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[Leinzlove]

Thanks hun! You won't either!

You are such a great friend.

 

[krulci]

Guess I'm sticking around--I was planning on it anyway lol--but still joining on the TTC talk. My baby dot isn't sticking. Just waiting to bleed now.

I'm so so sorry, Confuzion.

 

[krulci]

Congrats, Leinz!! If you feel right, it is right.

I'm jumping in with another MC question! With mine, I started spotting - very lightly - around 5 weeks and had a sinking feeling that the babe was in trouble, ran a series of blood tests and had multiple scans over the next 5 weeks, all coming back completely normal! At 9.5 weeks (Wednesday), my OB did a scan herself (I'd been going to radiologists for more precise views) in office and saw the baby, heartbeat, everything was perfect. That Sunday (10 wks), I delivered the baby at home. I've never had a diagnosis... Does this go down as a MMC?

Today is my birthday, and what am I doing? Thinking about the bump I should have. What a cheery topic! For whatever reason, today is feeling harder than Christmas... Didn't see that one coming.

SHBFP vibes to all of you!

 

[confuzion]

krulci - that's not a MMC since the scan showed the baby was fine. If the baby's heart had stopped, and your body held on for weeks despite that, then it would be considered a MMC. What you had was a MC.

Happy birthday. I'm sorry you're having a rough one

I was playing around with an image for fun. What do you guys think?

https://i.imgur.com/aNPHgcp.gif

I wanted to make it my avatar but apparently the file is too large . Probably because of the animation.

 

[Leinzlove]

Kruici: I'm sorry you are feeling down. Happy Birthday! Just think on your next birthday... You'll be holding your rainbow!

C: Love the image! Amazing!

 

[confuzion]

Thanks leinz. I like it too. Think I will add it to the first page of my journal

 

[Leinzlove]

Yeah and I'm like 8 tear bears on order behind. And you have me thinking of wonder woman bear...

 

[confuzion]

glad I can give you some creative inspiration

 

[Leinzlove]

I better run away from it now... I can't stop pregnancy obsessing and not getting a thing done either...

 

[confuzion]

aww, well I don't blame you!

 

[Renaendel]

I love your new avatar!

 

[confuzion]

How are we doing mama bears? So bored tonight.

 

[Conina]

Hi all!!

When I went in for my 12 week scan, I bumped into a girl I know in the waiting room. Her LO is in nursery with C, and we would go to mums & tots together.

Anyway, my scan showed no heartbeat and I MC'd a couple of weeks later.

It's so hard to see her now and think that she's at the exact stage I would be at. Don't get me wrong, I'm so happy for her and also, she's not having an easy pregnancy so she has her own problems, but I saw her this morning leaving her LO off and she's got a proper bump now. That should be me!!

 

[Lulle]

Don't know when we'll try again - or even if. Scan today, at 12+1, showed no heartbeat. Everything was normal a week ago.

To the hospital tomorrow.

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Don't know when we'll try again - or even if. Scan today, at 12+1, showed no heartbeat. Everything was normal a week ago.

To the hospital tomorrow.

No Lulle! I am so heartbroken for you now I am so so sorry hun

 

[Leinzlove]

Lulle: NOOO! This can't be.... Thinking and praying for you. Breaks my heart. Sending .

 

[jmandrews]

With a miscarriage you start bleeding and that is normally the queue that the pregnancy is terminating.

In a missed misscarriage people find out at a scan that the bundle of potential stopped growing a few weeks earlier. Unlike a typical misscarriage women are given medications to start the process or have to have a d&c to remove it. The body should have terminated the pregnancy but for whatever reason it didn't.

Ok thank you. I'm not sure what I had. I had tiny spotting of brown so i called my dr and they had me come in. They did an exam and ultrasound. At the time I would have been 9 weeks 5 days. During the ultrasound we found that baby stopped developing at 5 weeks. 3 days later I was heavily bleeding.

 

[jmandrews]

Hi all!!

When I went in for my 12 week scan, I bumped into a girl I know in the waiting room. Her LO is in nursery with C, and we would go to mums & tots together.

Anyway, my scan showed no heartbeat and I MC'd a couple of weeks later.

It's so hard to see her now and think that she's at the exact stage I would be at. Don't get me wrong, I'm so happy for her and also, she's not having an easy pregnancy so she has her own problems, but I saw her this morning leaving her LO off and she's got a proper bump now. That should be me!!

I know how you feel my cousin is pregnant and due 4 days before I was. This is her second too but was not planned for her. Her DD is 7 months old. Just upsetting to hear about because DH and I tried for our baby and lost it. I'd be 12 weeks now entering the 2nd Tri. It will be hard when she has a bump and has her baby.

 

[jmandrews]

Don't know when we'll try again - or even if. Scan today, at 12+1, showed no heartbeat. Everything was normal a week ago.

To the hospital tomorrow.

oh no I am so sorry. Heartbreaking.

 

[lesh07]

Lulle I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. xxxx