hey i`m new here , but i feel wanna share my story i did read hundreds of articles forums, where some women gets hpt N and also blood test negative
my name is carmen and currently 29, i turn 30 in 2 months
i have a stable relashionship for over 6 years , i had just him during all relashionship, 4 years ago acciddently we got pregnant , bad time ever!!! i got fired from work 1 week earlier before he s company failled on market , so was shut down…. how i found out??? i was bloated and his aunt said ” are you pregnant? hell no i said i had period , and i even tested myself 2 weeks ago , she turns head on me again , well take another one to be sure” ok i said i will , will be nagative anyway , in that few days i was spotting very little and sneezing , thought is a cold ,thats all . so i pee in a glass , put inside a cheap stick , and voilla popped 2 darkkkkkkk lines , i started to cryyyyyyyy i was happy and upset!!!!in same time , she asked me how i feel what future to offer him , no job etc ” so i went to gyn , he palpated me and he said well looks like u over 1 month and half, i told him why????? i had period!!!! impossible , that big bby is? he said yes ” well short story i did abortion , dont judge me , i came from a poor family and city , got fired i was scared , didnt want to have a baby that hates me because hes not happy like other kids , because thats how i felt when i was young, bullied at school , beated , etc etc….. i cried every single day , even went to church to talk to priest and make him understand i regret this , and hope my bby is an angel up there , he did forgived me and told me to be carefull in life”
so here we are present for this 4 yrs we had sex daily weekly more or less and my period was regulated more or so but he never cum in me , always pulling out , and on december 2016 he said babe i`m ready to be a father i know u wish aswell , let`s try!!! even 4 yrs ago doctor said i might not get pregnant ever ??? wtf!!!!
so from december till february regulate cycle in same fucking day!!!! 03.12.2016/03.01.2017/03.02.2017 than boom march late 7 days 10.03.2017 i said well february was damn short so yea is normal , even in march felt really ill like never felt before!! bad crap , huge flow blackish blood was horribleeee , weird so last few days max 5 days i have cycle , never spotting before cycly , just cramping a day or 2 before PMS to start.
ok so on 07.04.2017 i go to a gyn and ask her to see maybe i`m pregnant?? because i thought period will arrive on 03.04.2017 she said nope nothing lady , all good , i told about late period heavy flow, she said” well u had a menstrual abortion” what??? or “hormonal issues” i did also bloood test in same date 07.04.2017 and came negative in few days…… next day after i started spotting!!!08.04.2017 till 13.04.2017 here red spot! i freaked out coz was so damn bright!!! i took also hpt was N….on14.04.207 PMS heavy flow pain arghhhhh after 2 heavy days the next 2 more days spotting brown on 18.04.2017 period finally ends was already white!!! so i had a looong period!!!!10 fucking days, never had like this in 6 years! since i`m with him.after period ended i tested again , HPT N…. on 20.21.22 we had sex again and he ejaculated every single day inside on 24.04.2017 i wipped after pee , and dang light pink i was like hmmmmi ovulated??? i dont remember if we did had sex on 28/28.04.2017 but we sure did had sex on 01.05.2017 on 02.05.2017 he left to france to dentist there , free charge for all , so i was happy for him… but i got home myself alone with my dog… so on 05.05.2017 i started to spot again!!!! more pinkish gelatinos? was not smelling at all , and very small like a little circle , i had to use pads on underwear , i also had sharp pain usually when i was walking the dog and also felt into my left side , with leg , i was hmmm sceptic.. again spotting , but wasnt brown like period is about to come ,so on 06.05.2017 i went to dosome tested to see what is happenening with me another blood test again N…. and some anemie? no hiv no other bullshit good glicemy , colesterol just the PH or pee they marked as too high 6.5… i went home still spotting a day on a drop , next day nothing at all!!!!! on 09.05.2017 i go gyn to tell her about this pink spotting he took a sample of secretion for lab .on 11.05.2017 i woke up dizzy , went bathroom , i got even dizzier , my legs just got shaking i hold myself on washing machine and boom i vome!!! i did seat on toilet and guess what heavy PMS again but not so heavy like always , lasted 1 day and half and 2 more days light brown spotting… on 11.05.2017 beside dizzy wome pms , also had headache plus fevre!! i was burning the hell out my skin, i had a wet towel during night on my forehead because couldnt resist anymore, during day ii felt so lifeless , i even lost few secs my breath , lucky my dog was pulling my arm not to asleep… i was scared , and i survived !! the next day after i was feeling lot better! no cramps at all just bleeding… i was still testing HPT N.. crazyyy I am no ??? so on 23.05.2017 i