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Hello ladies
Sorry straight off…it may be that all these weird feelings are connected to the fact I am at home poorly today and I am feeling a bit sorry for myself but in the last few days I think I have realised that (despite my constant moaning and wishing the seconds away) 5 June really isn’t far away and for some reason a part of me is freaking out and wandering if we should push TTC back for a while
I am really confused because one minute I feel really low and empty and all I want is to start being proactive and TTC right now and another part of me is quite terrified of the reality of it! I think it is connected, at least in part, to my job. I am on secondment from June til the end of November (covering maternity leave) People who don’t know about us wanting to TTC all seem to think the lady I am covering for won’t come back and that I will have an amazing career opportunity to carry on with the job permanently – but I know that if we were to get pg quickly that just wouldn’t happen.
*Sigh*…it really is a case of knowing there will never be a perfect time but also wanting to be sensible, rational and a little bit patient if waiting an extra 6 months really is best. I don’t understand how I can want something so badly and then also be afraid of it and want to push it away. It is just with all the emotions that are caught up with WWT, I feel like I can’t distinguish cold feet from normal pre TTC nerves!!!
Sorry for the long post – I needed to vent and I don’t want to confuse DH any more than he is already living with a crazy woman
Sorry straight off…it may be that all these weird feelings are connected to the fact I am at home poorly today and I am feeling a bit sorry for myself but in the last few days I think I have realised that (despite my constant moaning and wishing the seconds away) 5 June really isn’t far away and for some reason a part of me is freaking out and wandering if we should push TTC back for a while
I am really confused because one minute I feel really low and empty and all I want is to start being proactive and TTC right now and another part of me is quite terrified of the reality of it! I think it is connected, at least in part, to my job. I am on secondment from June til the end of November (covering maternity leave) People who don’t know about us wanting to TTC all seem to think the lady I am covering for won’t come back and that I will have an amazing career opportunity to carry on with the job permanently – but I know that if we were to get pg quickly that just wouldn’t happen.
*Sigh*…it really is a case of knowing there will never be a perfect time but also wanting to be sensible, rational and a little bit patient if waiting an extra 6 months really is best. I don’t understand how I can want something so badly and then also be afraid of it and want to push it away. It is just with all the emotions that are caught up with WWT, I feel like I can’t distinguish cold feet from normal pre TTC nerves!!!
Sorry for the long post – I needed to vent and I don’t want to confuse DH any more than he is already living with a crazy woman