March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[BayBeeEm]

OMG gals, I am so sorry for my silence! I've been so busy taking care of the oatmeal slinger that I haven't been on here properly. I've received a few messages this morning about my whereabouts. I want to make a few things clear:

1. I have no problems with anyone on this entire board. Yes, we misunderstand one another from time to time but gosh ... I internalize nothing. Life is toooooo short for that
2. I am committed to this thread before any other.
3. I have nothing but the warmest wishes for all of you
4. I love you guys, even the ones I don't know yet
5. I will be in missing in action from time to time but I will certainly return. It's not a reflection of the group just my personal life moving in high speed!
6. Lastly, forgive me for what misconceptions my behavior may perpetuate

Oh and most importantly, HisGrace. I told you. I knew it! It was done by HIS Grace.

Everyone else, I will catch up soonest!!!

 

[HisGrace]

Sirbaby - I know the feeling. I was basically seeing two drs at the same time. I made up my mind to go with the one I felt most comfortable with. I hope they surprise you tomorrow and remember you, but I really hope you don't nees the iui because youre already pregnant.

Never - Several things I like about the new dr. First, my dr's nurse is a sweetheart. When she found out about my blighted ovum, she opened up to me about her own miscarriage. Then the dr was really nice. She explained things and made sure I understood what she was saying. And she kept a positive attitude. First dr said it doesnt look good and to start thinking if i want a d&c this time. New dr wanted to wait on u/s before giving me any bad news or false hope. I also like that the high tech u/s equipment and dr are all in the same place. So I don't have to run all over the city to get things done. All in all the new just fits better for me.

 

[nevergivingup]

HisGrace: Your new dr. Sounds absolutely Godsend!! That's how my 2nd OB was, after bleeding episodes and slow rising betas, she told me at least they went up and trust in God and stay optimistic! O did I fell in love with her!! I'm so glad your new doc did an u/s first, careless of your older doc! My nurse did the same thing. I miscarried one twin and she went through the same thing as me with losing the one twin episode. You are truly blessed and lucky madam!!! God Grace is def shining on you!!! Now AGAIN EMBRACE THAT PREGNANCY!!!! This is your take home baby.. Yes I'm speaking it into EXISTENCE!!! And YAYYY for a job that will let you be on BABY AND BUMP....NOT BREAST FEED BUT CHAT ON BABY AND BUMP!! Where do I turn in my application!!!? The produce at the Aldis I'm near is very good better than Wally world and it's cheaper!

Sweetz: I'm glad to hear that ma'am!! Whatever makes you happy certaintly makes me happy!!! Your coming bundle of joy will adore how strong his/her mom is!!! O how I'm ready for your gender scan!!!

Sirbaby: Haha, def the opposite of us, well your soon to come baby will love you for doing the right thing!! Drinking lots of water. It's just so bland now!!! Let's see if you still love water when you fall prego soon?!!! And I can totally relate to how your docs may not even know your name next appt. I think my new one is like that too. I was referred to him by a family member but he didn't look at me, he looked at my chart the whole time while asking me lots of questions....and then try to get personal asking ab my schooling, it just wasn't genuine or sincere it seem more of him just doing his job, and then he shoved his big hand in my "Best Friend"(my vagina). Then said see ya later, talk ab feeling low!! Im in search of a new doc too Sirbaby!

BayBeeEm: Love ya more then words will ever explain on here. Thank you for clearing it up, and letting us know you have no feelings against us. I agree life is too short and Bc a TTC lady expressed her feelings on here to everyone not to anyone in particular she got attacked and instead of the ladies comforting her Bc her journey has Been long and hard they start another thread and bash us over here then pm the other ladies to join her. I feel that was childish in every way and it was never that serious but pride got in her way. Now I have no hard feelings towards any of them I'm still rooting for them until they get their take home babies and their BFP's. But I will always stand for what's right, not someone pride Bc they couldnt encourage a TTC lady. I love you lots and you know you're always my fav, and im def not asking you to hate anyone Bc I never will. But I was worried and my feelings were def hurt, but since you clarified it for us, i can def smile bigger now to know my fav (BayBeeEm) hasn't totally left us. And sorry ab the in law problem, mine is being a pest too! She came straight out in front of everyone and said "O GOODNESS YOUR GAP IS BIG!!" Everyone stared trying to see if my gap is big even though thru saw it a hundred times!! Thanks Again BayBeeEm for being sweet!!!

