Hi Maaybe,
Sorry to hear about your results love.
It must be super annoying, the way you found out, but go easy on the OH, he's probably doing it tough at the moment. It's a bit of a knock to the old male pride.
What it all comes down to I'm afraid, are those numbers you've had so much trouble getting - and what the follow up test tells you.
We had a first count of 1 million, a second count of 14 and a third count of 11. So our first test was probably wrong. But it wasn't the low count that sent us to IVF in the end, it was our morphology, which is 2%. You need to get ALL the numbers babe.
There are definitely things you can do. The two most important ones are to stop smoking if he does, and start taking zinc.
Ultimately though, your doc will tell you whether he thinks you've got enough to work with naturally or via IUI, or whether it's straight to IVF with ICSI.
Good luck honey