 

[lunar]

Thank you lunar. Idk how to message yet hehe

I think you have to get a few more posts or something, but when you do, you can click my (or anyones haha) username and it'll have the option to message.

 

[iamexpecting]

Okay! Thanks

 

[ClairAye]

:wave: Congratulations and Welcome!

I'm Clair, I'm 17 and my son, Jason is 12 weeks old tomorrow

It's best just to sit your mum down and tell her, the sooner the better Feel free to drop me a message!

Also there are a few 14-16 year olds on here so closer in age to you

 

[Mickey1994]

Welcome and congrats!

My name is Mickey. I'm 17 years old and I have a 6 week old son named Gabriel.

The sooner you tell your parents the better. They can start getting used to the idea of being grandparents and they can help you make doctors appointments. I told my parents face-to-face, but some find it easier to write a letter or note explaining the situation. My mom was very disappointed, but also extremely supportive. My father didn't talk to me for weeks after I told him, but he eventually came around and he loves my son now.

It's not easy, but it has to be done. Your parents won't be too happy at first, but they'll come around.

Good luck!

 

[ImATeenMommy]

Hi! I am 16 years old so not much older than you. Unfortunately someone found out and told my parents before I had the chance. They are very angry with me obviously but everyone reacts different. I am working on finding a place to stay, my boyfriends mom won't let me stay there anymore because she doesn't want to get between me and my parents. They won't let me live under their roof unless I have an abortion. It is really scary but with support you will get through it. My only support system is this website right now so it is super helpful to me and you'll get your questions answered

 

[Miss1997]

Hey , welcome to bnb and congrats
Im stacey, im also 15 , 25 weeks pregnant with a little boy
I told my mum straight away and instead of going mad she was very supportive she was scared about telling my dad probably more then i was , we all sat down and spoke about it and my dad wanted me to have a abortion at first but when i refused there was nothing he could do , ( i told them at 6 werks!) my dad bow buys my little man everything ! He seems mote excited than my OH and myself :L dont worry , if your planning to keep your bubba ,dont let anyone upset you as its your choice , dont let anyone force you into something you might regret later , good luck with your pregnancy , pm me if youd like to chat xx

 

[MacyClara]

Congratulations. I'm Macy, 19 and my daughter Mila is 26 months. Have you told the father yet? How far along are you? Telling your parents won't be fun but you need to do it sooner rather than later. Best of luck.

 

[iamexpecting]

Congratulations. I'm Macy, 19 and my daughter Mila is 26 months. Have you told the father yet? How far along are you? Telling your parents won't be fun but you need to do it sooner rather than later. Best of luck.

i did tell the father, he wants to stay with me through it and help, idk if he will stay once the baby is born though

 

[youngmumtobe3]

Hey, welcome and congratulations on your pregnancy
I got pregnant 2 months before my 16th birthday, and turned 16 when I was about 12-13 weeks pregnant. My mum was angry at first and she kicked me out but she came around, and now she won't stop buying stuff for LO! I'm 15 weeks and she's already bought a pram, bassinette, countless clothes and put a car seat on lay-by. My dad found out through my facebook, I haven't spoken to him or his side of the family in 3 years so they haven't said anything about it to me although they talk to my mum all the time about it.
Tell your parents face to face, I regret not telling my mum face to face. But the sooner you do it the better it will be. I'm in the same situation as you pretty much, message me if you ever need to talk.
Good luck xx

 

[lil lovey]

:wave: Hi and congrads to you. I'm 17 years old and pregnant but I know exactly how you feel. When I first found out I was so flippin scared I couldn't even believe that it was happening to me. I told mom the next day after finding out. I think its just better to tell your parents soon. hope all goes well

 

[mummynummy]

hey and welcome im 18 i got pregnant at 17, im now 22+2 when i found out i was pregnant i phoned my mum straight away she was in the car with my nan and i said i was pregnant my mum couldnt believe it and my nan was like oh god, but now everyone is really looking forward to seeing my daughter when she comes that is xD i think you should just come out with it and say im keeping the baby, they will have to accept it as your there daughter, i think its really mean that parents kick there daughters out cause there pregnant its not on, i was lucky enough to be living on my own with my daughter daddy, you should stand your ground if they see your strong and willing to have this baby then they might think well she really considering it keep positive and if anything goes wrong just think your gonna have a little angel at the end good luck and keep us updated xx

 

[MrsEngland]

Congrats and welcome to bnb

I'm Beth, 21 and have a 19 month old named Delilah 'D' and I'm 26 weeks preggo with my 2nd daughter.

There are defo some girls round here of your age.

 

[Miss1997]

How far gone are you ? X

 

[nicoleJOLIE]

hey im nicole and im 17 , my daughter Cianna is 6 months old next week


i was 16 when ifound out i was pregnant so i can totally relate .. i told my dad first and thought he was gonna flip shit on me ! but actually was really nice and just hugged , talked about my options then we told my mom . i definitely understand how you're feeling and you can message me if you want to talk

all the girls here are so nice & soooo supportive and will answer any of your questions or just be here to listen

 

[thefirstbaby]

Have you told your parents yet. Update us. .

Everything will be ok. Congrats.