Tybabydreams
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hiya ladies , new to the forum and thought id join in, just read a post from tybabydreams and just want to say i no how you are feeling i also had an ectopic in 2008 and had half my right tube taken away, was a very very hard time and im forever wondering now what if, but i am trying again and this will be my 5 th month of trying,am just praying am not too old now , well im only 37 but i keep thinking bout my biological clock lol , anyways good luck every one hope we get lots n lots of BFPs
Hi Mandi, so sorry for your loss
I definitely understand your anxiety, and always asking what if. One thing that has helped me tremendously as me and DH begin TTC is this: I went to my OB-GYN for a pre-conception visit. She(my Doc) was Great! She answered all my questions, understood my fears and anxieties, and didn't make me feel crazy for the way I was feeling. More importantly, was that she went over my history with me, my past ectopic and she came up with a plan of action for me that includes early and constant monitoring from the tine I have a missed AF or a BFP pregnancy test. The goal is to catch a potential problem early w/o risking my other tube.I'm sooo relieved that my Doc has this plan in place for me, it takes some of the anxieties out of TTC. And with the early monitoring I will be able to see for myself that my sticky baby sticks to the right place this time, hopefully.
So maybe you can consider a similar type of visit with your Doc. I'm glad your new to the forum too! Looking forward to sharing our journeys here.
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I hope those cramps lightened up.
so no haunted house for me this year! O and the tiny bumps are everywhere now and im always itchy as if something is crawling on me..my DH think i have the measles so going to the doc in the 8am 
and welcome to all the new ladies - so sorry for your losses but here is an AWESOME & POSITIVE thread to help you with your journey and our leader Never is very protective of her baby cubs - so don't be afraid to ask any questions or worry about TMI - hope to get to know you all soon
as for Haunted House....I'm not allowed to go to Halloween Horror Nights @ Universal Studios this year. 
DH won't let me. He doesn't want anything to happen to baby....totally bummed bc this year was classic horror. Alice Cooper, etc....ugh sok....*sigh*
oh yeah I was going going to say when I was planning on testing if I don't test tmr. I think the only way I don't test is if I don't get anxious and I can control myself a day or to longer. So DH asked me how I was feeling this morning since its been really humid here of late in Austin(Texas humid! No way hehe)even at night. So we put a fan, on the side of the bed so that it would blow across our bodies. Anyhoo he was asking how well did I sleep last night with the fan on, of course I had to tell him the truth, which was I felt like puking early this morning, and all he said is "are you preggors" and I'm like "Ernest please don't do that". This is why I don't to say anything about my symptoms cause he would ask that a lot. I think it's just I know how much he's looking forward to being a dad and it hurts every time I get a negative. So that's probably why I'm holding off on testing as well. Lets just say "I'll go it by ear" or I will see how I feel in the morning. Love much to all my ladies old and new.
oh my goodness sweetz. Hehe. Lol. That is so hilarious! I was feeling a bit until I read your post. So thanks so much for always sharing everything(and I mean everything)with us
