Looks Like I am Here Now

[Aidedhoney]

Hiya Ladies Can i please join you??

My partner has decided he doesnt love me anymore, hes gone, walked out.

Life wasnt meant to be like this,

 

[Ash_P]

really sorry to hear ur going thru this hun, its hard as hell. but u will pick urself up at some stage, theres no time limit on it, but u will get there.
My husband told me when i was 6 weeks preg that he didnt love me anymore, ( i later found out there was someone else) he put me outta our home and shut my business down. But i picked myself back up and am trying to make a fresh start.

I got a new house (rented as i cant get a mortgage) and im now working from home. Yes my ex still f*cks me off and trys to mess things up for me but i just try and wave it away.

Talk to ur mum, see what ur options are. Ul be entitled to housing benefit cause ur not wokring, and have child. Way up the pros and cons of staying there, maybe moving back near family would be better. Keep people close and get as much support as possible.

The girls on here are fab and have got me thru some times. If u need anything just PM me, Il try give u as much info as possible hun, or even just listen

Hope ur ok x

 

[AppleBlossom]

I'm so sorry to hear this I know the feeling, when you think this wasn't supposed to be like this... you just need to be strong for your children and be a good mummy. Things will work out in the end, they always do. It just takes time

 

[Waiting2bMommy]

 

[Aidedhoney]

Well he came back late on, went to bed, put his arms round me and said night hunny bunny!!!!!! WTF

Hes away to work, my heads in a spin, the slef respecting independent woman has kicked in......dunno if i want him now.

How can i be with someone who may just up and leave at any point.

 

[embo216]

Sorry he's messing with your head so much hun, that's not fair on you at all. When they say they want to leave I think a sudden rush of panic sets in but over time and taking a step back sometimes it's for the best, just takes a lot of strength that we find from somewhere. If you need anything just give me a PM. xx

 

[purpledahlia]

Sorry to hear that, its horrible and hard but you will get thru it. I hate when they do that thing of walking in and out whenever they feel like it, dont let him treat you like a doormat!! xx

 

[topazicatzbet]

 

[TTCLILCU]

DH did the same thing to me 5 weeks ago. For 4 weeks, he would stay there with me and then stay with his mom for a couple of days. It was very confusing!!! Last week, he just didnt come home, so I went to his mom's and his ex's car was there!!! Never saw her, but I knew she was there. I have been sooooooo depressed over the last 5 weeks! I have lost weight, missed worked and all. Currently I am staying with my parents. It hurts so bad bc we planned this pregnancy and now this. I am trying to stay strong for me and baby but its hard.

PM me if you want to chat.

Well he came back late on, went to bed, put his arms round me and said night hunny bunny!!!!!! WTF

Hes away to work, my heads in a spin, the slef respecting independent woman has kicked in......dunno if i want him now.

How can i be with someone who may just up and leave at any point.

 

[precious-gift]

aww aided after everything you have been through with alex, this is probably the last thing you need. only you know whether you can work things out, sounds like you need to have a serious talk with him, you need to know where you stand. hope you can work things out hun xx

 

[lou_w34]

 

[edinsam]

aw hun I actuallyl cried when I saw it was you that posted - Im still crying now. noooooo after everything that has happened and what you have all gone through, I just wanna hug you, I just dont know what to say. Im thinking maybe the stress of the last 3 months have just taken its toll on him and he may not mean what he says, I certainly hope so. Now after having gone through this myself I am not one to take the man's side but I just think maybe he has had a freak out. I think like Precious said you need to have a really serious talk.

At this moment in time I just want to jump out of my jammies, jump in my car and drive up there to support you.

I am absolutely here if you ever need to talk, cry, whatever. You have been so lovely this horrendous year to me and always inspired me on. If I can return a teeny bit of that I would feel a lot less useless than I do now

xxxxxx

 

[Aidedhoney]

Thanks Sam

Yeah we need to talk, I am loads better today cos no matter what happens i have 2 children that mean the world to me.
Who knows what the future holds for me and OH only time will tell.

x