Jai - I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you've probably heard this before, but nothing you did caused your ectopic. As much as we are all guilty of thinking that we could have changed the outcome of a m/c by doing something different, the truth is, we couldn't have. We just don't have that much control of over our bodies. Nothing you did caused this, so please don't be too harsh on yourself. I know this is such a hard time, so please take care of yourself. I hope the chemicals are out of your system soon.