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So upset for u 
what felt different this time? Will u get one last scan before your appointment? Thinking of you xx
what felt different this time? Will u get one last scan before your appointment? Thinking of you xx
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No I don't think so there was no change from my last scan, if I should bleed between now and then then yes. I have to go in tomorrow to have pre assessment for Wednesday,
There wasn't much to make me feel bad but my tests did seem like they took ages to darken but they did get very dark but I don't no I just had a gut feeling it was weird so did my dh. So hopefully we will get our rainbow baby very soon.
There wasn't much to make me feel bad but my tests did seem like they took ages to darken but they did get very dark but I don't no I just had a gut feeling it was weird so did my dh. So hopefully we will get our rainbow baby very soon.
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Another boy for us...feeling kinda down if I were to be honest. That makes 3 boys for us. Guess I am not meant to have a little girl. Dh was the first to say we will try for 1 more or 2 if next is another boy as well, but I honestly just want 4 max. Doc also changed my due date to 10/4, so I am over 17 weeks now instead of 16+3.
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Im ok now Ashley. We have a trip coming up next Saturday so I cant be all gloom and doom all the time. Dh showed me pics of Jayden from 2 years ago when we were on a road trip. He looked so cute and chubby! Our hearts melted from the reminder of how our kids were as baby and we got excited for this little boy. Dh kept saying we will have the 3 muskeeters and he now suddenly want 5 kids. Can you believe it? Less than a month ago, I had to argue with him about going for a 4th, now he says he's hoping for 2 more and hopefully they'll be girls...and it was my turn to say "no way." I dotn know what got into him, but we'll most likely try again in 2-3 years.
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Aww lily sorry its not a girly in there for u but at least oh is fully on board to try again! So he now wants to go for no. 5 even if 4 is a girl??! What a turnaround! Is that cos he would want her to hav a playmate do u think?
The oh has gone in a mood again and fell out hes so volatile at times
gets so angry over minor things like if the kids spill a drink.
Iv managed to break a tooth and need a crown. To top it off iv brokrn out in an awful itchy rash all over its terrible. Doc said its an allergic reaction to something but im not normally an allergy type person
all i can think about is how the only time iv ever experienced this sort of thing is in pregnancy! Both times altho not till further on i had probs with various types of itchy rashes. After searching online it seems some do have a rash as an early sign some even said they had it right from conception! Well the day the rash started i had a pos opk! Probly co-incidence but im soooo itchy
The oh has gone in a mood again and fell out hes so volatile at times
gets so angry over minor things like if the kids spill a drink. Iv managed to break a tooth and need a crown. To top it off iv brokrn out in an awful itchy rash all over its terrible. Doc said its an allergic reaction to something but im not normally an allergy type person
all i can think about is how the only time iv ever experienced this sort of thing is in pregnancy! Both times altho not till further on i had probs with various types of itchy rashes. After searching online it seems some do have a rash as an early sign some even said they had it right from conception! Well the day the rash started i had a pos opk! Probly co-incidence but im soooo itchy 
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awww Lily that's nice of him! Even if you aren't on board for 5 kids, he seems like he wants to make you happy 
Jo, oh that sucks with teeth problems! I constantly deal with them I hate it! Crowns are SO expensive.. I need one but insurance for mine doesn't kick in until next January.
A rash? those are confusing since you can get those from everything!
My DH is SO annoying, he snapped out at me the other day because one of the bills said it was late for being paid. And then the next minute hes happy and wondering what my problem was...
I'm SO confused as to what to do, like I do want more kids, but then at the same time I DON'T want sex with my DH like I can't stand him, everything about him annoys me. If I could rewind I never would have married him, I wish I hadn't but I did, and now I feel so stuck.
Like do I just ignore the fact that I cant stand him and just have sex when I'm ovulating to get pregnant(I know that's terrible!!) or do I just wait...
Then this past week my mom had surgery and I've been stressing so much over it
Jo, oh that sucks with teeth problems! I constantly deal with them I hate it! Crowns are SO expensive.. I need one but insurance for mine doesn't kick in until next January.
A rash? those are confusing since you can get those from everything!
My DH is SO annoying, he snapped out at me the other day because one of the bills said it was late for being paid. And then the next minute hes happy and wondering what my problem was...
I'm SO confused as to what to do, like I do want more kids, but then at the same time I DON'T want sex with my DH like I can't stand him, everything about him annoys me. If I could rewind I never would have married him, I wish I hadn't but I did, and now I feel so stuck.
Like do I just ignore the fact that I cant stand him and just have sex when I'm ovulating to get pregnant(I know that's terrible!!) or do I just wait...
Then this past week my mom had surgery and I've been stressing so much over it
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No ashley you go off and find a new man to have a baby with! Thats my plan if my oh doesnt sort himself out soon. I mean im still attracted to him and love him but when he snaps its like a switch u can see it in his eyes its scary. It upsets the kids too.
But my point was mayb we both need to make the break while we are young enough to find happiness with a new partner! I feel trapped too tho just like you.
But my point was mayb we both need to make the break while we are young enough to find happiness with a new partner! I feel trapped too tho just like you.
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Congratulations lily on a bday boy! I think the next one will definitely be a girl! Any names in mind?
Ashley I don't think you should stay let alone have another baby with him! Life is too short to be with someone that makes you so unhappy!
Jo ouch with the teeth! And hope the rash clears up for you! Xx
Ashley I don't think you should stay let alone have another baby with him! Life is too short to be with someone that makes you so unhappy!
