I'm sorry to hear that you're joining the single moms club, but in all honesty, every single day it does get easier. My husband and I filed for divorce when my son was 4mo. He's now 8mo, divorce is almost over. Just to really complicate things, we closed on a new house the day before he filed for divorce. I had to relocate from CA back to my home state of MD for the support of my family, what little family I still have left since many have passed away. When people learn of your separation, you might be surprised at the unexpected help. Just go into survival mode, do what you need for you and your children, and the rest is trivial and will work itself out. This board has been a great learning tool for me, because being a first time mom, I'm already learning as I go. So just having people that have been there guide me really helps. Hopefully it will help you too.