Thanks ladies, I think I may have turned another corner myself this morning. I've always thought that until 12 months, food supplemented milk, not the otherway around?! So i have made sure that I've continued to give BM regularly.
LO has NEVER demanded to be fed, so I've always just offered BM every few hours or so. This morning I decided to wait until he 'asked' for milk, so after his 07:30 feed, I didn't offer to BF him at all. He refused breakfast but at 12pm, i offered him some blueberries, bread and cheese - which he pretty much wolfed down! Afterwards, I offered him a BF - he then drained one side.
So, I'm wondering if maybe he has refused to eat - because he just simply wasn't hungry?! and full of BM instead.
Do I continue to offer BM regularly as before, or do I allow him to drop milk for solids (putting my mind at rest a little?!)? He is only ten days away from being 9 months now.