just plain sad

[irmastar]

hi girls...if theres anybody reading this i think i'm just willing to give up on ttc #2. on tuesday i posted some pictures of what I and some other girls from the forum tought would be the beginning of my BFP, a test showing what it looked like a faint positive...but today i started spotting mildly, i know this is the beginnig of my period that will show up on friday for sure. im just desperate im going through alot why do i keep having all this pregnancy symptoms but every month AF ends up showing? DH was in the hospital for the night asthma related problems and i was there with him but my mind going around thinking of my beautiful faint positive pregnancy test, and today im here crying my heart out just writing in here to take all my feelings out, and ready to stop trying i dont know if i can go another month feeling like this

 

[caity86]

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[CuddleBunny]

I'm so sorry hun

Have you tested again since spotting? We are all here for you sweetie

 

[Olivermsmummy]

 

[socitycourty]

Sorry to hear that, keep your chin up

 

[irmastar]

thank u so much girls, it means alot to feel support from u. no i havent tested again cuddle bunny but if the spotting keeps being light and my period doesnt show today ill try to test again tomorrow and again on friday if its needed.

 

[wifey1988]

 

[Impatientfor2]

So sorry - don't give up!! And definitely retest. I hope your bfp sticks!

 

[21Rach]

*hugs* good luck hun xxxx

 

[TaurusBaby]

hi girls...if theres anybody reading this i think i'm just willing to give up on ttc #2. on tuesday i posted some pictures of what I and some other girls from the forum tought would be the beginning of my BFP, a test showing what it looked like a faint positive...but today i started spotting mildly, i know this is the beginnig of my period that will show up on friday for sure. im just desperate im going through alot why do i keep having all this pregnancy symptoms but every month AF ends up showing? DH was in the hospital for the night asthma related problems and i was there with him but my mind going around thinking of my beautiful faint positive pregnancy test, and today im here crying my heart out just writing in here to take all my feelings out, and ready to stop trying i dont know if i can go another month feeling like this

You shouldn't give up!
I recently read somewhere that after ovulation, progesterone produces symptoms very simillar to pregnancy symptoms whether or not fertilization has happened. Once I learned this I have decided not to consider any symptoms during tww until AF due date has passed and/or a test confirms pregnancy. I think this way it reduces the expectations and you don't have to drive yourself crazy spotting symptoms that are normal part of the ovulation cycle. I think we are more sensitive to these symptoms as we are TTC and may not have much attention to them previously.
Progesterone sucks and just wants to torture us all the time!

 

[ellie27]

Dont give up.....I know lots of women who have bled heavily at various points during pregnancy and still gave birth at the end.

I had a heavy gush of bright red blood that soaked through my underwear at just 5wks pregnant and things are going fine here.

 

[Casperess]

As has been said, some women do bleed during pregnancy so try not to feel too disheartened yet.

I'm definetly not going to be symptom spotting this month. I've tried Soy, I will use my opks and conceive + But then after Ovulation i'm turning my brain off to babies.

I hope you get your bfp soon x

 

[IrishGirl]

Awe hun Massive hugs to you xoxox.Please dont give up.I know how hard it gets x xIt took us 5.5 years to concieve this lil 1.Take a breather and im praying when you retest its a nice strong BFP.Im here if you ever need me you can pm mexoxox

 

[irmastar]

hi girls...if theres anybody reading this i think i'm just willing to give up on ttc #2. on tuesday i posted some pictures of what I and some other girls from the forum tought would be the beginning of my BFP, a test showing what it looked like a faint positive...but today i started spotting mildly, i know this is the beginnig of my period that will show up on friday for sure. im just desperate im going through alot why do i keep having all this pregnancy symptoms but every month AF ends up showing? DH was in the hospital for the night asthma related problems and i was there with him but my mind going around thinking of my beautiful faint positive pregnancy test, and today im here crying my heart out just writing in here to take all my feelings out, and ready to stop trying i dont know if i can go another month feeling like this

You shouldn't give up!
I recently read somewhere that after ovulation, progesterone produces symptoms very simillar to pregnancy symptoms whether or not fertilization has happened. Once I learned this I have decided not to consider any symptoms during tww until AF due date has passed and/or a test confirms pregnancy. I think this way it reduces the expectations and you don't have to drive yourself crazy spotting symptoms that are normal part of the ovulation cycle. I think we are more sensitive to these symptoms as we are TTC and may not have much attention to them previously.
Progesterone sucks and just wants to torture us all the time!

thank u so much ill try to follow your advise... and well af showed up but for this month ill try to buy royal jelly and bee pollen see how it goes

 

[irmastar]

Dont give up.....I know lots of women who have bled heavily at various points during pregnancy and still gave birth at the end.

I had a heavy gush of bright red blood that soaked through my underwear at just 5wks pregnant and things are going fine here.

wow thanks for letting me know

 

[irmastar]

As has been said, some women do bleed during pregnancy so try not to feel too disheartened yet.

I'm definetly not going to be symptom spotting this month. I've tried Soy, I will use my opks and conceive + But then after Ovulation i'm turning my brain off to babies.

I hope you get your bfp soon x

thanks i havent try soy since i have hypothyroidism i cant use it but ill try royal jelly and bee pollen for me and hubby ppl say it takes 3 months to start working but hey i have waited 6 months now so what harm can it do right? lol

 

[irmastar]

Awe hun Massive hugs to you xoxox.Please dont give up.I know how hard it gets x xIt took us 5.5 years to concieve this lil 1.Take a breather and im praying when you retest its a nice strong BFP.Im here if you ever need me you can pm mexoxox

thank u so much. wow 5.5 years u give me hope, now my sister in law thinks shes pregnant while she wasnt even trying to conceive ugh but im just gonna try royal jelly and bee pollen but im not gonna be all crazy ttc and im actually not gonna be keeping track of my fertile days im just gonna make love with DH whenever we feel like it, maybe thats what we need

 

[immie]

This probably isn't necessarily the way for everyone but i felt like giving up and do you know what i did. I'd got so obsessed with my clearblue fertility monitor and trying to work out perfect times to BD. So i decided to just put the monitor away and to only BD when me and OH felt like it. Funnily enough, this month, the month i gave up, was the month that got me my BFP after months of disappointing BFN. Not saying give up, just saying if you do take a step back from all the stress of ttc and relax a bit more then that could be the answer. It was for me and is for a lot of people

Good luck xxx

 

[savannah09]

Dont give up!
So sorry to hear about that. Fingers crossed for you.