March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[janelleybean]

Army- you need a kitchen like mine. =]

Krissy- My husband used to be messy. I totally taught this old dog a new trick. It's not that we're both clean freaks, we just got in the habit of, if you make a mess--clean it up. When I first met him, he was living in a 2 bedroom house with 5 men! Two were paying rent, 3 were just getting drunk and passing out in the living room. Their house was disgusting! FINALLY, 1 went to prison, and 3 hopped on a train and traveled the country. So, in order to stay the night at his house, I told him he had to clean his house. Dan went to work for a week out where Jesus lost his sandals and I cleaned his house. It was so gross!! That's when magic erasers became my best friend. That and bleach. LOTS OF BLEACH! The house was so clean when he came back, I even bought a carpet cleaner and cleaned the carpets. It was then he asked me to move in with him and he's lived a neat and tidy life ever since.

 

[Krissy485]

Janelle- Magic eraser is my best friend to!!!!! i even like the walmart brand ones.....um yeah when i met dh and stayed with the first night i couldnt believe his room...there had to be aleast a foot high pile of clothes you could not see the floor. he lived in a 2 bedroom trailer with his brother and his brothers girlfriend. well not long after we got together his mom was coming for a visit, she lived about 14 hrs away at the time and i said well you gonna clean your room and he goes not my mom always does it when she comes and my bathroom to....WHAT? well i could not let her think that i let him act that way so i cleaned everything she couldnt believe it and dh tried to clam he did it and she just laughed in his face it was funny lol

 

[janelleybean]

Hahaha. That's awesome!

 

[Krissy485]

Ok well i know i told ya'll that i had that condition where i had too much fluid well i found the last photo of me being pregnant with jamison taken about 2 hours before i had him. now remember i am a little plump but i also only gained 12lbs with him...warning i am HUGE!!!!

Also i am 39weeks pregnant....

 

[janelleybean]

I want to gain just 12 lbs. I step on the scale and cringe at how much weight I've gained. I'm blaming it all in my boobs though. Krissy, that looks so uncomfortable. Where you uncomfortable?

 

[Krissy485]

More than you would ever know!!! I have just deep stretch marks that are just now fading 3 years latter!!! Jamison weighed 8lb 110z 21 1/2 inches long, i had over 5lb amniotic fluid and lets not forget the extra water weight and extra blood i was down at 25lbs for i left the hospital! at about 36weeks i had alot of back pain and it was really hard to walk to my dr got me one of those prenatal cradle support things...didnt help at all...then for the last 2 1/2 weeks i was on modified bed rest anyways didnt matter...but to answer your question YES but would i do it again? YES lol

 

[Krissy485]

oh and the only reason i gained 12lbs was because i still had about 40lbs from the other two lol

 

[armymama2012]

My DH is neither really messy nor a clean freak. He knows the house wont be spotless unless we have guests (and then usually only 4 rooms are spotless). He knows that keeping our daughter happy and healthy is more important than keeping the house perfect. I do get OCD when I clean, especially in MY kitchen. It'll take me forever because I'll go over everything. However, I'm like a kid, if I see something that I haven't seen in a while I'll sit and read/ play with it for 10 minutes before getting back to everything else.

 

[Krissy485]

Army- I am happy to hear that! I guess i just got the impression that dh liked you to keep the house supper clean was all, glad to know thats not the case. and i am the same way when i clean! if i see something i havent seen in a while i will sit to and mess with it. adds to the time but i love the memories. that is what i was just doing on my laptop looking at old pics i and that is why i posted the one of me the last time i was pregnant...showed dh and he just smiled and was like yeppers remember that...i go we were happy that day (looking at all the pics) he goes yeah that was before it set in we had another baby to take care of....eh...we will see

 

[armymama2012]

Army- I am happy to hear that! I guess i just got the impression that dh liked you to keep the house supper clean was all, glad to know thats not the case. and i am the same way when i clean! if i see something i havent seen in a while i will sit to and mess with it. adds to the time but i love the memories. that is what i was just doing on my laptop looking at old pics i and that is why i posted the one of me the last time i was pregnant...showed dh and he just smiled and was like yeppers remember that...i go we were happy that day (looking at all the pics) he goes yeah that was before it set in we had another baby to take care of....eh...we will see

LOL I just get annoyed and b*tchy when I'm not feeling well. It's either "deal with it and suck it up" or "pop a few pills, you'll feel better". Well at least he said something to you when you showed him the picture. Is he just feeling stressed about all the kids and the moving and job? Guys clam up or explode when they are stressed.

