March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[Storked]

Prayers that all is well Janelley. Thinking sticky thoughts for you

 

[garfie]

Janelley - I'm confused to - no warning nothing was making the kids breakfast this morning and thought oops I've wet myself but I hadn't yep 5DPO according to FF - it hasn't got heavier but it has got lighter so I'm assuming it's the witch - Happy Halloween!

Symptoms come and go in early pregnancy - everything is fine I'm sure, we all can't wait to see another cute scan pic too

Mnj - An olive -



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[Sweetz33]

Jane....I'm sure everything is fine. I had days in the beginning I felt "normal"...still have them.

Today started good now it's poopy. Lol! Splitting headache but need to go grocery shopping. I have a huge pimple.....on my freaking butt of all places...wtf?! Hurts to sit down....growl....not sure I really need to be dealing with people right now....tried to take a nap but of course all the pets said "Ooooo mama's trying to sleep, time to tear up shit and make a lot of noise" grumble grumble growl....

 

[MnJ]

Garfie - that's waaaaaay too short of a cycle! Doesn't seem right...

Janelley - Dont worry! I know easier said than done right? I'm a worrier all the time too. I've had moments where I was poking my boobs going wth? Why don't they hurt then later in the evening BAM! Oh yeah, there they are... Ouch... lol. Can't wait for your u/s!

Aspe - hope ur gettin busy, girl!

Storked - where are u at in ur cycle?

 

[Storked]

MnJ, either ovulating or in the TWW I reckon. Not checking on it too much.

 

[garfie]

Mnj - I know check out my chart - I've put it as spotting so I don't have to start a new cycle - but it's way heavier than just spotting. This is my 5 cycle since DNC surely my body would be back to normal? - The only month I appear to have O the witch flies in

I'm so confused any one got any ideas?



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[Storked]

Garfie, I have read that Vitex can lengthen luteal phase. Maybe that would help?

 

[armymama2012]

Well it might be sooner than Friday but still waiting on the lady to call and actually schedule the next ultrasound. According to what I read, you cant really tell if its ectopic until 5-6 weeks and I'm only 4 weeks and 1 day now. In order to confirm ectopic have to have good HCG numbers but negative external ultrasound. I nearly cried from the pain of the internal ultrasound last night.

The pain has worn down but I still get it occasionally. Hoping it doesn't come back.
Ugh....well now we found out that we have to pay $1000 to get the car fixed because we drove too long without an oil change. Basically means living off of as little money as we can bare and selling everything we dont use.

 

[kanicky73]

Hi ladies. Sorry I haven't checked in for a while. I was starting to obsess again and that totally defeats the purpose of trying to take a relaxed approach. I started good last month but then got all sorts of poas crazy in the tww? I'm gonna try and lay low this two. I am 1 dpo today and have to stop obsessing. I will for sure check back in with all my ladies and let everyone know either way.

On a quick note. Army I'm praying everything is ok.

Janelle don't freak honey I had a lot of days in the beginning with all three of my kids that I stopped feeling pregnant. And then all of a sudden the day I started my 2 nd trimester I got hit with symptoms with a vengeance. Just try and enjoy no symptoms for a bit. Praying for u as well!

Hi storked! Hope you're good too.

Sweets that little stinker. HE wants it to be a surprise!

Hello to all the other ladies. Hope all of you are well!

 

[janelleybean]

Thanks Ladies. I'm trying not to think about it too much. The one thing that is cheering me up a bit, but not THAT much, is I now have a pooch that I can't suck in. I know it's too early to be my uterus, so I'm guessing it's my insides shifting around, but that sounds promising right? Shifting insides mean growing uterus? I've heard with your second baby you show a lot quicker. Not too sure how true this is, but I'm hoping that's the case with me. Either that or I'm gaining weight too quickly. I'm still sticking with all the weight that I have gained is all in my BB's. So far, I'm up 5 lbs. and you can definitely see that in my chest.

 

[Aspe]

Garfie..could it possibly be implantation bleeding?

Ok, I got some questions.
Sunday evening around 10:00 cervix was high and soft
Monday morning around 11:00 cervix high, soft. And blending in the walls
Monday afternoon around 1:00 cervix high and soft, but don't feel like it's blending anymore

If I was fertile, can it be over that fast? Also, during fertile lasts about 5 days, but ovulation only lasts 12-24 hours. Why of such difference? Like if your fertile for 5 days but only ovulate for several hours, then?
Also, I know this may sound weird, but how many times would you recommend bd? As much as possible? I heard it takes 2 days for a mans sperm account to build up.

 

[Aspe]

Janelley..I know it can be worrisome, but like you said, you definitely have the physical symptoms. I'm sure all is well and your sweet pea is growing

 

[garfie]

Aspe - I hope it is - but somehow I doubt it everyone says its pink and light not mine I suppose all I can do is wait until tomorrow and see what my temperatures bring - probably more confusion

I hope you get some answers soon too - I always had a very short surge and my body often geared up to O but didn't This month I was so excited that everything was working again - but now it looks like I'm broken



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[Krissy485]

Army and Janelle- to both of you!!!!! I hope everthing is fine you are my girls!!!!

