March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[Storked]

Mamatex, good luck honey! Both in volunteering and normalizing- both are exciting

Never, I MISSED YOU!

Mackjess, way to go fooling em with the crockpot

 

[mackjess]

mama tex, that was wonderful of you to create the group. You have a very big heart and will be such a great mom. I absolutely love this thread!

 

[Sweetz33]

I SURVIVED!! lol

That was just horrible and I wish that test on NO ONE. DH avoided me today...he knew he was on my bad side lol. He did start on me again and I put him in his place fast so he shut up and hid in his man-cave. Good call man....good call.

How is everyone doing? Sorry I have been on and off. Working on moving the end of January. So of course since DH has absolutely no patience, it is all on me. I found a couple places that are nice, but we are not moving for 2 months. I used the dreaded "we will have to save money: statement and he tripped out...MEN lol

 

[Starry Night]

Sweetz - that's a crap tradition that one person should do all the cooking no matter the circumstance. I know people who do love that sort of hospitality crap. My SiL hosted a family reunion whilst huge and pregnant and all of us lady cousins offered to help but she kept shoving us out of the kitchen. Though she let us help with the dishes. LOL I just never understand how hospitality is FORCED on people. My mom told me several horror stories of friends of theirs who couldn't go on honey moons because relatives were staying AT THEIR HOUSE and they had to make them breakfast the morning after their wedding night. Hilarious. They'd be getting Cheerios and milk from me...

Seriously, I'm with the other ladies. Get us much pre-made and prepared stuff as possible. A lot of that stuff still tastes terrific. The first person to complain about "home made" is on dish duty.

 

[garfie]

Morning Ladies

Thanks for your wishes (again)

Starry Night - I'm Garfie

Sweetz - I was meant to be cooking Christmas dinner for the whole family this year - but I would have been due in January so would deff have been huge so we cancelled early on. My youngest said this morning mummy if you are pregnant this month tez can cook - yeah right so for Christmas dinner this year there is just me tez and the two boys I agree with the others buy lots of ready made food or put a rota up

Mama Tex - I have liked your group on FB and think it is very comforting what you are trying to do - I hope you have lots of success with it

Storked - Love ya to honey - glad you are all settled in now and is the cat in a happier place We are not holding off but I have sold my CBFM (that was sad) and have not taken any OPKs the only thing I have done is my temp (more a habbit than anything else)

LP - Thanks for your words hun - they made me cry (but in a good way) that is one thing I realised I haven't really cried yet - oh lord help me when them flood gates open

Never - Hope you enjoy your quiet Christmas this year cos next year you will have your little boy to spoil rotten

AFM - FF says I have O in that case if cycles are normal I should be due in 3 days! Also while I was absent I went to the school meeting they have come up with some good ideas - now I just need to see if they work for Wills

Love to all the other ladies



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[meggiemay93]

Garfie I'm praying for you dear! I can't imagine how hard it is to go through 3 mc's. I'm praying that if the dr. finds something it'll be something that's easy to fix.

Sweetz I'm all for homemade stuff, but that is just crazy!!!! I would definitely buy pre-made stuff!

MamaTex That group is a great idea! I do believe I'm going to like your facebook page even though I don't live in houston or texas.

Hi to everyone else! I'm praying for all you that are prego that your babies stay nice and stuck! I'm also praying for all of us that are ttc that we all get BFP's soon!

 

[Storked]

Garfie, maybe quitting the OPKs and everything will allow you to focus on other things and get some emotional healing love you sweetie

Meggie, to you honey!

 

[nevergivingup]

Hi ladies, O Forgive me on my absence. School is taking over my free time and mind

Garfie: O my I'm soooo happy to hear from you, I was so worried ab you, scared that you wouldn't return, worried that depression may be trying to creep in. Ma'am don't you worry, Jan. 22 is here before you know it & who says we have to wait til then to get prego. This is your world Garfie, we're just living in it, so go for what makes you happy. And I know how depressing a m/c can be ESP . after trying and knowing time is of an essence but like Loren says its no age restriction that tells you that you can't have a baby. If you conceive, then that's your blessing regardless of your age. You are a wise woman and will be a great asset to that new breath of life that you will bring into this world soon. Don't give up I'm here to cry with you, I've been there, we all been there and nothing hurts more then to lose something so special, although it can't be replaced know it will happen again, if you really want it to. Count your blessings as they come. You are a wondrous reproductive Goddess, don't let 3 setbacks take your crown I know it's easier said then done, I count my 3 m/c's as lessons learned and blessings. Love ya Fiona more then you'll ever know

P.s. Did I see you mention "Lord?!"

Stork: Sooo glad to see you're bk!!! I missed you even more!! Yayyyy you're bk!!! Relaxing eh?, sounds great! Are you enjoying your new home?

Bamagurl: Haha, you def have nothing to be jealous ab!! You're right on my heels!!! When is the gender scan?? Hopefully you'll grace our board with a girl!!

MamaTex: Your volunteer work sounds GREAT!!! It def sounds to keep you busy. And I def support your endeavors on reaching out to others who have gone or is going through similar situations as we are. You are totally awesome!! I'm so glad we have you!!

MackJess: So glad you love this thread bc we ya so!!! How's going on 7 wks feel?!! Exciting!

Sweets: Christmas at your house, o my that's a lot, ESP. With all that you have going on...booo. Well don't over cook yourself...I hope they remember you're prego!! And yayy on your 3 hr test being over.

to all the other ladies!!!

AFM: Quite busy these days, but def lurking and trying to get a Thanks comment in. Well I had my BSST test for my sugar and it came bk great 107! No 3 hr testing for me( sorry Sweetz). My bump is the right perfect size and my boys HB was 152 Well hope everyone has a great DAY!

