I think the comparison is the hardest thing. Like, you're the only one in your family who doesn't have a boy! People want us to have a boy so I feel like I should want a boy but I really want 3 girls. And I'll say from experience that giving your DD a sister will be a sweet experience! And if you're thinking of 5 kiddos there better be a boy in there... although a momma in our May birth group is having her 5th pink bundle, and she really wanted a boy this time too. Hugs xx