Hi Ladies,
well i guess i belong to this club Found out I was pregnant saturday ( 2 tests that day and one on sunday). Have my doc appointment on tuesday, so waiting for confirmation. but sure looks like I'm preggers.
On the sunday i took the clear blue with the indicator - it read pregnant, 3+ weeks, which according to their chart the doc might date my pregnancy over 5 weeks. So we'll see what she says. All the pregnancy due date calcator date baby for mar 7 or 9. So i'm about 4-5 weeks
Symptoms: really tired & exhausted, bloated, some period like cramps, peeing A LOT, sensitive boobies, kinda gassy (blush) and major mood swings. I'm crying over everything
its hard to wrap my head around it. when i saw the first test, i had no idea how to feel. I've wanted a baby for awhile, but we were holding off for the "right time". we had thought about trying last september, but I decided to back to school and my workplace was a little uncertain. But i never went back on birth control, so I had been off it for maybe a year. so even tho we knew there was a chance, it was not planned. this was a suprise.
well so not planned. which i feel bad about. because i didn't know ( i had no idea, altho thinking back the signs were obvious now) i was pregnant, so i wasn't taking care of myself and the little one. I guess i just feel guilt over it and hope that i didn;'t screw up.
I'm kinda scared just because i don't know what the future will hold. I'm scared because of all the sad losses that have happened to others and family and friends close to me. I only want the best for my baby. I could be just over sensitive right now cause of the hormones, but im just worried. and maybe thats why im sort of trying to not get attached, but i cant help it. I am excited too to know that I'll have this life grow within me.
Sorry for my long rant, i think i just have a bunch of different emotionbs running through me - fear, happiness, overwhelmed, excitement, plus all wrapped up in hormones.
thanks for putting up with me
- 27 years old
- first pregnancy
- married 7 years (anniversary yesterday!
hi congrats on you BFP
i think everything your feeling is completely normal hun. im terrified something is going to happen but have decided to think positive and what will be will be - stressing over the next 6/7 weeks wont stop anything happening so might as well enjoy being pregnant and if something happens it happens. the pregnancy doesnt seem real to me yet am hoping it will once i see my little bean on my scan on the 21st
x
TEll me about it!!! I could EASILY wear maternity clothes right now lol I look disgusting i look at leasst 4 months! maybe its cause this is my 4th pregnancy 3rd baby???? ehh I DONT LIKE IT LOL i didnt show the first time till 6 1/2 months 5 1/2 months with 2nd. My DH said um you know thats not baby! jk
Congrats on your BFP! And dont worry. My first 2 were not "planned" either. My first we were not preventing, but it had been a year. I wasnt expecting anything. With my second, i had only stopped nursing a few months prior, and only had one cycle in 4 months since weaning. That pregnancy was a HUGE shock. I had been at a wedding the week before (my mom had the baby for the weekend), and was drunk as a skunk. It was the first time I had been away from the baby longer than an hour, so we kinda went crazy. 6 days later I got my BFP.Hi Ladies,
well i guess i belong to this club Found out I was pregnant saturday ( 2 tests that day and one on sunday). Have my doc appointment on tuesday, so waiting for confirmation. but sure looks like I'm preggers.
On the sunday i took the clear blue with the indicator - it read pregnant, 3+ weeks, which according to their chart the doc might date my pregnancy over 5 weeks. So we'll see what she says. All the pregnancy due date calcator date baby for mar 7 or 9. So i'm about 4-5 weeks
Symptoms: really tired & exhausted, bloated, some period like cramps, peeing A LOT, sensitive boobies, kinda gassy (blush) and major mood swings. I'm crying over everything
its hard to wrap my head around it. when i saw the first test, i had no idea how to feel. I've wanted a baby for awhile, but we were holding off for the "right time". we had thought about trying last september, but I decided to back to school and my workplace was a little uncertain. But i never went back on birth control, so I had been off it for maybe a year. so even tho we knew there was a chance, it was not planned. this was a suprise.
well so not planned. which i feel bad about. because i didn't know ( i had no idea, altho thinking back the signs were obvious now) i was pregnant, so i wasn't taking care of myself and the little one. I guess i just feel guilt over it and hope that i didn;'t screw up.