Dh is teasing me with mentioning steak and a1 sauce! Argh...right now craving peanut butter cups though. Searching amazon for the cheapest way to get some!

 

[Sweetz33]

Woke up from a dead sleep so I hopped on real quick to let y'all know what's up. We go in at 9am for the polygraph. Afterwards we are going to doc to get him tested. I will know the results of polygraph immediately but the blood test will take a couple days. I pray he passes that polygraph...

Spoke to his brother....he said he is a mess. That hes not saying why hes upset, or what we are fighting about...but knows it is not good. I told him that he better be telling me the truth. He has no idea why I'm mad, and I won't tell him until I know for sure he screwed up.

I will let you ladies know if he passed...but right now I need to try and get some more sleep.

Love y'all my bnb gurlz!

 

[garfie]

Sweetz - Hope it's good news for you both - if not then I reckon some serious decisions need to made HUGE

Army - Hope you are feeling a lot better today I love my dishwasher I go through a lot of dishes (not me personally) but my son - he has to have a different plate for different foods sometimes he goes through a couple of knives and forks - taking him out for food is a nightmare unless he can eat with his fingers and then unfortunately his clothes gets it

Krissy - My youngest son was 8lb 14oz so was a big baby too, I was quite lucky you couldn't really tell I was pregnant until I turned round and then it was woah!!!! but I have to say with the two I lost I showed up pretty quickly and also haven't been able to shift the muffin top I was uncomfy to with my youngest I had difficulty tying my shoe laces from about 7 months

Janelley - Bet your hubby is loving the new boobies - bet hes not liking "Ouchiee don't touch" my boobs were the first thing I noticed with the last two - not so much with my boys

Never - So pleased you understand where I am coming from - I wish I could grow more of me in the airing cupboard or something so there would be more of me to go around Love your updates by the way so full of LOVE and POSITIVITY

AFM - Started taking asprin yesterday (maybe a bit late but who knows) did any of you get the third degree whilst buying it? - I asked for some low strength asprin the guy behind the counter wanted to know what it was for, who it was for, why was I taking it, did I know the risks - my answer: to help with fertility implantation as I've had 2 recent m/c I will try anything and I'm prepared to take the risks anyway he soon handed it over and bugger me whilst cutting some bread for packups I cut my finger - alsorts went through my head bleeding to death hospital trip anyway it stopped after about five mins

Stalk my chart ladies - not sure what is going on monitor still says HIGH any ideas



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[Krissy485]

Army- oh i know how it is when you want to vent and then it feels like you dont talk enough about the good things so people get a negative veiw of dh...yeppers been there done that.... i think my dh just needs more time. AF is due about the 5th so I am thinking that after that i will really push for an answer for now i will leave it be. he did like the fact that i sat and watched him play some of his video games last night he was actaully joking around with me...he seemed a little more relaxed. and even this morning as i got him off to work he gave me a great smile even after only 4 hours of sleep. its when i see that smile that it reminds me how much i love him!

Sweetz- i can see how much you really do love him and want this to be ok. i pray that he is telling you the truth and he loves you as much as you love him....FX...please let us know when ever you are ready what has happened today ok? Lots of LOVE to you!!!!

afm- got dh off to work with a smile made me feel good! now i am sitting her trying to decide if i want to go back to sleep for about an hour or not...i guess i will let my body decide for me...see you ladies later!

 

[armymama2012]

Well, I put my temp in FF even though I had to test a lot earlier this morning than my usual time because I knew DH had 24-hr duty again so I wouldn't be able to sleep after 7 am. But with the adjuster it went above cover line so hopefully that's a good sign! I won't be testing today but will tomorrow.

 

[Stardom]

Had a still birth in July, my first month ttc after 2 cycles!

 

[armymama2012]

Had a still birth in July, my first month ttc after 2 cycles!

I am so sorry! I will pray you get a sticky little bean soon.

 

[Krissy485]

Army-damn it i was waiting for you to test today lol....remember i am living through you this cycle!!!

Stardom- I am so sorry about your still birth! I have a friend who had one in July also and watching her go through that was heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers go out to you! Whatever information about yourself that you want to share please go right ahead! Some of us who felt comfortable shared our bios what not. Please remember we are not here to just support the TTC part but the whole part of the person. So if you need to vent about TTC go right ahead, or about your other half, or about your mom, or whatever it maybe that gots you down that day go right ahead we are here to show love and support to everyone! and to you!!!

