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[Nikki1979]

I also have a mild protein c deficiency. I have an appointment with a hematologist to see what will happen from here. Its very mild so dont know if treatment will be needed but my GP also said that the treatment options are heparin shots. I hope it doesnt cost very much here in Australia. TTC is becoming very costly - I just hope my body did everything the way mother nature intended it to do

 

[GingerPanda]

I totally agree, Nikki! If my body did everything the way it was supposed to, I wouldn't have PCOS, I'd have regular periods, wouldn't need drugs to attempt ovulation, and I wouldn't have a blood clotting disorder making me miscarry!

Everyone keeps telling me, "You're young, just give it time!" Ugh, spoken like a person who doesn't have a single thing wrong with them.


Fertiles just don't understand!

 

[Renaendel]

GP, those are the same people who tell same sex couples "you are stressing to much about it, stop trying to control everything, just have sex with your parter and it will happen."

Doesn't work that way ladies. Some of us need assistance to make it happen. I am ok with it. I mean I would rather my body worked, but I am alright accepting help.

 

[Pixiedust22]

AFAIK I am personally quite fertile but I have no sex drive so the "just relax and see what happens" wouldn't work for me, I would literally never do it!

 

[GingerPanda]

Renae, right? How do you seriously look a same-sex couple in the eyes and say "Stop trying so hard, it'll happen"?

Pixiedust, that is true! Sorry if I offended! I also forgot about people who are asexual. Sometimes it's not that easy, even for people who ARE fertile.

 

[confuzion]

Sorta fertile here too. But my body still sucks.

 

[GingerPanda]

I think with my struggles, I have learned that "getting pregnant" and "staying pregnant" are two different things entirely. I vote for miscarriage to be outlawed.

 

[confuzion]

I second that vote!

 

[Pixiedust22]

You didn't offend me at all, I was just agreeing with your statement. It's probably easier to be fertile and no sex-drive since you can just put up with it and stare at the ceiling lol. I definitely agree about keeping it...

 

[Bug222]

I think with my struggles, I have learned that "getting pregnant" and "staying pregnant" are two different things entirely. I vote for miscarriage to be outlawed.

haha totally agree!!

I dont know how i would class my fertility.. like confuzion sorta fertile sometimes... took a year to conceive my DS, then got pregnant within a couple months of trying with each of my losses.

 

[Soanxious]

I have been pregnant 5 times since Oct 2013 so that makes me fertile.. but im broken my eggs are either too old... or my babies keep implanting incorrectly.. so I need help too... hoping I get some help when I get my clotting and antibody bloods back in next few weeks.

 

[Pixiedust22]

Yeah, getting pregnant isn't very helpful if it won't stick...

 

[GingerPanda]

Definitely true.

Soanxious, I hope the tests can turn up something to help you like my clotting test did.

 

[Kuawen]

Hi ladies. Would it be ok if I joined?

 

[GingerPanda]

Welcome, Kuawen!

 

[Squig34]

Agreed, GP!

Hi, Kuawen!

Soanxious - I wonder if the endometrial scratch would help for you. You probably saw where I mentioned it in my journal, but it can be really successful, apparently.

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks GP I so hope something can be found that can be fixed...

Welcome Kuawen.. sorry for your losses...

Squig I missed that what was mentioned about the endometrial scratch.. do you know roughly what page it is on? will try n google it now... xx

 

[Soanxious]

Wanders back in after googling endometrial scratch

legs crossed




protecting my cervix








clutching tummy







eyes filled up with tears...


Now I know how men feel when they see someone getting kicked in the goolies!!!!!!

ooooooooo



But if it works I will try it.. will ask my consultant when I get my blood results... adds that to her list on laptop ready to ask consultant about...

Thank you I want to try n ask about everything!!

 

[Kuawen]

Thank you for the warm welcomes, ladies

 

[GingerPanda]

Just looked up the endometrial scratch. OUCH!