floridasian
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Hi all,
D&H and I just started TTC#1 this month (mid cycle). CD1 was July 4th and I just started charting three days ago but I have been recording my AF arrival dates for the last 7 months and they were all around 26-27 days (with one exception of 25 days). Since I don't have much data to go by I assumed I would O around CD13 and we BD'ed on CD11,12,14 (today is CD15). I haven't been checking my CM either until three days ago but I haven't noticed any changes in CM.
DH and I aren't normally that active so I guess my question is how much longer should we continue to BD this cycle? I have no idea whether I ovulated this cycle yet (or will be at all). It's quite exhausting and I feel like I'm treating him like a dud with all that frequent BD and quite embarrassed too to initiate it myself all the time now. Should I just treat this cycle as a test and focus on the next one? Is it even worth it at this point to start using OPK's this cycle? Since I hit my 35th birthday last month I really feel the clock ticking (especially with my mother and my grandmother hitting menopause at the age of 45 & 40 respectively!)
Lots of newbie questions! Sorry!
Thanks in advance.
D&H and I just started TTC#1 this month (mid cycle). CD1 was July 4th and I just started charting three days ago but I have been recording my AF arrival dates for the last 7 months and they were all around 26-27 days (with one exception of 25 days). Since I don't have much data to go by I assumed I would O around CD13 and we BD'ed on CD11,12,14 (today is CD15). I haven't been checking my CM either until three days ago but I haven't noticed any changes in CM.
DH and I aren't normally that active so I guess my question is how much longer should we continue to BD this cycle? I have no idea whether I ovulated this cycle yet (or will be at all). It's quite exhausting and I feel like I'm treating him like a dud with all that frequent BD and quite embarrassed too to initiate it myself all the time now. Should I just treat this cycle as a test and focus on the next one? Is it even worth it at this point to start using OPK's this cycle? Since I hit my 35th birthday last month I really feel the clock ticking (especially with my mother and my grandmother hitting menopause at the age of 45 & 40 respectively!)
Lots of newbie questions! Sorry!
Thanks in advance.