Sweetz- still thinking about you sweetheart! it is almost 9am so i am nervous for your right now!!!!

Janelle- How you feeling to day? hope your feeling better. I want my sunshine back!!! lol

everyone else!!!!!!

AFM- i swear right when i think things are looking better for my oldest ds Joshua something else happens to my poor child. I dont remember how much i have shared about him but here is him in a nutshell. When he was about 2 1/2 i noticed he didnt talk very well so i got him tested and he has a sever speech delay with a mild language delay but that is due to his speech delay. He has been in speech for 3 years now and will continue on for at least another 3 yrs now but he has made great strides so we are very happy with that. Last yr due to him speech delay i decided to put him in developmental kindergarten instead of regular kindergarten which i am so happy i did. I noticed that after going to preschool for 2 yrs he still could not write and after a PT and OT evaluation it was determined he has all over weak muscles and low muscle tone. his left side is also weaker than his right. this causes him not to beable to support his own body so he slouches a lot which stops him from writting very well and he cant support his own head and he walks on his toes a lot. his PT and OT therapists said they thought it was a mild case of cerebral palsy but when i went to a pediatric neurologist they said since his MRI was clear he was just one big developmental delay...really? i was pissed! would a diagonsis be good to have yes, would it change how is therapy is done in the end no. so i am still pushing to see a specailist who could give us some insight but i am at peace knowing that i did get my son the services he needs now. i am one of those moms who dont take no for an answer.
well now his two front baby teeth seem to be stuck. his adult teeth are coming in behind them and pushing them forward but the wont budge so tomorrow he see the dentist who will hopefully do something bc they are starting to hurt him and i dont want his adult teeth messed up! Then back at the end of april i noticed he had a growth on the back of his knee and took him to our family doctor who said it was a baker cyst and it would go away on its own. well 5 months later his is still there and bigger so he see our family dr wednesday to figure out what to do. he is my oldest and defiantly my most troubled...my poor baby and he just turned 6

well now that i wrote a book i should go and make my grocery list so i can take little man shopping with me. I will check back in later!

 

[garfie]

Krissy - Keep pushing for that specialist report hun - I had to wait 10 years to finally get a diagnosis for my eldest, even though as a new mum I just knew something wasn't quite right with him, I was called over protective paranoid etc well it was such a relief to get the diagnosis then I felt bad thinking was it something I had done, eaten etc in my pregnancy.

I am now coming to accept that I can't change things and every year as he gets older things don't particularly get harder they just get different if that makes sense - but as hard as it is most times changing bedding in the night as he has wet himself again, watching him throw his food on the floor, having paddies, not wearing appropriate clothes, or using appropriate language I wouldn't change him for anything, well okay maybe for a day just to see what that would be like

Keep pushing hun - the only person who can fight his corner is you

Hope the dentist goes well and the Doctors appointment. What is a baker cyst

Stardom - Aw hun HUGE to you I can't imagine what that would be like welcome to this lovely POSITIVE & LOVING thread



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[MnJ]

Hello girls! So I met a new friend over the weekend. They introduced themselves as Morning Sickness. Blehhhhhh lol. It appears I need to eat constantly. I was feeling pukey then all of a sudden my stomach let out a huge growl. Um, how can u be nauseous and starving at the same time?! So I ate and felt better. But! When I start eating, I'm full fast. Like I just ate half a granola bar and am having to make myself finish the other half. Strange huh?

Krissy - holy ginormous belly, batman!! Did u have him vaginally and did they have to make sure u were over a drain of some type when ur water broke?? lol. Can't even imagine how uncomfortable u were! Does he like LOVE to swim and be in water now? lol

Stardom - that is so sad, cant even imagine. Hugs and good luck with ur ttc quest!

 

[Sweetz33]

Jumped on real quick....results from polygraph...............he is telling the truth. We got there at 8:30 so he took us in then. Just got the results back. I am so damn relieved!!! He never cheated. They asked questions liked, have you ever kissed, oral, etc any other person...he answered no and was telling the truth!!!

Called doc...doc said that it is very very rare....but he could of been in inactive state and his immune system was so strong it wasn't passable. But since his sleep was disrupted lately from crazy work schedule, etc....it came out. Talked to my pcp...he said I could of gone years without getting anything....or even my whole life. Makes me feel a lot more at ease.

DH is not mad at me for being so upset. He said he totally understands my suspicions seeing as my past history sucked. He said he was willing to so whatever it took for me to believe him.

I'm so happy right now.