light hearted ttc

[hello_kitty]

glad you are enjoying life Sarina! Having 2 kids is exhausting and rewarding at the same time!

I hope you get the issue resolved soon Ashley. I also feel uncomfortable when dtd too. I mean its not painful, just doesnt feel good like I'm too dry tmi sorry.

You are lucky that Cassidy at least acts good in public. Zachary acts naughty whether he is inside or out. I took him christmas shopping yesterday and he started acting up as soon as he got bored.

I was shopping for my 3.5 year old sis and realized how cute baby girl clothes are! I can totally picturing myself spoiling my little girl with cute dresses. My mom and I were talking on the phone and she was like "I hope you get a girl next" some people might find that annoying but after two boys, I totally agree with her! I am sooo ready for a girl! Makes me want to ttc right now but af is no where in sight so guess gotta wait til next year.

 

[AC1987]

Lily, I hope I get the issue resolved too!

Well guess who showed up today!? AF!! While I am not happy with it starting up atleast I know I am not pregnant But I guess now I will have a better idea of when we can dtd

I hafta do a lot of baking today, I'm giving cookie gifts, as we can't afford to really buy gifts for a lot of people.

My in laws drive me batty at times. Ok so they're being really low key this year at Christmas, which I understand, they're getting up there in years and tired of it all. Anyways, my MIL is having a brunch on sunday, however she has stated she is NOT having it Christmas themed, so she wants no gift exchanges, my only problem is that that will be the ONLY time I see people until summer. so unsure on what to do, I've mentioned it to DH and he isn't being helpful.

 

[hello_kitty]

Yay for AF showing up Ashley! I am wondering when mine will show up.

My inlaws live across the overseas so dont have to deal with them at all so I cant really relate. My extended family always do gift exchanges every year so I have to buy gifts for over 7 people, not including gifts for my own family.

Gosh I feel so nauseous and tired but I know I am not pregnant. I was vaccuming the house and feeling so nauseous. Now I have to go give Jayden a bath.

 

[sg0720]

hey ladies i have a question.. how long after your first period after the baby did you get a second one? before i got pregnant my cycles were 33/34 days so thats kinda what im going off of i already had my first period and am waiting on my 2nd (hopefully it wont come) but so far i have no sign of my period just wonder when to expect it.hey ladies i have a question.. how long after your first period after the baby did you get a second one? before i got pregnant my cycles were 33/34 days so thats kinda what im going off of i already had my first period and am waiting on my 2nd (hopefully it wont come) but so far i have no sign of my period just wonder when to expect it...

lmp: nov 24-29th

 

[hello_kitty]

Sarina - after baby was here my cycles were crazy. It was never exact thats why we didnt get pregnant the second month, or the third, we got pregnant on the 4th month and I wasnt even expecting to get pregnant he's our miracle baby. With that said, my longest cycle was 42 days, and shortest was 30 days so knowing that if I ever go past 42 days I would be concerned. I think it was my second period after af that was 42 days, and then it went back to 31, and then 30 before I got pregnant.

 

[sg0720]

Got cha thank you

 

[AC1987]

I didn't try to get pregnant with Rose... but I think it was about 6 months of having a regular period after getting pregnant, it just went back to my usual 28 day cycle.

 

[sg0720]

Thank you still no period yet I hope i am pregnant it'll b a great gift from God. My dad just passed away December 26th ��

 

[AC1987]

Oh no!! I'm sorry Sarina

 

[sg0720]

Thank you..

On a good note I got a bfp today!!! Feeling so blessed and excited

 

[AC1987]

congrats sarina



my life sucks I've been in the hospital since Saturday. I miss my kids so much.

 

[sg0720]

Thank you awww what's wrong why r u in the hospital?

 

[ricschick]

so sorry for your loss but congrats a lovely gift from your dad!!

whats wrong AC?

 

[AC1987]

I'm finally home!!

I was feeling really ill Friday bad case of diarrhea tmi!! Saturday morning went to the doctor who sent me to the hospital, had a cat scan showed my bowels had collapsed, sent to another hospital for surgery, they went in saw everything was fine so they sutured me back up.

It was a very traumatizing experience I never want to go back there again. It was very scary.
My in laws are helping out until my mom comes on sunday. I can't even pick up my baby or care for them right now
Any follow up I will wait til my mom comes.

 

[sg0720]

Ricschick thank you

Ashley omg that is tramatizing I pray for a speedy recovery

 

[AC1987]

and I have to pump and dump on top of it, I had to switch to formula and things were going so well with nursing... now I know I will not be able to go back to full on nursing, once I'm done my anti biotics, I'll just do combi...
I'm really down about it. I don't even know if I'll be able to go to Canada anymore like I had planned.

 

[sg0720]

Awww I know how disappointing that can be stay strong and try not to let that bother u too much you breast fed longer then most people I congratulate u on that

 

[AC1987]

My mother in law means well but it bothers me that she has taken on the "mother" role in the house. My baby won't come to me, or look at me, yet with her she is all smiles for I feel like an outsider in my own home. I feel useless...
And I know it'll be even worse when my mom comes, she babies me, so I see the chance of me ever holding my baby again gone
This past week has really sucked.

 

[sg0720]

Aww don't give up take ur baby and try doing something light with her

 

[magicwhisper]

sending you hue hugs ac!


we are great here! she is crawling