Just found out I'm pregnant.... 15 and scared!:(

[tntrying22]

Just wanted to say I hope everything goes well - I am definitely not a teen going through this but I wanted to say that I hope that you get support from your parents but if you don't make sure you find support in a friend, extended family member etc. to help support you emotionally. I agree the sooner the better for telling them. And you may want to try to think through the questions they might ask you ahead of time - like, what will the baby daddy's involvement be? How will you finish school? Who will watch the baby if you work or go to school? You may not know all the answers but if you can at least put together a little bit of a plan it will show them that you are being responsible and thinking through how to take care of LO. Good luck to you hun!

 

[haydenmummy]

Heyy welcome to B&B xx
I was 15 when I fell pregnant with my son I was so scared I kept saying to my self I'm too young for a baby but once I fort about it I fort its my fault so I have to stick up to my resposabiltys and then I started getting excited and now I love my son to death and wouldn't ever change it his a clever lil gurjuzz 3 year old now and I couldn't be more happy being a mum its the best thing I have ever done. I told my mum a day after I found out and I said to her I'm so sorry mum I'm scared and dunno how to say this I started crying and she huged me and said wat ever it is we will cope with it and get frow it and I said I'm pregnant she just froze and said what so I said it again and she just looked so disapointed and I just walked away crying then she came in my room and asked me what. Wanted to do and I was like I don't know but after a nights sleep she said we will cope and then she grew to the fact I was going to have a baby she said to me she was scared for me cause she knew how selfish I was but the min I saw my baby on the screen I knew I could do it and so did she xx the longer you hide it the harder it gets to tell her cause the feeling gets to you that your hiding something from the ones you love xx

 

[Unknownstar]

Im even younger then u! Well almost 14. Im super scared right now and still havent told my parents. Only my bf knows and hes being supportive which is helpful. Still need more ppl 2 talk 2. Im going o tell my mom tmrw cuz tmrw im 7 weeks and I'll start showing. So before ppl start talking, im gonna tell her. It was my first time having 'it' and by mistake too. Im feeling so nervous, i dont know how my mom will react. She'll be rlly mad but better sooner then later and i made the mistake, i have to face the problems.

 

[HaileysMommy1]

Hey hun, welcome, and as you can see you're not alone! I had just turned 17 when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter. It was the scariest thing in the world, but everything turned out more than fine, and I now have a healthy, happy 3 year old! Do you have any support? Are you going to stay in school? My high school had a daycare so I was able to stay in school and graduate with all A's, and then went off to college. I will now be graduating college in May, and have maintained a high GPA, all while being a single mommy! So I proved everyone and all the statistics wrong, and you can too if you really want to! Let us know if you have any questions!

 

[kpk]

Im even younger then u! Well almost 14. Im super scared right now and still havent told my parents. Only my bf knows and hes being supportive which is helpful. Still need more ppl 2 talk 2. Im going o tell my mom tmrw cuz tmrw im 7 weeks and I'll start showing. So before ppl start talking, im gonna tell her. It was my first time having 'it' and by mistake too. Im feeling so nervous, i dont know how my mom will react. She'll be rlly mad but better sooner then later and i made the mistake, i have to face the problems.

It's very mature of you to tell your mother in person. Don't worry, you probably won't be showing for a while. My best friend was pregnant at 15 and has a very small frame and she didn't start showing any bloat or anything until about 3-4 months.

 

[xforuiholdonx]

Hey there and welcome! My name is Lisa, 20, and I have a 2 year old named Emma.
Firstly, congratulations on your pregnancy. As for telling your parents, just be straight forward. I was 16 when I fell pregnant, and told them the day before my 17th birthday. They were great. Everyone takes ot differently. Good luck!

