Hi, Just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Sara and i live in Kitchener Ontario Canada. I have been married for 1.5 years by DH and i have been together for 9 years. We bought a house last may and i have been bugging him every month not to go back on my bc after my . Last weekend he finally agreed on the condition that i could go off the bc, but no actually baby making for a couple of months due to our current financial situation (make lots of money - have none left over). I have been on bc for 10 years straight now. I started with 8 years on depo provera (which i loved at the time but now regret) and then 1 year of the pill and finally the last year i have been using the nuva ring. I figure it will take my body a while to adjust to not being on bc and wont be able to get preggo right away. I have NO idea what my cycle is.... i have been on bc so long i don't recall what it is my body does naturally so these first couple of months are gonna be a learning curve... and basically to avoid a there is no for me until i have it figured out. Today i bought a digital bb thermometer and joined fertilityfriend.com... the first step to figure out when i O. the next step is to put some of our hard earned moola in the bank! so no shopping for me for a while - but it will be totally worth it. I decorate cakes on the side and today i am doing a lightening mcqueen cake for my neighbours grandson. It looks awesome so far, but i needed a little break and i've been lurking here for a while so I just wanted to say Hi.