Loving your second/third etc as much as your first??

[brownlieB]

So just off the back of a post I was reading about grandparents love for little one. How do you did you feel about loving your second/third born?

I've spoken to friends and they say when they were pregnant they thought or were worried they wouldn't love second born as much as first but when the time came it was just there.

Did you or do you feel this way? I can't help but think my DD will be the apple of my eye but is that because she's here now? Our friends openly said they know they shouldn't have favourites but his favourite is his 2nd born.

 

[special_kala]

I was a little worried but now Willow is here its just all fallen into place.

Its not even something i need to think about, your heart just grows i guess.

 

[ttc_lolly]

OT - congrats Kala I was wondering if you'd given birth yet!

 

[Kimmy25]

I worried all the way through my 2nd pregnancy we all know the all consuming love right? how is it even possible to love another the same?

completely honest it came as soon as i held him that first time i can honestly say i love them both exactly the same