lost my orgasm!!!

[billlumbergh]

WHAT THE FUNK?? last night my hubby and i DTD, it was fantastic, i love him so much, i'm so attracted to him, everything was perfect, i was very aroused...but... i can not reach the big O. this is the second time this has happened...i don't understand whats going on
Maybe i'm just preoccupied without even realising it so much...i mean i'm fully aware that semen contains the homones that soften your cervix etc etc. maybe these thoughts are more pronounced in my brain then i realise and its throwing me off my stride...

Any one else going through anything similar?

 

[allaboard]

Ive never reached the big O every time so im used to it! I'd say in your case though it's probably hormonal and the fact you're heavily pregnant so you're consumed with other stuff unknowlingly - the body does WEIRD things! This pregnancy when i CAN be bothered to have it, i reach O much easier, very odd lol.

 

[mummy2be362]

I have done, I'm not as far gone as you but I never used to have any problems before and since about 22 weeks it's been incredibly difficult and sometimes impossible to reach

Not too sure why either! Not doing anything differently....xx

 

[babytibby]

same here!!! we' haven't dtd very much as it is cos of OH's working hours etc but over the last probably 6 weeks or so I have noticed I don't get there either Its very frustrating and Im sure its all pregnancy related and will return to normal once lo is here (if we ever get the chance lol) Its certainly not for the wanting or his ability lol as Im right up there as h**** as hell lmao

 

[billlumbergh]

i'm glad i'm not alone!!! i feel bad for my OH, i'm trying to explain to him that its still brilliant and i'm still really enjoying it but he feels like its his fault!! ah men...

 

[Celesse]

I've found at different points in both pregnancy's its been harder/impossible to reach orgasm.

What I think happens is that although sometimes you can reach orgasm just from stimulation, a lot of the time you help the O along by tensing certain muscles around your vagina and uterus in a certain way, often without even realising you are doing it. As baby gets bigger and changes position and you uterus changes shape and position it can become hard to tense your muscles in the way you usually do to reach O. So it feels nice, but you can physically get your bits the right way to release the orgasm and get stuck at the bit where it feels nice but before O is inevitable.