WantsALittle1
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I mean *no* offense by this, so please no replies putting me on blast! Just putting it out there to see if I'm alone in this feeling.
I am uncomfortable with my daughter having a male NICU nurse and I feel really awful, but I think I'm going to request only female nurses from here on out. Does anyone else feel this way?
I am all for workplace gender equality, and yes, I realize that there could be sickos of any gender. I just feel like the odds are better with my daughter in the care of a woman and, to me, a female NICU nurse is like a substitute mother. It feels very natural, and while I don't like all the female nurses she's had, I do generally feel more comfortable with the idea of her being cared for by women. Also, I really don't feel comfortable BFing or having my boobs out in the open around a guy! I have a male OB/GYN, and would trust him with my life. I absolutely adore him and wouldn't/couldn't replace him! There's something different about a male caretaker in the NICU setting because of all the intimate (BFing, cuddling, diaper-changing) moments I'm trying to share with my daughter. It just feels weird to me to have a dude looming at her bedside when I'm BFing. I don't feel the same weirdness when it's a woman...
I am uncomfortable with my daughter having a male NICU nurse and I feel really awful, but I think I'm going to request only female nurses from here on out. Does anyone else feel this way?
I am all for workplace gender equality, and yes, I realize that there could be sickos of any gender. I just feel like the odds are better with my daughter in the care of a woman and, to me, a female NICU nurse is like a substitute mother. It feels very natural, and while I don't like all the female nurses she's had, I do generally feel more comfortable with the idea of her being cared for by women. Also, I really don't feel comfortable BFing or having my boobs out in the open around a guy! I have a male OB/GYN, and would trust him with my life. I absolutely adore him and wouldn't/couldn't replace him! There's something different about a male caretaker in the NICU setting because of all the intimate (BFing, cuddling, diaper-changing) moments I'm trying to share with my daughter. It just feels weird to me to have a dude looming at her bedside when I'm BFing. I don't feel the same weirdness when it's a woman...