I am posting this although I have a horrible feeling I am at a website where I might not be wanted because I am not a teenage mum. So I hope I don't upset anyone by being here, but if I do you can always delete my posts.
I had my baby girl by emergency C Section cause I nearly died with pre-eclampsia fortunately my mum saved my life by taking my blood pressure and getting me to the hospital despite being told off by midwives for meddling where she was not wanted. I thank my mum that I am alive today to tell the story. It proves that midwives don't know everything.
My little girl, Lauretta was born 6 weeks prem weighing 5 pounds 2 then dropped to 4 pounds 11. Which apparently, is a great weight for a 6 week prem baby and if I had gone full term then I would have given birth to a 9 or 10 pound baby.
Lauretta had to be resuscitated for 10 minutes of her life and then before I had a chance to hold her she was whizzed away to a special care baby unit for 3 weeks of her life. She was due to be born after Christmas, but we got her home for Christmas. Of course, at first it was difficult. I was still very ill. I had to heal from the operation which the scar kept getting infected. Plus travelling to the hospital all the time was difficult. Plus the emotional side of things with mental health problems. I also had anemia. Hardly how I had imagined my first baby to be born which I wanted my mum and husband to be my birth partners. My husband was there, but it wasn't nice for him to watch me having a major operation.
At first I swore I'd never have any more, but the smile of my daughter makes it all worth while. I love Lauretta so much she is my sweetheart. She even chose her own name, but that's a different story. She is 2 now and despite everything we are trying for another baby so she can have a little brother or sister. Lauretta wants a sister though. I thought I would include a photo of my darling.
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I had my baby girl by emergency C Section cause I nearly died with pre-eclampsia fortunately my mum saved my life by taking my blood pressure and getting me to the hospital despite being told off by midwives for meddling where she was not wanted. I thank my mum that I am alive today to tell the story. It proves that midwives don't know everything.
My little girl, Lauretta was born 6 weeks prem weighing 5 pounds 2 then dropped to 4 pounds 11. Which apparently, is a great weight for a 6 week prem baby and if I had gone full term then I would have given birth to a 9 or 10 pound baby.
Lauretta had to be resuscitated for 10 minutes of her life and then before I had a chance to hold her she was whizzed away to a special care baby unit for 3 weeks of her life. She was due to be born after Christmas, but we got her home for Christmas. Of course, at first it was difficult. I was still very ill. I had to heal from the operation which the scar kept getting infected. Plus travelling to the hospital all the time was difficult. Plus the emotional side of things with mental health problems. I also had anemia. Hardly how I had imagined my first baby to be born which I wanted my mum and husband to be my birth partners. My husband was there, but it wasn't nice for him to watch me having a major operation.
At first I swore I'd never have any more, but the smile of my daughter makes it all worth while. I love Lauretta so much she is my sweetheart. She even chose her own name, but that's a different story. She is 2 now and despite everything we are trying for another baby so she can have a little brother or sister. Lauretta wants a sister though. I thought I would include a photo of my darling.
https://groups.msn.com/isapi/fetch.dll?action=MyPhotos_GetMBPhoto&ImageID=nHQAAAEMK34RG0yfa2rtnek52XlOdMnxWu81dvAjTVuxrkXDiYSa8jAbGyLToriyr
It just makes me love her all that much more!!
