light hearted ttc

[josephine3]

Afm..in another tww with the condoms lol but we hav dtd quite a bit this month. Also im not sure his method is reliable lol. He always is really good about putting it on before any contact but never withdraws immediately after. Like today tmi but i noticed it was all down the inside of the condom and not just the tip. The previous time i think it came off on the way out and he pulled it out. Didnt ask tho. I will have to curb my testing mania somewhat this cycle as we are away in the caravan for half term but will try and sneak a couple before we leave!
Rics are u close to testing again yet? How are our pregnant ladies getting along?

 

[ricschick]

No not yet waiting to ov at the moment. I've had a few cramps today but nothing else to indicate ov yet. Our caravan site is closed at the moment doesn't open til 1 st march.
So do you think there is a chance some little guys could of got in?

 

[josephine3]

I dunno i doubt it but doesnt stop me obsessing lol. Im not sure what dpo i am cant be more than 6 at the most but 2 really dark positive opks today and heres my hpts all today cos im mad lol

 

[josephine3]

Heres one of the opks and a zoom on a hpt

 

[hello_kitty]

Thats definitely a positive opk Jo! Not sure about the hpt though...I have a bit of trouble reading anything thats not a clear positive. Is that a line im seeing? Although I dont think there's color, have you tested again?

I went to my first prenatal appointment on Thursday and saw the flicker of baby's hb on screen! I was scheduled back for 2 weeks since I was only 6 weeks at that appointment. He wants to make sure baby still has a hb. So I am counting down again.

 

[josephine3]

Yay for the heartbeat!! Why so many scans? I always wonder when we get nothing till 12 weeks here! I have had 2 positive clearblue tests but the rest all negative!!

 

[josephine3]

It showed right away too. Heres an opk!

 

[ricschick]

oh I can see the cb tests!!! I wonder maybe you ov earlier than you thought!!! and those opks are def positive!!

im waiting to ov at the mo will test with an opk today too!

lovely lily that you got to see a heartbeat!! so annoying we have to wait til 12weeks!! xx

 

[ricschick]

opk negitive

 

[AC1987]

Hey Jo,

I just feel like anytime I try to talk with my DH, he can't seem to understand me. Like on paper everyone loves him, like he wrote this mushy birthday card to me, but then the entire day I didn't hear a word from him, same with valentines day, he sent roses only because I'm with my family.
Like while being on vacation, I haven't heard from my DH...
He never tells me he misses me or anything.
But part of me is fine with that because I feel like I no longer love him.
And there isn't even anyone else!!


Hope you ladies are well

 

[josephine3]

Does he kno how u feel ashley?
Im sure the clearblue must be faulty. Just pink pretty much bfns on everything else!

 

[hello_kitty]

I also see a line on one of the clearblue tests jo!

My doctor doesnt see women until they are between 8-10 wks pregnant. I came in quite early at only 6 weeks. Although there was a hb, he probably just wants to make sure everything is ok, plus I had some blood drawn so I need to come in for results anyways. I also had pre term labor with all my previous pregnancies so I wouldnt be surprised if he wants to see me more often than the typical every 4 weeks. I dont mind at all, gives me more opportunities to see/check up on my baby.

 

[sg0720]

Hello ladies it's been a long time since I been on how is everyone? So nice to see everyone still chatting

 

[ricschick]

Hi sg welcome back!

Ashley how are things? Are you home now from your trip? Did you talk to your family about how you feel?

Lily how the pregnancy going? Any morning sickness?

Jo how's your holiday going? How's things with oh now? Xx

Afm got a +opk yesterday so should or have ov! Groin is very tender today so good sign but uncomfortable to bed but a girls got to do what a girls got to do. Lol so il class today as 1dpo. But I'm so ill at the moment I have terrible flu and horrible headache for 5 days now! Hate it!!!! Mil has taken the kids out this morning so grateful for that!!

 

[josephine3]

Well we survived the storm thanx rics! Headed home now. Things are a little better generally. Good luck this month!
Hi sg nice to hear from u! Hows the bumps lilly and hayley?

 

[AC1987]

Welcome back SG! I remember you

I have to leave Canada this coming weekend I'm gonna miss this place insanely! I had the chance to stay an extra weekend only I think my parents are exhausted and are looking forward to the peace and quiet.
But only 3-4 more months until I am back.

My DH has been ignoring me the last two weeks, not responding to my messages either, which sucks since practically every day my parents ask me how he is and what he is up to.


Lily, oh wow! I remember with Cassidy they wanted to see me right away, but when I was pregnant with Rose they didn't wanna see me until the 2nd tri.

 

[ricschick]

You didn't tell your parents then what's been going on? X

 

[hello_kitty]

Hi ladies! Welcome back Sarina (did I get it right?)

Are you home now Ashley? Aww, you still didnt have a conversation with your parents about your husband? Its strange that he would ignore you for 2 weeks. My husband would go crazy if the kids and I left him for that long. Maybe now that you've had a breather you can finally go home and have a nice talk with him?

I think my doctor wants to see me more often because I've had two preemies. Totally expected. I dont mind the extra visits, long as I can keep this one baking for at least 37 weeks. I do not want to have another preemie, nor stay in the hospital more than I have to.

Claire - ms sucks ass. I am totally pissed off, especially at night. I can only get a proper meal during the day. My schedule is as follows: brunch at 11 am, nap from 1 am - 4 pm, late lunch at 5ish (throw up), get hungry, eat, throw up...keeps going on until bed time. I am fed up.

 

[AC1987]

My parents don't want to hear, I've tried but its like they don't want to hear it. They just tell me that I'm the one who married him that this is it and I need to live with it.

I'm not home yet, I leave on the 5th.

No he doesn't miss me or the kids, the kids don't miss him either, only the first week they said they missed him but afterwards they're happy with being here.

If there was a way I would move back here. Only I have no means, first it would mean my family would disown me, and I know my dh's parents would fight for sole custody of my kids.
I feel like I've made a mess of my life.

Lily, I hope your pregnancy is going well!!

 

[ricschick]

Ashley you need to talk to someone who knows what their talking about in regards to your options! His parents couldn't take your children so don't worry about that. Do you have absolutely no one you could talk too?? You have rights!! This isn't 50 years ago. Life is too short. I hope you get some answers. Xxx

Lily oh no that sounds awful!! Luckily I'm not normally sick but feel sick which is just awful! Was you like this with the boys? X