light hearted ttc

[hello_kitty]

After this baby, I might wait 4 years before having another one, depending on how I do with 3. I always wanted 4.

 

[josephine3]

Aw look at u planning number 4 lily lol! I cant help but be so jealous wheres my accidental baby already blow some of that dust over here!!!

 

[hello_kitty]

Jo - I love planning things in advance. Personally, I have always wanted 4 kids, unless my relationship with my husband goes in the dump again. I have no idea why I am so fertile around my ovulation period. We havent had sex for at least half a year, so I am surprised I got pregnant again with just 1 shot. Jayden happened the exact same way, took only 1 try. Makes me feel I am probably gonna end up with another boy.

 

[josephine3]

Would u like a girl? The question ur dreading lol. I would really like another girl! If number 3 was a boy i think i would struggle to not want to try again x

 

[hello_kitty]

I would be lying if I said I didnt, but I try to convince myself that all it matters is a healthy baby in the end. Frankly, im just tired of all boys stuff. If its another boy, im firm about not spending too much money except for needed stuff, since he can definitely reuse his brothers clothes. It makes me feel bad for favoring over a gender...but i just want a different experience now.

Im planning on hiding my pregnancy for as long as i can from my family because they will stress me out with the gender thing and im 100% sure there will be major disappointment if its a boy. Im not too optimistic about it being a girl considering i dtd on/around O day. Happened same time last two times and i got 2 boys. I really fant expect anything though, had it been planned I wouldve dtd a few days before O day to favor girl sperm.

 

[hello_kitty]

Do you think its easier to raise a girl than a boy? I know some people with both who definitely enjoy their girl (s) more.

 

[ricschick]

Our Jamie he is so laid back he was good as gold I find girls Moan more lol.
How did dh take the news lily!? Xx

 

[skyraaa]

Yes girls r defo a pain in the arse 😂 but I dont hav a boy to compare too

 

[hello_kitty]

Im going to sound horrible, but i havent told himi

 

[ricschick]

Why not do you think he won't be happy? X

 

[josephine3]

I think as toddlers girls are easier in lots of ways but jamie was easier as a tiny baby. its hard to explain but jamie is so loving tho can be a bit of a brute. Girls are a bit gentler and seem to listen better! Hard to compare but id love another girl!
Ooh i bet ur dying to tell him can u not find the right time? Will he totally not expect it?

 

[hello_kitty]

No, im just still waiting for it to sink in.

 

[hello_kitty]

I ended up telling him this afternoon. He was happy about it but was concerned I'd be more tired with 3 kids in the future so he told Zachary that he needs to be a big boy now and try to help mommy out.

 

[skyraaa]

Had scan today baby is healthy and 11w 4days is actually due on my second daughters due date Lol iv posted a pic in gender prediction have a look and guess not the best pic tho

 

[hello_kitty]

Yay hailey! Glad baby is doing well.

 

[ricschick]

I ended up telling him this afternoon. He was happy about it but was concerned I'd be more tired with 3 kids in the future so he told Zachary that he needs to be a big boy now and try to help mommy out.

Ah I'm glad he was happy!! X

 

[hello_kitty]

I ended up telling him this afternoon. He was happy about it but was concerned I'd be more tired with 3 kids in the future so he told Zachary that he needs to be a big boy now and try to help mommy out.

Ah I'm glad he was happy!! X

He's pretty chill. He's the type of dad that thinks kids are a blessing. He did suggest stopping if this happens to be a girl, but I said no, i always wanted 4. So we negotiated and i said i will take a 4 year break if its a girl, but if its a boy i will take a 2 year break. He's ok with that, but said he will not go beyond 4, whatever the outcome we're stopping at 4. I agreed since I really dont want anymore than 4 anyways.

Then we started talking about the new baby and our plans, it ended up well.

 

[Blondiejay]

Yay congratulations Lily!!!

My belly is growing a little, I'm 15 weeks now!!

 

[josephine3]

Aww great news that hes happy lily he sounds very relaxed! Great that hes on board with your plans too wish my oh was so co-operative

 

[ricschick]

Hows all our bumps getting on?

I'm apparently 10dpo and got a bfn this morning so won't be testing again now til Monday 😒