 

[lisalee1]

Hi everyone! Been a busy few days and I'm trying to catch up now. Hope you are all doing well.

Sirbaby- Nice to hear from you again. I totally understand the TWW seems to drag on forever. People say to occupy your time with other activities such as exercise but I know that's easier said than done. If it gets too stressful, try a massage!

Danielle- Congrats on your great news. H&H 9 months to you!

Storked- Saw your post of the flower and thought that was so sweet and thoughtful. It was very encouraging for everyone. I really really hope this is your month! You AND Sirbaby! And the cat thing- seems like you got that all under control. You're gonna be great when you get your little bean.

Sweetz- You wrote about sports and my mind trailed off with a big blank....sorry! I know nothing about sports except the Olympics. Are you feeling baby movement yet?

Never- How is the baby moment? Where do you normally feel the moment? Low? Near belly button?

HisGrace- We are all so excited that everything is still going well with the baby. Don't be too anxious about the HB rate. I was nervous when I 1st heard mine was 169 b/c they say the normal range is 120-160. But the nurse said it was fine. God brought you this far so I'm sure everything will be fine.

My blessings:
I have the best husband in the universe.
While I don't have a lot of friends, the one I DO have are loyal.
I am blessed to have a full-time job in a career that I enjoy.
I am blessed to be pregnant with my 1st child! Everyone is very supportive of our news.

AFM- I've had all sorts of weird CM. At 1st I thought I had BV so I asked to be treated for that. Right after that, I got the worst yeast infection I've ever had in my LIFE!!!! SOOOO GROSS! I don't even want to describe. I was told to use Monistat 3 (over the counter) to treat it which I did. I've been symptom-free for a few days now.

Some ladies asked about the baby moving. Mine feels like little taps most times and sometimes like quick muscle spasms. The movement is always very low. Yesterday, the baby was very active which was very exciting. I seem to be noticing a pattern now (Never, I know you asked about that the other day). It seems to kick more when I'm hungry. So I am forced to eat. I need Sweetz & Storked to cook for me.

I hope I didn't miss anyone, but if so, just want to say hi.

 

[BayBeeEm]

This whole doctors business is a serious one. For my loss, I had a doc who seemed great until there was a problem. Then I went to back to the one I had been with since 2010. I stopped going to her when we moved ... the commute is much longer. I returned to her in May for a pre TTC consultation. I was concerned because she seemed to have limited knowledge about EPs but her lack of knowledge turned out to be a blessing. She was so agressive with my HCG levels and my early scans because she wanted to be sure everything was going well. I think that is why I have a peace of mind ... she wants to be on top of things as much I want to be. Feels good to not have to push her to act. I'm glad everyone is finding someone who works for them.

 

[Storked]

Sweetz, panty liners lady! Gotta be cheaper than new panties or washing often
And that ice cream sounds good...and is also my favorite flavor! Is it yours?

SirBaby, some men aren't easily put off. Go you for having married one!
Love your blessings
Not a milk fan either!

HisGrace, I may need to take up doggy next cycle! I think I will like Kingwood as well- seems nice and I will be in a quiet area which is appreciated. Thanks for keeping me in your prayers- you and your sweet baby are still in mine
I get my veggies at Aldi but not always the fruit because for me it seems to spoil faster. Apples and strawberries are ok though!
And Grace, you are BLESSED

Never, you really are such a loving and supportive individual. I appreciate you so much! You embody that picture
Now don't be thinking you like fat- you rock that bump because you earned it! I bet you look great
The rainbow of mine will come when that sweet spirit is ready and not a moment before. I just like to think that I have control when really it is up to something much higher than me!
Mmmm on the craving! I wanted peanut butter fudge brownies and am baking some RIGHT NOW. Total PMS I think!

