light hearted ttc

[AC1987]

Lily, I think my parents found the visit too stressful in February. They live in a basement apartment so they don't have much space.
Its more annoying because I don't wanna put my summer on hold just to hear a no, I haven't told my DH any of this because I don't want him telling me I can't go up there and visit.

 

[hello_kitty]

Oh, I see Ashley. I always assumed they had their own house. Makes sense if they live in a small apartment, it would be a bit crowded. Its nice that your sisters are visiting though.

 

[josephine3]

Still here just all quiet my end nothing to report! I see ashley i didnt realise they had a small space either.. how are things with the oh?
Rics hows things getting along? Hope the bleeding has stopped. Iv resigned myself to the wtt forum for now

 

[ricschick]

Hi jo. Any progress with dh on ttc?

Bleeding has stopped just lightly brown spotting, pregnancy tests are still strong so I'm just hoping everything is ok! Roll on Tuesday!!

 

[AC1987]

Aww Jo, I'm sorry!! I hate that wtt phase...

 

[hello_kitty]

I've been feeling baby more last night and today. Hoping its not gas lol. Baby definitely favors my right lower belly. I felt it scrunch up in that area last night because I was on my side and that area went hard. Cant wait til next week, maybe I will feel more obvious movements then.

Claire, plz update us on your appointment tomorrow. Hope everything goes well.

 

[ricschick]

Thanks lily on my way there now!!! Xx

 

[ricschick]

Right I've had my scan and still none the wiser! 😟 The sac has had significant growth she said going from 3mm to 10mm and now has a yolk sac but still don't no if it's going to progress into a baby as still couldn't see a hb. Foetal age should have been 7+3 but it's looking more like 6+3 so I have to go back in a week and if there is a hb great if not then looks like a miscarriage. So I'm still in limbo not knowing what the hell is going to happen. Bleeding stopped a week ago now I'm just lightly spotting brown. So that's that.

 

[AC1987]

Aww Claire! Well I hope there's a heartbeat at the next appointment

 

[josephine3]

Aww that lil bean is really keeping u in suspense claire! Really hope things progress for u it must be torture waiting. At least the spotting has stopped!
I wish i could stop the broodiness i keep looking at pregnant ladies and newborns with longing and envy lol. Sigh me and oh have already dtd twice this cycle altho protected obviously. But thats good goin for us so maybe by the end of the month I'll be up a bit on my one in a million chance to two in a million lol

 

[josephine3]

Oh one weird thing happened 2 days after dtd i had one spot of pink when i checked my cervix which is new for me i never spot after sex but think im way too far from ov for it to be anything interesting!

 

[hello_kitty]

Hope you will see baby and hb next week Claire,

I've had spotting after sex before Jo, usually that would mean AF will show her face soon. Might mean something else for you though!

 

[ricschick]

Thanks guys yep certainly keeping me on my toes! It's torture! Roll on Wednesday xx

 

[josephine3]

Will be thinking of u claire!
Lily - its waaaaay too soon for af it was only cd 11 i had the pink spot. Waaay too soon for ov tho too so i guess its nothing!

 

[AC1987]

Jo you and me both!!
Like I know this is a terrible thing but I feel like one of the things holding me back from getting pregnant is that I don't drink alcohol, and then I can't drink alcohol when I'm at the beach in August. Also I KNOW things need to improve with my DH.

Lily, how are you feeling??


AFM, I went strawberry picking with the kids on the weekend and have been making lots of everything strawberry! I made strawberry soup, and then strawberry preserves

 

[josephine3]

Strawberry soup?! Never heard of that one! Bit confused what u mean about the alcohol lol?

 

[josephine3]

Im feeling odd as usual! Feel like im post-ov but opk still negative. Lots of cm and tmi i swear some swimmers might hav got in last time we dtd when he pulled out the condom was half way down already and during the next day i had that weird feeling u get (altho iv nearly forgot what it feels like) when it comes out lol. Probly just my mind working overdrive i'll cling to any hope!

 

[hello_kitty]

Ashley I feel fine for the most part, except for the constant peeing. I am going to the bathroom every 30 minutes. Its rediculous. Its still too cold and rainy over here to even think about picking any fruit. Cant wait til warmer weather.

Aww Jo, hope you get your bfp! I'd go crazy if I really wanted a baby and had to wait like that. I am probably going to be in your same situation if I want no. 4, we wont be thinking about another anytime soon.

 

[AC1987]

Strawberry soup?! Never heard of that one! Bit confused what u mean about the alcohol lol?

Oh I meant I like to drink! And when I'm pregnant I give up alcohol. So I'm planning a beach vacation with my sisters in August and obviously there will be drinking and I wouldn't want to miss out. I sound like such an alchy.. I'm really not though

 

[hello_kitty]

I drink ocassionally as well, mostly on my birthday or new years. I'll have baby by then, but then I'll be breastfeeding...sooo guess not.

The dh and I got in a little argument yesterday becaause he spoke his mind and said we're stopping if this one is a girl. I said he promised me 4 but he said that there's no point in having more if we already got both genders, and 3 is plenty in this day and age. The thing is, I am indecisive when it comes to a 4th, but at least I'm leaving the option open, but based off what he said, he really just wants 3, it just makes me feel I am absolutely done after this. He said we have other things to focus on, and should close the baby making chapter of our lives and focus on raising them, and me going back to school etc. He makes sense, but I just dont like how it sounds so final.