Aspe- ok with the 5 day fertile window they talk about it is basically saying you could be fertile 2 days before ovulation, day of and two days after. So i am not sure how long your cycles are but lets say you have a 30day cycle so you would could backwards 14 days from CD30 so that would be CD17 and most likely the day you will ovulate. So they say you could be fertile also on CD15 and CD16 as well as CD 18 and CD19. Or if you have a 28 day cycle you would likely O on CD 15 and fetile window being CD13-CD17. This is because you could ovulate early or later.There are plenty of websites that you can put the average length of your cycle and it will tell you what your fertile window should be. Also it is better if the sperm is waiting for the egg rather than the egg waiting for the sperm. Once the egg is released it can live for 24-48 hours to be fetilized. For a normal healthy guy he will produce plenty of sperm to be able to BD once a day. For those with a low sperm count they say BD every other day. Hope that helps!!!

 

[Krissy485]

Garfie- I know how it can feel to have your body feel like it is broken! i have been trying for over a yr now to get pregnant with a healthy baby. when it took us from August last yr to Feb to get pregnant i felt like i was broken then. then when i had the blighted ovum in april i felt like i was broken once again. now with the early mc in august deffiantly starting to really feel like i am too broken to have another baby. Keep your chin up sweety and i pray it happens soon for you!

 

[MnJ]

Aspe - my guess would be because u could ovulate anytime during ur fertile Window and u have to have opportunities to get the spermies in there. They can live for like 3 days in u I believe so I'd think everyone other day bding would be good. I'm no expert tho!

Janelle - I looked 3 years pregnant BEFORE I was pregnant so won't be able to tell on me for a looooong time! I have only gained a pound tho so far.

Storked - do u have a day in mind u will test if no af?

Kanicky - fingers crossed for u!

Garfie - I was gonna suggest implantation bleeding too but ur thinking too heavy for that. Idk, might be good conversation for Dr tho if it really is af.

 

[janelleybean]

Ugh... RANT ALERT!

I just got off the phone with the cell phone company. They irritate the crap out of me sometimes. They told me that I couldn't change anything on the account because it was in my husbands name and I didn't have some stupid authorization ID code to do so. So, I called and asked my husband and he had no idea what I was talking about. I went online and found the code and called them back and they told me they couldn't help me because I wasn't my husband. WTF? I requested to speak to a manager and the guy was such a jerk and refused to transfer me. I flipped out and finally got to speak with a manager.After ripping him a new one he said he could help me, but the authorization ID code I had was the wrong one and in order to change it they needed to speak to my husband, so I hopped on the internet and changed it over the internet. I told them I changed it myself and they needed to refresh their system in order for it to recognize. After raised voices back and forth, I finally got somewhere and got the stupid voice mail on my phone fixed. I get so pissed when someone tells me that can't do anything unless they speak with my husband. I'M HIS WIFE! I KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM! ..You know if they speak with my husband he is going to say, "I don't know talk to my wife, I just pay the bills"

The best part of the whole fiasco, was while I was sitting there yelling at the cellphone guy, my son is in the back ground yelling, "Yea Mama!! Alright!!" LOL

On a plus side, my BBs are hurting. I'm confidant again!! I'm not sure I would have been able to get anywhere with the cell phone company with out an extra boost of hormones. =]

 

[Sweetz33]

wow Jane....i had it in with my cell phone company as well! bad call on their part bc im more grouchy today then a PMSing grizzly with a toothache! I have an all inclusive plan that I have been on for a year now. It included unlimited everything. Or so I thought. Apparently, even though my receipts say everything is included, social networking, navigation and unlimited emails are not anymore. Umm.....what? That was the reason I bought a touch screen freaking android phone. It included all that for 5$ more. Well, I no longer have that, have the same crap as the $45 plan...but still need to pay the extra 5$...why? Because my phone is an ANDROID phone, not a "normal" phone....wow...so I am paying extra per month to have an android with no capabilities, except the net which is slow as sin, and a touch screen that barely works half the time. Not to mention when I got my new number, it was someone else's old number and I'm getting calls from friggin teenagers in the middle of the night. When I asked for a different one, they wanted to charge me to change it! They offered to put a block on numbers not in phone book, but that is a monthly fee as well!!!! ArrrGGGHHHHH!!! Today is just not my day....

 

[janelleybean]

hahaha is it cricket?

 

[bamagurl]

Ladies sure was a lot to read! I tried my hardest to catch up!

Army~ I hope everything is okay! I know when you start having pains and all you get worried. I hope that it is nothing other than just odd & in pains & that baby is okay.

Jane~ I am sure that everything is okay. I can certainly understand the worry though, but it sounds good since your ta-tas starting hurting again!

Sweetz~ UGH I hate that little baby kept his/her legs crossed! I can't wait to find out if all of yall thinking boy are right haha!

Never, Lisa, BaybeeEm~ I hope that everything is going okay with you ladies!

AFM~ I have been feeling so super sick! I have decided that I am going to celebrate this baby! If something happens like last time it will happen whether I keep it a secret or share with everyone! So I am going to be happy & share with this everyone!

I attached one of our ultrasound pics from Friday! Thought everyone might like to see little baby pics!