 

[seraphina]

Hey I'm nearly 15 and my LO is nearly one. I know what you're going through its scary but everyone here is great if you ever need to talk! This site really helped me when I was pregnant!!
Feel free to pm me if you want to chat
Xoxo

 

[faronsmom]

Hi and congrats
I was 17 when I became pregnant I am now 20. I told my mother its best just to get it out and my mother told my father. He was very unhappy of course but after about a week he warmed up to the idea and he became very supportive. If you need anything you can email me at me personal email. I cannot pm n here yet either.

 

[faronsmom]

if you need to talk also you can contact me

 

[lilredskittle]

I am 23 now, but I got pregnant with my son when I was 15 and had him at 16. It will be very hard but will be made a bit easier if you have a lot of emotional support.

 

[jessickah]

Congrats !

 

[Cassandra1995]

Welcome to the site, I was 16 when I got pregnant with my first, had her at 17, now I'm 17 and expecting #2, I'll be 18 when my 2nd is born. But I had to tell my parents both times, the first time it didn't go good I got kicked out of the house and at first I was just so lost and confused but as time went on it got better, my parents supported me after awhile. My boyfriend (my daughter's real dad) and me broke up and I found out I was pregnant about two weeks later, he told me he don't want nothing to do with me or the baby and to f off. So I took that sign and split, then I was hanging out with my best friend one night, she had her boyfriend with her and we went over to her boyfriend's friend's sister's house where her boyfriend's friend was, well I got flirting with her boyfriend's friend and we got together and he supported me the rest of the way through my pregnancy and is the father of the baby in my belly now. It's hard at first especially with my situation but you just have to go with the flow that's what I did and it's gone alright. If you need anyone to talk to please befriend me and don't be afraid to ask me anything, I went through a rough time early in my pregnancy with my daughter so I know how it is. I love giving advice and would love to chat with you so feel free to befriend me.

Cassandra

 

[Mummy2B21]

congratulations hun it wont be as bad as it seems.

 

[Ktm2012]

congrats and welcome ! i'm 19 but there are plenty of girls 15-16 on here .

 

[jozylynn896]

I'm 16 and 22 weeks pregnant. I was 15 when I got pregnant. I was scared but more excites I guess. My mom really didn't care and my dad is not in my life. I think you should just LLC themm though they'll have more time to get used to it and accept it. Co gray's!!

 

[BabyMa2O13]

I am also 15, and I am also pregnant, I am 3 weeks pregnant, I haven't told my mom either!

 

[Abeera]

Hi!

Congrats on your pregnancy.

I'm Abeera, I'm 17 years old and almost 6 weeks. Being scared is normal. I haven't told my parents yet and being scared is all I do all day.

 

[Otis]

Congrats on your pregnancy hun! I just turned 17 when I became pregnant, and when I have LO I'll almost be 18. I didn't really have to tell my mom, she already had a feeling before I had any clue! When I confirmed it with her she was really supportive and helped me tell my dad, who's a really conservative, old-fashioned person. He just seemed in a daze for awhile, but after coming to terms he started buying a ton of stuff for LO. So I would definitely tell your parents whenever you feel comfortable, they may surprise you. And if you need anyone to talk to, send me a message. I know its overwhelming, but you'll be okay!

 

[JBeansprout]

Hello! I'm fifteen, and 27w1d pregnant with a baby girl named lily
I was fifteen when I got pregnant, and will still be fifteen when she's born.
I found out at the doctors office when I was getting my birth control refilled, and they had to tell my mom since Im under sixteen.
Welcome to bnb
Everyone is really nice and supportive
And congratualtions on your baby!

 

[little_lissy]

Not sure where you are?

I'm 17 and I am 32+1 with a daughter. I don't get on with my parents anyway but I told them and (blessing in disguise!) they kicked me out. Ended up staying with my grandparents for a few weeks and they gave me some money for me to get my own place- I'm lucky and I realise it.

I'm not saying its going to be daisies and rainbows when you tell your parents- but it's your baby and you have to make the decisions and you don't know what is going to happen until you tell them.

I'm assuming your still at school? Maybe a first port of call is to talk to a trusted teacher and take it from there.

Good luck- make the decisions for you and nobody else!