 

[bamagurl]

Hey ladies! I have been hogging my new niece & it is all I can to give her back and let them have their time with her haha.

The gender scan is this Wednesday at 9 am!!! I am so freaking excited! I feel like it is a girl, but we will see!

I hope all you ladies are having a wonderful day! School is keeping this girl busy but I will certainly get on and let you ladies know what our little one is!

 

[Starry Night]

Hi, garfie! Nice to meet you.

Passed some sizeable clots yesterday so I hope this means my body is finally getting rid of the last of the junk inside. I am really trying not to view each passing bit of tissue as remains of my baby. Trying to keep that distant. I passed the baby weeks ago so I remind myself that this isn't my baby.

I'm just ready for the physical drama to end.

 

[Storked]

Never, so great that you and baby are doing well! And I love apartment living- where we live in very quiet and beautiful. I go to the little gym here every day now that my husband is away in the hopes of dropping 20 pounds before our April vacation

Bama, how exciting for the scan

Starry, the physical drama will eventually end. There will be an end in sight and a time to heal and begin again and we are all here for you honey

 

[meggiemay93]

Bama Yay for gender scan coming up!

Never Yay for the baby being healthy!

Starry I'm praying for your physical drama to end soon! I'm also praying you get a BFP soon afterward!

I'm praying for all of you ladies! God knows what we're going through and He knows we all want babies. Just know He loves you and won't give you more than you can handle. And He knows what we can handle better than we do!

 

[Storked]

Meggie, you have my prayers too honey!

Hey Never...pssst... I think you need to change te thread title to December/January

 

[nevergivingup]

STORK: Hehee..THANKS, I didn't even THINK AB IT...I'm on it now. And yayyy for a great Apt. I can't wait until we finally move from the country into ours...I'm soooo ready!!! Your DH is gone already?! O my welcome to temporarily lonelyville and oooh I wish I could join ya on the weight loss plan...I'm sooo ready to get small(in my eyes) again!! You can so totally do it!!

Starry night: Sorry ma'am didn't mean to look over ya, if I have...I need to log on more. But I'm so sorry ab your loss. But don't worry it will come to an end soon and your body will be ready to TTC Again. When I got my D&C my OB had the nerves to tell me' "O it wasn't nothing, just fluid", I was wanted to believe him until the 2nd time I got pregnant and m/c naturally and passed the fetus and actually saw that it wasn't fluid at all it was my very small baby. But the good thing is, it gave me peace to do it naturally and to see it. (I'm tearing up now, thinking ab it). No baby can really replace what I've loss but I can try my best to move on and live and be happy for the one I have in me now kicking away. One day, one day I will meet my 3 Angel babies in heaven one day

Good Day Ladies

 

[Storked]

STORK: Hehee..THANKS, I didn't even THINK AB IT...I'm on it now. And yayyy for a great Apt. I can't wait until we finally move from the country into ours...I'm soooo ready!!! Your DH is gone already?! O my welcome to temporarily lonelyville and oooh I wish I could join ya on the weight loss plan...I'm sooo ready to get small(in my eyes) again!! You can so totally do it!!

Starry night: Sorry ma'am didn't mean to look over ya, if I have...I need to log on more. But I'm so sorry ab your loss. But don't worry it will come to an end soon and your body will be ready to TTC Again. When I got my D&C my OB had the nerves to tell me' "O it wasn't nothing, just fluid", I was wanted to believe him until the 2nd time I got pregnant and m/c naturally and passed the fetus and actually saw that it wasn't fluid at all it was my very small baby. But the good thing is, it gave me peace to do it naturally and to see it. (I'm tearing up now, thinking ab it). No baby can really replace what I've loss but I can try my best to move on and live and be happy for the one I have in me now kicking away. One day, one day I will meet my 3 Angel babies in heaven one day

Good Day Ladies

Never, you got pregnant brain
Oh how exciting that you are getting an apartment! How are you liking that? How soon do you move? My husband hated us going from a house to an apartment but good riddance I say! Who wants to take care of a yard?
Oh and do you do any pregnancy workouts or are you playing it safe? I would totally play it safe myself
Yeah DH has been gone a week so far! I am hoping to see him again next week sometime. On the one hand, I am so lonely with him being gone (my family is hours and hours away) but on the other hand...if him being gone builds up his experience faster then that means that we will go overseas sooner! And he would have a normal work schedule there

 

[nevergivingup]

Stork: It def must be prego brain. I really try to focus so I don't forget things but its hard focusing! And we stay in a house now but we don't like the location and since I'm in school and DH is the only one working we feel financially safe in an apartment or a rental house. We want to move ASAP, we're looking now and found a awesome place so hopefully the owner will call us back Monday. Aww your DH is gone I know how you feel, and I hear ya on getting overseas quicker...I can't wait to hear all about it. Now when he comes bk home don't tear him up all at once

 

[meggiemay93]

Hi ladies! I think I'm 7 dpo and I started feeling like a pinching on my right side. Could it be implantation? I'm hoping so!

 

[Storked]

Meggie, fingers crossed I have no idea my DPO. I don't trust my P Tracker app and OPKs give me UTIs. Eek!

Never, I hope that you get the place that you want! And don't worry about focusing- you just need to focus on your son he will be done cooking in no time and you will miss having him in your tummy
Oh and DH said that he should be able to come home tomorrow night though he still has to be back at the office Monday morning!

 

[meggiemay93]

Storked Yay for DH coming home tomorrow night!

 

[Starry Night]

Thanks everyone.

I guess I'm getting worried that I might need a D&C after all and that would just slow things down even more. Ugh. Just feeling so depressed today that it physically hurts. I know from past experience that this will all pass with time .... I have healed both physically and emotionally from my other angels but being in the middle of it all is just hard.

Sorry for the selfish posts today but I just feel that crummy.