I'm kinda scared just because i don't know what the future will hold. I'm scared because of all the sad losses that have happened to others and family and friends close to me. I only want the best for my baby. I could be just over sensitive right now cause of the hormones, but im just worried. and maybe thats why im sort of trying to not get attached, but i cant help it. I am excited too to know that I'll have this life grow within me.
Sorry for my long rant, i think i just have a bunch of different emotionbs running through me - fear, happiness, overwhelmed, excitement, plus all wrapped up in hormones.
thanks for putting up with me
- 27 years old
- first pregnancy
- married 7 years (anniversary yesterday!
[QUOTE=bkay77;19404109]Congrats on your BFP! And dont worry. My first 2 were not "planned" either. My first we were not preventing, but it had been a year. I wasnt expecting anything. With my second, i had only stopped nursing a few months prior, and only had one cycle in 4 months since weaning. That pregnancy was a HUGE shock. I had been at a wedding the week before (my mom had the baby for the weekend), and was drunk as a skunk. It was the first time I had been away from the baby longer than an hour, so we kinda went crazy. 6 days later I got my BFP.Hi Ladies,
well i guess i belong to this club Found out I was pregnant saturday ( 2 tests that day and one on sunday). Have my doc appointment on tuesday, so waiting for confirmation. but sure looks like I'm preggers.
On the sunday i took the clear blue with the indicator - it read pregnant, 3+ weeks, which according to their chart the doc might date my pregnancy over 5 weeks. So we'll see what she says. All the pregnancy due date calcator date baby for mar 7 or 9. So i'm about 4-5 weeks
Symptoms: really tired & exhausted, bloated, some period like cramps, peeing A LOT, sensitive boobies, kinda gassy (blush) and major mood swings. I'm crying over everything
its hard to wrap my head around it. when i saw the first test, i had no idea how to feel. I've wanted a baby for awhile, but we were holding off for the "right time". we had thought about trying last september, but I decided to back to school and my workplace was a little uncertain. But i never went back on birth control, so I had been off it for maybe a year. so even tho we knew there was a chance, it was not planned. this was a suprise.
well so not planned. which i feel bad about. because i didn't know ( i had no idea, altho thinking back the signs were obvious now) i was pregnant, so i wasn't taking care of myself and the little one. I guess i just feel guilt over it and hope that i didn;'t screw up.
I'm kinda scared just because i don't know what the future will hold. I'm scared because of all the sad losses that have happened to others and family and friends close to me. I only want the best for my baby. I could be just over sensitive right now cause of the hormones, but im just worried. and maybe thats why im sort of trying to not get attached, but i cant help it. I am excited too to know that I'll have this life grow within me.
Sorry for my long rant, i think i just have a bunch of different emotionbs running through me - fear, happiness, overwhelmed, excitement, plus all wrapped up in hormones.
thanks for putting up with me
- 27 years old
- first pregnancy
- married 7 years (anniversary yesterday!
With both of them, those weeks before I tested positive, I would drink wine and was not eating the best. Before my first I was still smoking cigarettes up until the minute I took that first test. They are both as healthy as can be now. You are still super early. As long as you are taking care of yourself now and taking your prenatal, I wouldnt worry about it.
I understand about the not getting attached though. I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks 5 years ago due to low progesterone, I was heartbroken, so now I tend to not get too attached until the 2nd trimester. Im always scared like crazy with my pregnancies. We can all be here together, and help each other through
TEll me about it!!! I could EASILY wear maternity clothes right now lol I look disgusting i look at leasst 4 months! maybe its cause this is my 4th pregnancy 3rd baby???? ehh I DONT LIKE IT LOL i didnt show the first time till 6 1/2 months 5 1/2 months with 2nd. My DH said um you know thats not baby! jk
Haha, then what's my excuse? This is my first! Weak ab muscles? Argh
I had my first u/s today and it was perfect! Baby is measuring 6+2 and we saw a perfect little fluttering heartbeat! So thrilled, and it's a huge relief!