Lets talk...... Favours!

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I'm at a complete loss as to what to give as favours to our guests. I need 65 of 'something', and to make it more tricky, we are the last couple in our group of friends to tie the knot. All the favours iv seen are either too expensive to
do in bulk or have already been done so don't really want to replicate!!!!!

so far, we've had;
-sweets on jars on tables
-sweets in various pots and packages
-happiness kits
-donations to cancer research
-cake
-flowers
etc etc etc.

I'm now stumped! other than doing MORE sweets, I have no idea!
I wanted to do pez dispensers or something but they're so expensive to buy in bulk! any ideas ladies? xx
 
How about a sweet cart?? That's what we're having, that way guests go up and help themselves and it looks a bit different, I'm having an informal wedding though, if you're having a formal dinner it might not work as well x
 
We are doing scratch cards for adults and little boxes of sweets for the kids :)
 
Scratch cards?
Charity donation?
Pin badges?

Favours don't need to be anything fancy. I'd be just as chuffed to get a humorous pin badge or a scratch card as I would a jar of sweets. In fact, more so the first two because they can be used as ice breakers between the guests (who may not know each other)
 
Okay first off you don't need favours at all. No one will care. It's a new thing fuelled by the crazy expensive wedding industry. They're a nice touch but if nothing springs to mind or it's an unneeded expense then don't do them!

The traditional favour is simply sugared almonds, so this is always acceptable, whether in a bag or jar or small box. You could even take this a step further and have a sweetie pick and mix table as guests leave and give them each a pretty patterned paper bag (could double as a place setting) for them to fill as they leave. Call it a taxi/going home snack, or something.

Another thing you could do if you're short on money is to write everyone a small handwritten note and put it in an envelope thanking them for coming and writing something personal about what it means to you that they're there. A great deal more meaningful that a lottery ticket, I think. Again, they can also double as place cards. Oh and Paperchase do the cutest miniature envelopes that would be perfect.

In fact, you could do many variations of the place card/favour double act. We're having shells with names written inside as place settings and they make nice keepsakes too. The shells were incredibly cheap too.

You could have seeds in a small bag. Perhaps representing something important, perhaps just a lovely flower or plant.

A slightly more expensive option is to get a Mr Men or Little Miss book that suits each person perfectly and give them that. It's funny and cute and they don't even have to be new books, you could get them second hand, it doesn't make it any less special. People love things like that.

You could have a small matchbox sized box of table games for each person, just make the box pretty. Perhaps a quiz about the bride and groom, or funny questions to ask the person next to you. Very cheap and loads of fun.

A small bag of herbs (lavender is great) with a note, perhaps if you were using lavender then 'it means the world to us that you shared our wedding day with us, sleep well'. Very cheap (you can buy lavender in bulk for next to nothing) and makes a lovely gift. You could even print or embroider on the bags if you're good at that sort of thing.

Another slightly more expensive idea is to source funny hats like old bowler hats and things from charity shops and give each person one. People love dressing up and being silly for weddings, and it removes the need for a photobooth. A cheaper option is to just print paper masks or even just glasses/moustaches on sticks. A variation is to give men bowler/top hats and women flower crowns.

Buy small bottles, I mean the tiny 1.5inch high ones, and find a recipe on Pinterest for making simple perfume or scented oil. It's such a lovely and unique gift and again, you can decorate the bottle.

If you can make jam or have a signature cocktail or someone in your family does then hand them out! You don't have to make a huge bottle of cocktail, two shot glasses worth would be adorable. This works with anything really; shortbread, biscuits, fairycakes...

On the subject of food, a really lovely idea is to pack a small box as a midnight snack for each guest as they're leaving. You could get a very simple box and write a personal message of thanks on it and tie it with ribbon, and inside have something cheap and cheerful like a 12p Asda pasty and a small cake. It will be much needed at 12am!

That's all I can think of for now but I have a brainwave I'll let you know!
 
Another, somewhat more random idea: Have charm bracelets for the women and kids and pez dispensers for the men. Personally I think these are amazing https://www.etsy.com/shop/DearDotty?section_id=10323655 especially the dinosaur ones! With favours, they don't even have to all be the same. If your granny is coming, you can give her sugared almonds in the same box as you give your friends a funny bracelet and no one knows any difference.
 
I bought some lovely fabric hanging hearts from NOTHS for my ladies, they were about 60p each on sale. The men have little sweetie bags with 'a little yummy for your tummy' but I haven't decided what to put in yet, maybe something manly like beer bottles haha. Doing little packs for the kids but there won't be many there! Xx
 
I'm combining mine with my centre pieces and just filling fish bowls with sweets
 
Lozzy I'm glad its not just me awake at this ridiculous hour haha! Xx
 
These are what we are doing but in purple :happydance:
 

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Lol iv been on nights and was on my break, not much else to do at that time of the morning
 

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