wipped and again bit pink hmmmm i was asking myself why had no clue, was just in that day that`s all on 24.052017 i go gyn again she said sample is like having gardenella , a bacteria so i said ok……but why …. well hygiene is poor? oh but i dont do nasty stuff , she asked me if i use internal tampons, and i do use them on my 3rd 4th and 5th day of PMS all time for years!!!! he said maybe u need do the Pap-nicolau , i freaked out when i heard , because knew this thing u do for cancer or anything bad like this , so we did took anaother sample and came negative i have no cancer , cervix damage etc , no cyst nothing , just a septat uteras /2 cavites one big /one small.and she said lets run more testes for another bacterias….could be possible have a bacteria that causes u this long period with spotting and heavy flow.i asked her maybe im pregnant , and based on her calculation i would have ovulated on 15.16 /04.2017whatever…. when period wasnt ended *but my app on phone said clear that i have 30 cycle days i introduced all PMS dates along , and i knew i ovulated on 19.04.2017 and i had sex on 20/21/22.04.2017 ….* so well the new test says i have a bacteria called “ureaplasma urealyticum”08.06.2017 is the day they took sample why i went again to gyn ??? because i have no more spotting and my period supposed to come on 05.06.2017???? since last month spotted on 05.05.2017 , weird no? in all this weeks i only took every day ” acid folic” my best friend and mother told me will help me get pregnant and stay strong. so i finished them all yestarday! no spotting pink brown nothing!!!
when i sneeze a little white discarges wets my panties , i felt / feel pregnant my app says 5 weeks and 2 days , because in 6 days late PMS!!!! so the bacteria stopped my cycle? when i did the intravaginal ecography was nothing in there , i wass maybe 3 weeks ? thats why?now gyn is convinced im not prego / but i had so many symptoms , bloated/ buuurps/ cramps /headaches/ cold tummy and breast , i feel sensitive with boobs they so heavy so soft big , and today for 1st time ever i noticed how painfull my nipples are , ouch!!!!! really and my legs are so sensitive i walk so slow , and feel lke i did run few miles , even shaked my legs few times , i dont do much effort , low back pains, strange pimples forehead nose and boobs! but why since no period and i never had on period pimples/ strange smell hate a certain polen from a tree , makes me throw up but im not/ i did gain bit tummy feels big and im a skinny ” bitch ” ahaahah my clothes pants dont fit me anymore , i have not thyroid, or else to influence this , i feel i get big and bigger streching me insideeee i pee every single hour!!!i dont like hot showers anymore! i went into market and saw a tiny bag of peanuts with caramell , i was omg!!!!! delicioussss , i eat healthy yougurt, salade, nothing heavy to get fat because of that! so questions/ conclusion: this bacteria make me fell / have ” fake pregnancy symptom” ? why PMS is late 6 days? why still negative HPT and blood test? could history repeat and have to wait untill i hit ” imaginary 6 weeks” to get positive like 4 years ago?i did read so many things that some women simply get negative blood test and hpt untill 10 weeks!!! wow , so i guess need to wait another week to see if i start to spotting or PMS come….. my bf is doing his testes aswell in france , if he will gets negative result why i got positive? i did read many pregnant women at 5 -6 weekds earlier or later they found out they have this bacteria , is a bacteria that is produced by fetus? or against him ? my nose is dry stuffed but why i sneeze from time to time but im not having a cold….is like a stranger is in my body

)) i know i must go gyn again after i get my bf results! but if next week still no period and hes negative shall i go to a 2nd gyn that wants to to transvaginal , maybe i`m pregnant!!!! any hopes??? we want a baby!!!!!! and we frustated by this so called bacteria “ureaplasma” could treatment affect fetus , of bacteria affect him ? why my gyn refuses to believe im pregnant since im 6 days late??? plsss help me , the white discarge doesnt smells , and i spot white just from time to time , feel like i have a fat pussy , getting tighter down there

………. i heard this bacteria cause infertility, hope wont be my case!!!!!looong story of my life , will GOD allow me get over this and enjoy a baby or every 2-3 weeks treatment medicins… blahhh hate pills”i feel so tiredddd sleepy , i need to wait sooo long , i have like 1.53 cm height and over 45 kgs and 2 uteras lol and my blood type matters ? it could be im not compatible with a baby? hope this wont be a problem in having a baby!i just need know if women been thru this like me , hope to be pregnant and get rid off this bacteria asap!!!! wish me luck , just wanted share my story and maybe someone tells me “yes u might be pregnant”or ” yes you are pregnant” spent lot money on running testes and hpts , seems like i still have to spend few ahahah , wish me luck i will update soon as i find out more