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Firstly hats off to all those that are already SAHM's
I am currently working full time on nights whilst hubby works days, my lb goes to nursery 3 days a week and ever since he's had his diagnosis of ASD i have been considering stopping work completely to be a SAHM.
Problem is I dont know if im cut of for it I feel like im taking my husband for a ride and the benefits system just all round feeling guilty for wanting to give up my job (please note that I DO NOT think of anyone else like this, i just have a lot going on in my head right now xx) I really dont know if it will be the right thing to do.
My son needs extra help in most areas and i feel by working im not 'there' for him at a time when he needs me. However i really do love the independence working brings, most importantly my car
Anyways im rambling lol
Question - How have the SAHM's with children with special needs come to the decision to not go back to work/leave work?
Also how do you find being the homemaker/main carer?
I worry that i'll be lonely and have to be dependant financially. I also fear that I wont be able to help my son the way he needs right now - scared of being a failure
Any comments are appreciated x
I am currently working full time on nights whilst hubby works days, my lb goes to nursery 3 days a week and ever since he's had his diagnosis of ASD i have been considering stopping work completely to be a SAHM.
Problem is I dont know if im cut of for it I feel like im taking my husband for a ride and the benefits system just all round feeling guilty for wanting to give up my job (please note that I DO NOT think of anyone else like this, i just have a lot going on in my head right now xx) I really dont know if it will be the right thing to do.
My son needs extra help in most areas and i feel by working im not 'there' for him at a time when he needs me. However i really do love the independence working brings, most importantly my car
Anyways im rambling lol
Question - How have the SAHM's with children with special needs come to the decision to not go back to work/leave work?
Also how do you find being the homemaker/main carer?
I worry that i'll be lonely and have to be dependant financially. I also fear that I wont be able to help my son the way he needs right now - scared of being a failure
Any comments are appreciated x