Tbh Hun I am not sure many would agree with you. I would say the best NICU we had was a male, he was by far the most fabulous nurse we met there. (some members here know who I am talking about would no doubt agree) I used to walk in and he'd be singing songs to the babies, making the neonatal journey less clinical as such an trying to re-create the norm. None of the female nurses did that. None
I did feel a little worried about the bfing but with practice and confidence I did express and bf in front of him. He's seen that kind of thing all his career, it's not even an issue??
I know who you mean He was lovely though, he was so so nice with Sophie, and I loved the way he sang to the babies. You're so right, he made the neonatal journey much less clinical - and he was so lovely and gentle with the babies, much nicer than some of the female nurses (I bet you know who I am thinking of right now...). I didn't express or BF in front of him, but I didn't start BF Sophie till she was nearly into special care, and he only looked after her in intensive care and the first couple of weeks in HDU. I don't think I'd have been comfortable with it - but I wasn't comfortable doing it in front of anyone!