loss of some symptoms at 7w 3d

[Minimin]

Hey- I noticed my boobs were not as sore as they have been yesterday. I know this can be normal but am worried out of my mind this is a bad sign. I have a scan for my 8 weeks on Tuesday but am dreading the scan where they will tell me the babba hasnt grown. This is what happened last time.

Just wondering if any of you ladies had a similar thing in your experiences and what the outcomes where.

I am still tired- up to pee at night, not as nauseous as I have been but definitely a loss of appetite. I am not as bloated or gassy but have reduced some herbal tablets I am taking so I think that is why.

Thanks ladies

Worried Minimin

 

[Tulip]

Oh Min, I'm sorry I can't help... I was never that symptomatic apart from sleep changes and bloating. It's totally normal for symptoms to come/go and change especially as the placenta begins to wake up. Holding out the PMA for you xxx

 

[kanga]

Try not to hang on every little symptom being the same ervy day. Some days one smptom will outweight the others and they do come and go

Good luck for Tuesday, I am sure all will be well x

 

[debgreasby]

hunni .. i haven' had many symptoms so far, apart from tiredness, and my boobs are huge .. they don't hurt either.

Keeping everythin crossed 4 u xxx

 

[Minimin]

Thanks ladies
I spoke to my Acu doctor about it and he also said it was normal for it to change. He said I would probably also get other symptoms as well- I will be hitting the same time I MC my last on tuesday as well so it is scary.

TUlip- thanks for the PMA- mine seems to wander in and out whenever it feels like it How are you doing chicka?

Thanks Kanga! i think you are right- really nauseous today Hope your well

Debs- my boobs are huge to begin with so now they are humoungous! Think I am going to resort to sports bra's as my normal ones can dig in How are you doing?

Once again, Thanks ladies- I just need reassurance- maybe nerves kicking in for the scan ...eeekkk

 

[Tulip]

It's defo nerves babes, you thought the last few days had dragged.... x

We're good ta, just ordered birth ball as I need to sort out my shocking posture sooner rather than later

 

[Minimin]

Birth ball? What the devil is that babe?

 

[Pippasdvision]

Hib I am not sure if it will help put your mind at ease but I am 8 weeks on sunday and my symptoms have been coming and going for about a week and I have been having cramps too which are worrying me. I have already had one scan just over a week ago and everything was fine and have another on friday and I am already really worried

 

[Tulip]

Birth ball? What the devil is that babe?

Like a big gym ball for you to sit on and bounce on to get bubz in the correct position for arrival. Also good for active labour - bouncing, rolling and hugging it when you're on your knees yelling

 

[blondee]

Minimin,

I had good days and bad days too. Symptoms really aren't a good indicator.

Good luck for tuesday, hun.X

 

[debgreasby]

I'm good Min, thanks 4 asking

 

[EpdTTC]

I feel exactly the same way! Symptoms come and go-boobs never super tender, but less sore now. Heartburn went away. Still tired, still thirsty, moments of nausea and changes in appetite, but I have moments when I think is this real? And I always have the same fear before going for a scan. I think previous losses just really impact our ability to have confidence that things will be ok. Nice that we have each other to normalize this process.

 

[Minimin]

thanks ePDTTC. It is comforting to know we are not alone in this. As you said, a previous loss just makes things soooo hard now. I wish we were not tarnished with the legacy of losses. I just want my innocence back!

ell I had some weird sensations on my boobs last night- kinda on the top of the boob I felt a werid tugging /sore thing. It was mostly when I walked around eg to the bathroom. Not as achey through the night and not as sore this morning.

I had some weird dreams again last night. One I had- I saw a beanie and HB flickering on the screen. DH was not at the scan.
Then another dream where I was bleeding red- Now you all know what has been on my mind heh

Two more sleeps to go. I realised last night that I really am going to be shitting it when the sonographer checks. Almost tempted not to go

Hope your doing well ladies

 

[Perdita]

I'm 7+4 today and I cannot shake the feeling that something is wrong, my next scan isn't till 11 weeks but I don't know if I can last that long! My loss was very late - stillbirth at 34 weeks - but just so scared, symptoms are coming and going and I'm all over the place. It's so hard. My friend found out she was pregnant the same time I did and think theres about 3 or 4 days between us but she already had a daughter and she's already wondering about maternity leave and saving up for when she's off work - I so wish I could have her confidence! I'm doing all the things I was told, been taking the folic acid for months, started the low dose aspirin as soon as I got a positive test and all that jazz but still - feel every day that I'm going to start bleeding and there's nothing that can be done about it. Even more worried that I'm jinxing myself with all the negativity. It's so hard.
xxx

 

[Minimin]

Perdita-
I am so sorry to hear of your loss and totally understand your worry and concern.
I so agree with you.I wish it was easier and we could have the confidence your friend has. remember there is nothing that has indicated something has gone wrong. From what I have read and understood, symptoms will come and go all the time. It is easier to say this- but try not to worry babe

11 week scan does seem far away- can you get a private one done for reassurance or see if your GP or local EPU can do one? It seems odd they are not monitoring you after your last loss

Minimin

 

[Perdita]

It was the consultant that wanted to leave it - but thinking I might speak to the community midwife and see if I can get in earlier. If I push they might do it but no guarantees - if no joy I'll consider a private scan though there isn't anywhere all that close. It is so scary, in some ways I don't want to know, bury my head in the sand but then agian if something is wrong I need to know sooner rather than later - confusion reigns!!!
xxx

 

[Minimin]

I feel exactly the same- the closer Tuesday comes the more I am not rushing the time away and actually considering burying my head in the sand.

 

[87lianne]

I will be 12 weeks pregnant this week i was worrying around the same time as you with loss of symptoms but i have found that my symptoms have been coming and going throughout the pregnancy. Congratulations and good luck x

 

[Minimin]

Thanks 87lianne! I hope you and bump are doing well. I will update when I have had my scan tomorrow morning
eeeeeeekkkkkk

 

[EpdTTC]

I'll be thinking of you Min and waiting for your update!