Jo ouch with the teeth! And hope the rash clears up for you! Xx
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Sorry about your tooth Jo. I had a chipped tooth once and it was no fun. I have no idea why he wants 5 now, it must be that he wants 2 girls to play with each other.
I agree with everyone else Ashley. Dont have a kid with someone you dont love just for the sake of having a kid. I know baby fever is hard, but its not worth it. Its only going to get messier. If you dislike him that much, how are you going to even enjoy having sex? He wont be anything more but a sperm donor. Please leave him and go find someone who you really enjoy being around while you're still young.
Thanks Claire. We definitely hope so! I let my dh name him completely, and he came up with Theodore. Its not too bad, and it reminds me of the chubby chipmunk in Alvin and the chipmunks (he's my favorite out of the three) so I am ok with that. I know a lot of people use Theo for short, but I think I'll just call him by his full name because to me it sounds endearing.
I agree with everyone else Ashley. Dont have a kid with someone you dont love just for the sake of having a kid. I know baby fever is hard, but its not worth it. Its only going to get messier. If you dislike him that much, how are you going to even enjoy having sex? He wont be anything more but a sperm donor. Please leave him and go find someone who you really enjoy being around while you're still young.
Thanks Claire. We definitely hope so! I let my dh name him completely, and he came up with Theodore. Its not too bad, and it reminds me of the chubby chipmunk in Alvin and the chipmunks (he's my favorite out of the three) so I am ok with that. I know a lot of people use Theo for short, but I think I'll just call him by his full name because to me it sounds endearing.
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Awwww lily I know u hoped for a girl but look what happened to me 3 girlfriend got the boy cud work out the Same for u just other way round love the name Theo
Rics so sorry for ur loss x
Ashley u need to get out of that relationship seems he only makes u Unhappy
Jo tooth pain is bloody awful wud rather give birth poor u
As for me im 24 weeks now and we r gonna be calling him zack sorry lily lol but it will b just zack not zachary
love the name TheoRics so sorry for ur loss x
Ashley u need to get out of that relationship seems he only makes u Unhappy
Jo tooth pain is bloody awful wud rather give birth poor u
As for me im 24 weeks now and we r gonna be calling him zack sorry lily lol but it will b just zack not zachary
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Wow cant believe you are 24 wks already Hailey! No need to be sorry, tons of kids have the same name lol. We call our zachary zackie as a nickname. Thats how he refers to himself now.
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How is everyone doing? Our big road trip is tomorrow, eek!! Both my kids are just getting past a cold, and I just got sick today. Thank God it looks like a mild cold. Hopefully califonia sunshine will make me feel better. Cant believe I am traveling on the road with 2 toddlers and 18 wks pregnant.
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You are brave lily how far u going? Hope u are doing ok rics
Afm its cd 1 again really upset this month i had/have an awful itchy rash which fooled me into thinkin i could be preg as i had rash problems in both my pregnancies but nope. A whole week early as well
Afm its cd 1 again
really upset this month i had/have an awful itchy rash which fooled me into thinkin i could be preg as i had rash problems in both my pregnancies but nope. A whole week early as well hello_kitty
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Thanks Claire! I hope you get your cycle back soon and can start ttc again.
Our longest drive will be tonight Jo, we're traveling to yosemite so its around 12 hours of driving time. Of course we will be stopping along the way to grab food and breaks so we'll probably be on the road for about 15 hours.
Our longest drive will be tonight Jo, we're traveling to yosemite so its around 12 hours of driving time. Of course we will be stopping along the way to grab food and breaks so we'll probably be on the road for about 15 hours.
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Gosh thats quite a drive!!
Im so down today i actually cried when i woke up looking at the space where the moses basket used to go! Daft i kno. Things with oh are not good
Im so down today i actually cried when i woke up looking at the space where the moses basket used to go! Daft i kno. Things with oh are not good
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Awww Jo! that sucks!! I hope you'll get pregnant soon!
Lily, wow long drives are hard with kids! Do they enjoy being in the car? My kids used to hate it as babies but now they love it! I think because they're older and understand where we're going and all that I enjoy long drives! 
Hayley I can't believe you're so far along now!
AFM I feel like getting out of a relationship is easier said than done... maybe because I never dated so I have never even broken up before. I just feel like I don't really have a legit reason to get out, like yes he has a temper and makes me unhappy, but I feel like it isn't a good enough reason.
Lily, wow long drives are hard with kids! Do they enjoy being in the car? My kids used to hate it as babies but now they love it! I think because they're older and understand where we're going and all that
I enjoy long drives! Hayley I can't believe you're so far along now!
AFM I feel like getting out of a relationship is easier said than done... maybe because I never dated so I have never even broken up before. I just feel like I don't really have a legit reason to get out, like yes he has a temper and makes me unhappy, but I feel like it isn't a good enough reason.
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Sorry youre feeling sad Jo! Hope you get pregnant soon or work something out with your oh.
My kids dont mind long drives because we take breaks, but gosh zach is so whiny! I mean evenwhen we're at home he whines. We are halfway there.
I did quite a bit of driving because dh was so sleepy and baby was kicking away. He's probably asleep now, or hiding in a less sensitive spot as I havent felt him since a few hours ago.
My kids dont mind long drives because we take breaks, but gosh zach is so whiny! I mean evenwhen we're at home he whines. We are halfway there.
I did quite a bit of driving because dh was so sleepy and baby was kicking away. He's probably asleep now, or hiding in a less sensitive spot as I havent felt him since a few hours ago.
