Just need to VENT!

[terces]

Today I found out that my friends BARELY 15 year old is pregnant! I've been trying for 13 months now (I realize that's nothing compared to some of the lovely ladies on here) and still haven't seen that BFP. I wanted to scream! I realize more and more that life's not fair. I have a home, a loving husband and want a baby! Then, people feel the need to advise me "just don't think about it so much and you'll get pregnant!" Please tell me how one puts out of their mind what they want most? I did try today to be supportive of my friend and her daughter, but it was hard. When they left I was so angry I wanted to hit something. I had to compose myself and get myself calmed down. I got calmed down quickly, but still have this ache in my heart.

 

[WrightMom2be]

I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. I know exactly how you are feeling. I hope you get your very soon!!

 

[carelove07]

I know the feeling. I just wish the people that would be good parents would just be able to have babies! I know there is so many women who would make awesome parents, that struggle to have babies...then there are women who don't want children, and are going to struggle with their baby. Life just isn't fare sometimes.

 

[Armywife84]

Ugh, I agree. Those pregnant teens tee me off. It was drilled into our heads at a young age that we have sex, we can get pregnant. Not the case for us LTTCers, eh? Hell, if I would have known how hard it was I probably would've started trying right out of high school. Well, most likely not.

I know it's upsetting but I really feel sorry for the unborn baby. Plus, that girl just flushed the rest of her future down the toilet. Just an unfortunate situation.

 

[Rigi.kun]

I know it's upsetting, falling pregnant is all about luck. Here's a real nasty thought that I had when a woman who bullied me at school fell pregnant

Spoiler

Teens get heavily cristiscied by others, especially her peers. The names she will be called and the taunts that they will make up will be horrid. The likelyhood of the father sticking around to help her is low and she'll have to live with for the rest of her life

it's terrible that I felt that way about another person. But it made me feel better.

 

[Damita]

 

[terces]

Thanks ladies! I love the support on this site!

 

[LizMcD]

I know how you feel, i've seen endless amounts of friends and colleagues now get preg who 'weren't even trying' or are 'not ready'! My cousin had a baby last year, totally unplanned (age 20) and was scared to tell us in case we were ashamed of her (?!), if only she know my real feelings.... jealous!!!!!!!

We will get our day....
xx

 

[mg80]

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[cooch]

I know its not fair. I have heard just about everyone who is in the position to be and some not (1teenager) get pregnant this year. I really don't think there is anyone now who isn't. Its now water off a duck's back to me, as everyone in the world could get pregnant it doesn;t make a difference to me, it's still not me.

You just have to think whoever is pregnant is not stopping you from getting pregnant, you still can and will get your baby. Unfortunately for some we just have to be patient

 

[LizMcD]

You're so right cooch because we want what is coming our way, not what everyone else has. We want our little own bundles.

Xx