BayBeeEm, glad to hear from you and that you are doing well
When I first saw your post I was like "wait? What did I miss!" but I understood. And I want you to know that I am still on this thread because I am committed to you and all these other ladies- even those who left. We were all brought together through loss and hope. Glad that we are sharing the journey and not departing
(And I am still sorry for making you feel ignored in the past. )
Oh and great news on your doc- I am sure you don't mind that longer commute when it gives you peace of mind

Lisa, thanks for the reply about the flower picture! I hope it is a good month for everyone too but if my rainbow doesn't come yet, that is ok. It WILL happen for everyone. And the BFP ladies like yourself give me hope of that. Are a testament to that
Thanks for sharing your wonderful blessings! And Monistat is great isn't it? I hear 3 is the best. And if you were here I would cook for you and baby. And run your tummy because I can't help myself- does baby luck catch?
Are you still worried about your weight honey?

 

[Storked]

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It ain't swirled pretty but here is what kept me away for a bit

 

[BayBeeEm]

Group hugs!

Storked, I need to come visit with you. I know I will be happily fed at all times. What do you call this masterpiece?

 

[nevergivingup]

OH EM GEE Storked: IT IS SWIRLED PERFECT!!!! AHHH AND NOW MY STOMACH IS GROWLING!!!!!! o my is it just original bake brownies with peanut butter on top or did you bake it with the peanut butter on top!! I sooo want to make me some of that now!! And ma'am, THANK YOU! And your words are ever so true, you will get your BFP in Gods timing!!! Love ya lots!!

Lisalee: Thank You ma'am, it def wasn't anything against you at all! And my baby movements feel the same way little taps and then gas bubbles, mine seems like it's coming from right on top of my belly button though. Maybe it's from Stork teasing food pictures!

BayBeeEm: It's def a great thing you have your doc. bk!!! I was driving two hrs. to continue to see mines Bc she was so awesome, until Funds made me miss an appt. So I figure I couldn't do that. But a better doctor is def worth it!!!

 

[nevergivingup]

DEF GROUP HUG!!!! Love ya ladies then yal will ever know!!!!!

Sweetz where have you gone off too???We're group hugging!!!

 

[HisGrace]

Lisa - Thanks. I've been trying to find the normal ranges but didn't get much for seven weeks. And I'm so excited you're feeling movement.

Never - I am embracing.

BayBee - Thanks. I wish I would have had the faith in this pregnancy y'all had in it. LOL. Looks like me and the first dr were the only ones that didn't have a positive outlook.

Storked - It's doesn't hurt to mix it up a little. And like never said, you can kinda be lazy. And omg that picture looks delicious. My mouth started watering like I was about to get some. LOL

 

[Sirbaby]

Never: Yes hopefully I can continue water lovin once I get that BFP. I do have some Pee sticks waiting but I am not sure when I am going to start testing. I am not sure if I can hold out until af is do but I'm doing pretty good so far. I guess knowing I'm going to the doctor they might do a blood test and although its early never know.

Lisa: yes I'm glad I am back too. Its been a little bit. I had to clear my mind and focus on getting other things in order. IM BACK Now and A BFP will follow. How have you Been?

Grace: That is just wonderful all those nice qualities in your doctor. I will def let u girls know how my visit went and if they remember me lol. thank you I hope I get the BFP before moving to IUI

Baybe: I was not around at the time of this disagreement. I am totally confused on the conflict. well I hope we can all just support each other. Nice seeing you back on too.

Is everything ok in our group now?? sirbaby so lost...

 

[Sirbaby]

stay away

 

[lisalee1]

Storked- Those brownies look AWESOME!!!! You should soooo be my neighbor. I'd be at your house everyday. Matter of fact, I might pay you to cook for me!
I'm still not gaining a lot of weight. I'm probably the same as last week. Each week, I'm trying a new round of snacks. Thanks for asking.

BayBee- Glad to see you're doing good. I don't think I saw your post when I posted earlier. Glad you got a good Dr that will work with you.

Never- Your movements are higher up? Hmmm, wonder if I should be worried about mine being low.

