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[kazine]

Don't stress out about stressing out lol. It's counter productive.

Your OH wasn't drinking or doing anything illegal. It should all turn out alright. It was an accident. Baby will be fine if you are pregnant. This shouldn't affect anything. Keep us posted. Hope it blows over soon. Is the girl injured?

She apparently has a fractured skull which is why I think the parents are probably pressing her to lie to try and get OH done for it. It seems a bit suspicious because she went to the hospital on the night and they said she seemed okay but they wanted to keep her in for a bit to monitor a "possible head injury"

Then she went home and then the next day said she was feeling really sick and then went back to hospital with a fractured skull and is lying about him speeding. Seems suspicious to me :/

We have a witness and CCTV but I'm so worried about what might happen if the parents really press for it. My dream is to be a foster carer and if OH had a criminal record that dream would be gone in a flash just because some girl decided to lie.

I'd usually take a diazepam tablet to calm me down right about now but I don't wanna risk it.

 

[confuzion]

Well however it happened, there will definitely be repercussions. Hopefully, at it's worst, it's nothing more than suing for money, which if your OH has insurance, should be covered. At least that's how it usually works in the States, I don't know about Scotland sorry .

 

[kazine]

Well however it happened, there will definitely be repercussions. Hopefully, at it's worst, it's nothing more than suing for money, which if your OH has insurance, should be covered. At least that's how it usually works in the States, I don't know about Scotland sorry .

Ideally the police will find no fault (he wasn't at fault but I don't exactly have faith in our police system here) and they will close the case and that will be all :/. But the fact she's said he was speeding has really set off an investigation now when she could have just told the truth and everything would have been so much easier.

 

[confuzion]

Hope the investigation rules in your favor hon

Do any of you guys get a side stitch type pain after your period ends? I never used to before, but have had it happen to me twice now. It's really uncomfortable, and I'm wondering if it's something I should have checked out or if I'm being unnecessarily cautious.

 

[mapha2]

Here we go. I managed today

 

[mapha2]

Iam so so sorry Kazine, I hope everything turns out well. I know its easier said than done but try to calm down for incase you are pregies.

@ Confuzion, my expected date is 28 October and I called my gynea yesterday, he booked me for the 4th of March. As for now, I just need to take it easy and hope for the best. Being paranoid is killing me slowly however, I just need to be strong and think positively.

 

[confuzion]

Those are some super positive tests! Seems your hcg is rising nicely. Hopefully you've got nothing to worry about this time!

 

[kazine]

Got a BFN today but only at 8DPO so still time.

 

[emzeebob]

hey ladies

sorry i havent been on, been such as hectic month uni work and my 2.5 year old is strting the assessment process for adhd so had meetings etc

as for me im 11dpo with a BFN but having same symptoms as i had before i gt my bfp with my mc in decmeber.

headaches, dizzyness, nausea, backache, cramps, my lower abdomen is rock hard, feelng wet down there allll the time so much keep going to check f af has arrived and ts very creamy,
i swaer im making these up in my head,

hope everyone ok, going to try and read and catch up with all the posts, i noticed some bfp's on the front page congratz xx

 

[Rahma]

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[confuzion]

kazine - yes, 8 DPO is very early.

emzee - Good to hear from you. Hope your feelings are spot on and you update with a BFP soon!

Rahma - Awwww yay!! It's amazing how quickly they start to look like tiny little humans lol. Adorbs! Congrats hon

 

[Mrs_chris_36]

Wow rahma that scan picture is amazing

I rather embarrassingly had a cry at work today, I was in my little office with a couple odd my workmates quietly working away and in the big office everyone was chattering away someone else announced another pregnancy and the chat and banter was relentless. I felt myself reaching my limit and had to quietly exit, didn't make a fuss but my workday followed me and asked if I was ok and I just burst into tears. She gave me a hug and some kind words. Obviously I really don't resent anyone else's wonderful news but I can't help but feel sad and it was just a bit overwhelming today.

I had to pull myself together though as I had another home visit to do so I sucked it up and focused on my paperwork...I think I'll sleep well tonight I feel exhausted

 

[Mrs_chris_36]

Wow rahma that scan picture is amazing

I rather embarrassingly had a cry at work today, I was in my little office with a couple of my workmates quietly working away and in the big office everyone was chattering away someone else announced another pregnancy and the chat and banter was relentless. I felt myself reaching my limit and had to quietly exit, didn't make a fuss but my workmate followed me and asked if I was ok and I just burst into tears. She gave me a hug and some kind words. Obviously I really don't resent anyone else's wonderful news but I can't help but feel sad and it was just a bit overwhelming today.

I had to pull myself together though as I had another home visit to do so I sucked it up and focused on my paperwork...I think I'll sleep well tonight I feel exhausted

 

[3Minions]

Big hugs Andrea.

Looks awesome Rahma!

 

[confuzion]

Andrea. We all have those moments

 

[kazine]

Not that if I'm pregnant I've started off with a stress free pregnancy... We hit a young girl with the car yesterday! It was awful. She was about 13 I think. She's okay (we think) and we've been to the police and everything and we weren't at fault (she stepped out without looking) but oh my god

If I'm pregnant this month it's going to be a really horrible stressful start :'(. The girl concerned has lied to the police and told them that we were speeding when we weren't (she wasn't even looking!) presumably to try to get my OH a criminal record for something that wasn't his fault

He never ever speeds and if he ever goes over by accident I'm always watching and tell him to slow down. And why would he speed if he has his very possibly pregnant fiancée in the car

Great scan pic Rahma!

In terms of the accident, the police were just around to take OHs statement and said that our independent witness backed up our story. Provided the CCTV matches our memory of the events, all should be okay

 

[Rahma]

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[lesh07]

Great scan pic rhama.

Well finally got my ovulation tests to read negitive after about 5-6 days of quite strong positives and dtd for 4 nights on the trot so hopefully one of those swimmers caught that eggy. x

 

[Lulle]

Good to hear that everything turned ok, Kazine. And what's regarding stress:

I can't really come to terms with the statement that "stress will hurt the baby". If that's true - babies wouldn't be conceived in times of war and people who have lost in stillbirth or miscarriage would never have a baby again.

When people tell me to stress down due to the baby, I tend to get grumpy. I think it's such a stupid thing to say. Just as stupid as when people who gave birth in (let's say) week 26, and baby survives because: "He must have felt how much we loved him". Ok - so when they die we didn't love them enough???

 

[kazine]

9DPO Fuckfuckfuckfuck!!!!!