banana1011
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So, a few close friends and my mom know we're ttc (my mom and I are VERY close). And the 1 friend who just had a baby completely knows what we're going thru with the TTC journey...she was there and understands. But then I have 2 friends who have not TTC and have NO idea what we go through. Between them and my mom (who had her babies before turning 25 and was fertile myrtle)...their coined phrase is...
"Just relax. You're trying too hard."
Relax, yes...but just relax...no. Sitting back and relaxing (which is nearly impossible) will NOT get me a BFP. And WTF does that mean...trying too hard? Now, I know that I'm insane right now in the 2ww, but come on. It's not like while in the bedroom, I remind my DH that we're trying to make a baby! We don't "try" too hard in the bedroom! DH and I want a baby, and we really enjoy our sex lives atm because, well, we're boinking like rabbits! And it's fun! Trying too hard....phfff.
"Just relax. You're trying too hard."
Relax, yes...but just relax...no. Sitting back and relaxing (which is nearly impossible) will NOT get me a BFP. And WTF does that mean...trying too hard? Now, I know that I'm insane right now in the 2ww, but come on. It's not like while in the bedroom, I remind my DH that we're trying to make a baby! We don't "try" too hard in the bedroom! DH and I want a baby, and we really enjoy our sex lives atm because, well, we're boinking like rabbits! And it's fun! Trying too hard....phfff.