Sirbaby- Feeling much better than I was in the 1st trimester for sure! Now I have new worries- am I gaining enough weight, can't keep up with the list of stuff I'm not supposed to eat, why is the baby barely moving today vs. the other day, etc. Oh boy!
Also, don't worry about the disagreement earlier in the thread. Everything is all good.

 

[Storked]

BayBeeEm, I am joining the group hug! And you'll want to visit me after I move because it will be much prettier. Oh the masterpiece is fudge brownies with peanut butter swirl. Mmm! what is your favorite food?

Never you bake it with the peanut butter swirled into the brownie batter it is pretty tasty! I love you too lady!

HisGrace, weren't you talking about homemade brownies? All I did was swirl in some peanut butter mixture into homemade brownies. So you were my inspiration

SirBaby, I think the group is all good. All of us ladies love each other

Lisa, you wouldn't pay me probably but you could def come over and eat and watch Golden Girls with me!
Now I think it has been said before but don't worry about the weight because your baby will get what they need! Just be sure to take some calcium supplements honey

 

[HisGrace]

Storked!!! Don't tempt me with this. Brownies and peanut butter. yummmmm

After all my bragging, the dr didn't call me today to go over my u/s. She gets a pass. this time because I like her.

 

[lisalee1]

Another blessing- I finally felt the baby move today. So thankful. Was a tad worried b/c I didn't feel it all day.

Hi Kanicky and Armymama.

 

[kanicky73]

Just popping on for literally a few seconds to just say thank you for all the prayers! We really need it right now. Im not quite ready to talk about it all just yet, but I know when I am that every single one of you will be there!!!

Hope everyone is ok, and I have to single out HisGrace!! SOOOOOOOOO happy that everything is ok! You stay right on cloud nine where you belong!

Is everything still ok with Army??

ok, gotta go. Love all of you!

 

[Sweetz33]

*yaaaaaawwwwwwwnnnnnn!*

Hi ladies!!

Ok...first of ll I'm sorry if I miss anyone or screw up who said what....I just got abruptly woken up by a loud jolt of lightening and thunder. Gotta love random FL storms haha

Storked....OMG.....I want those brownies....*drool* (yes I remember the food post first hehe) Mint chocolate chip is in fact my favorite flavor.

Lisa...oh boy am I ever feeling movement. Like you sometimes only a tap but other times he/she is doing tummy aerobics. I too get more movement when lil frog is hungry...like right now haha

Never.....I landed up falling asleep...scratch that...I forced myself to fall asleep. A little bummed I missed the group hug....grrrrrrr *pouts* lol I am stoked about the gender scan! Next week!!

Kani!! Hi!! Know we are here for you always!!

Army is doing well.

I need to get myself a snack bc baby doing flips hehe

 

[BayBeeEm]

Storked, Lisa and others that inquired. To be honest, I missed the spat on here as well but was brought up to speed (somewhat) via PM. I sort of understand the details but I support both sides of the battle. Feelings/emotions are so hard to track in person not to speak of online. It's sad that we've had a break in the groups but it may be for the best ... who knows.

Kanicky - to echo what Sweetz said, we're here for you. I just hope and pray that it isn't something too heart breaking ... I look foward to hearing from you.

Storked - Ok, I will wait. I actually have family in Houston sooo ... I love the combination. As for my favorite food. I actually more of a salts than I am sweets person. I love brownies and peanut butter though! The best way to seduce me with pastas, grilled fish and curried/stewed meats!

HisGrace - I can't blame you for thinking the worst. We trust our doctors to be our source of our information and reassurance during times like these ... if they aren't telling us good news what choice to we have in terms of optimism. I am so THRILLED for you and your husband. I think we are pretty close in dates now. You're at 7 correct? I am at 6 weeks, today.

Sirbaby - thanks for the warm welcome. I'm glad to see you back on as well.

Lisalee - How the heck have you been?! So our little one is moving around? Are you at the point where your doctor tells you to count kicks? My friends doctor asked her to do that to gage the little one's level of activity.

Nevergivingup - Last but not least. All the bad vibes aside, how are you? Baby? I may have missed it but I haven't seen a sonogram yet!! I say this with the most accusing "you have denied me" voice possible. Hmmmmm ... lol