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[Chrissi1981]

I do see a line hun on the first test !!! Have you had a period since miscarriage ? Time will tell but don't beat yourself up if it doesn't happen. Didn't happen for me two weeks ago.

Pixie dust I have had a period 4 weeks after my mc which lasted exactly 7 days. 7 days later I ovulated. But this test was prior to my period. Which is why I'm thinking it's either a chemical or hcg or even an evap.

This 2ww is gonna kill me. Probably doesn't mean anything but I'm so crampy on the right side. Time will tell for me also. Hehe

Baby dust to all you lovelies

 

[kategirl]

Chrissi - Nope, no AF since the CP (we tried ight away), but I've taken a couple tests since then and gotten BFNs, so I don't think it's leftover from the CP.

I asked in the TWW forum and one person replied and thought it was BFP, and I put it up on Countdown to Pregnancy and all 5 people who have replied thought it was a BFP, so it will be interesting to see what I get tomorrow morning! Who am I kidding... I'll probably take one tonight once I get home and just know that it could be a BFN only because it's in the evening.

My BBs are also insanely sore and swollen all of a sudden today, which is weird since I almost never get that before AF, and it's never been a problem for me when pregnant.

Chrissi, I hope this is your month!

 

[Chrissi1981]

Chrissi - Nope, no AF since the CP (we tried ight away), but I've taken a couple tests since then and gotten BFNs, so I don't think it's leftover from the CP.

I asked in the TWW forum and one person replied and thought it was BFP, and I put it up on Countdown to Pregnancy and all 5 people who have replied thought it was a BFP, so it will be interesting to see what I get tomorrow morning! Who am I kidding... I'll probably take one tonight once I get home and just know that it could be a BFN only because it's in the evening.

My BBs are also insanely sore and swollen all of a sudden today, which is weird since I almost never get that before AF, and it's never been a problem for me when pregnant.

Chrissi, I hope this is your month!

Ah ok. Well then there you go you have your answer. It's only an evap if the line is grey. If it's pink it's a positive. I hope god blesses you this time around. Praying for you honey. I know how much it must mean to you. You should test 10 or 11dpo just keep yourself busy mentally ... I can't wait till this time next week, but I trying to remember to love and cherish the present moment.

 

[Kazy]

Anyone ever have implantation dip? I'm 9dpo today and temp took a nose dive. My temp doesn't normally go down until after AF but this is only 2nd cycle since MC so things could still be off.

 

[RockNRollBaby]

Hi all! I am hoping I can join your group, if that's okay. I had a miscarriage almost 3 weeks ago, I was 7 weeks, 2 days. My midwife told us to wait 3 months, but said if we really wanted to try right away that was fine too. So we started trying as soon as I stopped bleeding. Although, I have no clue when to even test as I don't even know when to expect my period. Would love a support group with women who know exactly what I am going through. Some info on me, my name is Erica. I am 26. I have a beautiful daughter whom turns 1 tomorrow.

 

[kategirl]

Welcome, Erica! I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I know a lot of women end up having a "normal" cycle after a loss, so I'd probably test once you get past when you would normally get AF if you counted the first day of bleeding as the first day of the cycle.

 

[laurac1988]

Hey Erica. Sorry for your loss xxxx

 

[Chrissi1981]

Hi all! I am hoping I can join your group, if that's okay. I had a miscarriage almost 3 weeks ago, I was 7 weeks, 2 days. My midwife told us to wait 3 months, but said if we really wanted to try right away that was fine too. So we started trying as soon as I stopped bleeding. Although, I have no clue when to even test as I don't even know when to expect my period. Would love a support group with women who know exactly what I am going through. Some info on me, my name is Erica. I am 26. I have a beautiful daughter whom turns 1 tomorrow.

Hi honey. I am sorry you had to go through this. You have found the right place here. It helps so much to talk with other woman in the same position. So welcome !!

I wanted to note about my own experience.. Doctors and nurses told me to wait just one cycle. Which we part did part not lol. Exactly when I ovulated after my mmc I have no idea. OPKs were not strong as this month. The first month after my proper AF I had two definite lines; test line as bold as the control. I also had 2 smilies on my digital Thursday and Friday of last week. Prior to this before AF I had smilies all the time. I think the guys on baby and bump are right. You can't predict ovulation after a mc so easily as opk tests pick up on the pregnancy hormone and this gives you a faulae positive. We did kinda try after the mmc but we didn't conceive. I'd say try. There's nothing medically stopping you as long as YOU and your husband feel ready.

However, it is hard and tiring. Try and stay in the present moment and plan lots of fun activities to keep you occupied. I find this helps me a lot !!! We go to the cinema, play games at home, cook romantic meals and have them by candle light. I reenact spa days at home. Redecorate the house ( although stay away from toxic paints and the likes they won't help), have fun days with your little one, take her to soft play. The list is endless. You will be blessed again honey. We all will. Have faith, think positive and for every pregnant lady you see (This is what I do) see it as a sign that the universe is voicing back to you that you will be a mama to 2 beauties soon enough.

Sending you lots of love from London !!

Chrissi xxxxx

 

[kategirl]

So, just a quick update - I got a BFP on a digi! I'm kind of in shock and not sure if it will stick (I'm only 9dpo) but I have fx! It would be so exciting to only end up being a month off of the original due date. And this baby would be due on Mother's Day/the day after our 6th anniversary!

 

[Chrissi1981]

So, just a quick update - I got a BFP on a digi! I'm kind of in shock and not sure if it will stick (I'm only 9dpo) but I have fx! It would be so exciting to only end up being a month off of the original due date. And this baby would be due on Mother's Day/the day after our 6th anniversary!

Oh my gosh hun this is great news !!! I'm so happy for you. It's it great to get a wahooooo. Keep thinking positive thoughts. Geez I wanna fast forward a week already so can test for myself. It's so hard waiting !!! 9dpo is so early ! I'm gonna wait till 10dpo as I got my at that time back in May. Oh I hope it sticks honey. Big love to you and your little star seed xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Nikki1979]

Congrats Kate - Just think positive. Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

Well i went to the dr today (with my daughter but just collared him to ask a couple of questions) i asked him how long after a miscarriage does it take for cycles to go back to normal he said up to 3 months, so told him i had my miscarriage in November and still every other month im having a 40-45 day cycle with bleeding inbetween, his eyes nearly popped out of his head lol! I also told him id had a chemical pregnancy last cycle which they dont count as anything apparently. He said to keep charting and take the chart back to him when iv had the long cycle so he can see more if im ovulating or not because it seems im not with the cycle so long. But also said unfortunately as im trying for a baby there is not much they can do unless i put trying on hold, he cant refer me for help to fall pregnant as i already have children so im not entitled to any help, and he said he can personally put me on clomid but as it works so well with me ( i had it with my first son to fall pregnant and had 6 follicles the month i fell pregnant with him) he doesn't want to put me on it as he doesn't think my body would cope with a multiple pregnancy, so he has pretty much said he would suggest calling it quits!! Which im not about lol do yet, but he is willing to look at my chart and go from there, so i will just keep in charting and hopeing i fall pregnant and it sticks

 

[Pixiedust22]

Congrats Kate!

 

[Chrissi1981]

Well i went to the dr today (with my daughter but just collared him to ask a couple of questions) i asked him how long after a miscarriage does it take for cycles to go back to normal he said up to 3 months, so told him i had my miscarriage in November and still every other month im having a 40-45 day cycle with bleeding inbetween, his eyes nearly popped out of his head lol! I also told him id had a chemical pregnancy last cycle which they dont count as anything apparently. He said to keep charting and take the chart back to him when iv had the long cycle so he can see more if im ovulating or not because it seems im not with the cycle so long. But also said unfortunately as im trying for a baby there is not much they can do unless i put trying on hold, he cant refer me for help to fall pregnant as i already have children so im not entitled to any help, and he said he can personally put me on clomid but as it works so well with me ( i had it with my first son to fall pregnant and had 6 follicles the month i fell pregnant with him) he doesn't want to put me on it as he doesn't think my body would cope with a multiple pregnancy, so he has pretty much said he would suggest calling it quits!! Which im not about lol do yet, but he is willing to look at my chart and go from there, so i will just keep in charting and hopeing i fall pregnant and it sticks

Have you tried the herb chasteberry also known as agnus Castus and vitex? They are recommended for women with long cycles. I'd say give it a try. Also if you aren't already be careful with non organic meats and dairy they most always have hormones in them which can affect your cycles. I took this herb straight after my mmc and my period came immediately 4 weeks after... From personal experience it's good stuff...

Good luck !! Xxx

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

No hun i havent, iv never heard of it before, I'll have to search it and give it a go thank you x

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

Just read reviews on amazon about it, sounds brilliant!!!!! I may have to order some! Thanks for the recommendation hun, and all natural too! X

 

[Chrissi1981]

Just read reviews on amazon about it, sounds brilliant!!!!! I may have to order some! Thanks for the recommendation hun, and all natural too! X

I hope it works for you. I only use natural stuff. I use what God blessed us with natural remedies. Only take it up until you ovulate if you are trying to conceive. If not take it all month long. It may take up to 3 months to work so be patient. Also I find the tincture works better than the tablets.

Xxx

 

[Chrissi1981]

Hi Ladies.

I wanted to update. I'm only 3dpo and I really don't know what's up but I'm crampy on and off feels like AF. And just like the AF cramps I feel nauseous. What's unusual for me is that I also have been rather hungry today. I don't have to eat a lot to feel satisfied, but just a small amount. Told the hubby, he thinks I'm reading into it too much. Maybe, but I can't deny what I'm feeling. Right off to sleepless. Yikes right side twinges now eeeeeekkkkkkk. Kate did you feel anything like this ??

 

[kategirl]

Chrissi - I'll admit that I have, but I don't know how much were real symptoms and how much weren't.

 

[Bug222]

huge congrats Kategirl!