March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[nevergivingup]

Wow, so much chatter and news...Love it!!

Tybabydreams: WELCOME BK MA'AM, I so totally missed you!! Glad to hear the hunnianniversary was Successful!! CONGRATS on your how awesome That IS!! You so deserved it. Can't wait to hear your doc updates!! And I think I kept it a secret too until 2nd tri with the exception of a few finding our on their own(nosey)

Sweetz: YAYYY for you for kicking your doc to the curb, I def agree that you need someone in your corner not someone who makes you questionable and uncertain. Go You!

MamaTex: Hope those results come bk great!! Don't count yourself out just yet, a little faith can change the world, so I'm sure alittle faith can change your outcome. FX!

Bamagurl:

Lisalee1: I saw lurking!!

to all the other ladies!!

Stork, BaybeeEm, And our other missing ladies...Where are you all...missing you gals!!

AFM: It's a better day, woke up to a kicking little baby boy, O how I dream of his arrival when I can hold him in my arms and know he's finally mine, just praying I get there. Time to get up and out to START Christmas shopping...was to busy trying to find a new home and forgot ab the gifts...We did find somewhere to stay and I love it!! Wish I could get everything moved in b4 Christmas but I'm sure it'll remain a dream. Good Day ladies!! And Congrats to all the BFP's and TWW and Ovulaters and to us for just being women!!

 

[mowat]

Well I don't know if this is going to be my month! Now that we can finally TTC the performance pressure seems to be too much for my DH. We were probably too late for this month anyway, but we definitely need to fix this problem for next month. Any ideas on reducing the pressure for your guy? I think he'd realize it was O time even if I didn't tell him---wanting to DTD every night would be a dead give away.

 

[MamaTex]

Well I don't know if this is going to be my month! Now that we can finally TTC the performance pressure seems to be too much for my DH. We were probably too late for this month anyway, but we definitely need to fix this problem for next month. Any ideas on reducing the pressure for your guy? I think he'd realize it was O time even if I didn't tell him---wanting to DTD every night would be a dead give away.

It's really hard to strike that balance between having fun and TTC. Perhaps if you proceed O with breakfast in bed, a night out somewhere, etc he will feel less pressure to perform. There should be some incentive for him for wanting to TTC. I let my husband know when would be a good time to DTD, but did try to randomly surprise him days before expected O time. Maybe you can model some lingerie for him out of the blue or just gradually surprise him with sensuality and flirting to catch his interest. I think the key is letting him know you desire him for him and not just his seed

 

[AngelSerenity]

Hi ladies just popping in to say I'm still alive and kicking. I'm still WTT after a hysteroscopy a fortnight ago. I'm waiting to see my RMC on Monday but as there was something minor found in the procedure, and because it was so minor they wouldnt remove it there and then, I suspect I will have more waiting ahoy as my specialist will want to order a MRI to see exactly if what they found should be removed. Goodness that was a waffly sentence

They think I have a partial septum but it was so minor the surgeon wasnt even sure so she wouldnt touch it. I don't believe it is significant enough to remove but then again if there is any chance it could be a cause of my RMCs then I want it removed. BUT if there is a risk of scar tissue causing issues then there's no point removing it 'just in case' so I don't know what I want to happen lol

Between that, my biological clock ticking (38) and me being made redundant in March I'm just a little stressed and fed up at the moment, BUT I WILL CONQUER, SUCCEED AND GET MY SECOND RAINBOW!!!!!!


I'm glad to read most people are doing well

 

[MamaTex]

AngelSerenity:Nice to meet you!! There are so many ladies here that have been through so much more than I. You ladies are so strong. It is inspiring!! Hope the wait goes by quick

nevergiving up: Your little kick boxer is so active. At this rate he is going to be a UFC fighter with that kicking lol. Good luck on Christmas shopping. I had a goal to get mine done by today but here I am not even halfway finished!!! I am glad to hear you guys are on your way into your new house. Your husband just needs to offer some beer and pizza to get the work done before Christmas!! There must be some willing friends who will at least accept pizza if they don't like beer (not many men don't though !!).

Sweetz33: Way to go for firing your OB!!! That OB sounded so unprofessional. What medical school did that OB come from? It must have been the same one as Dr. Nick from The Simpsons!!!

ESwemba84: Lol @ telling Dh to not get sick. He needs to suck it up!! He can rest and get to healing after you guys are done !

mackjess: Hey!!

Starry Night: Hello!!

To the other ladies: How are you all doing? good I hope!!!!

AFM: I am a lot more calm. I called to get my numbers and the lab results were not in yet. It is almost time for the office to close so I will just have to wait until Monday. I have been so up and down this week. It didn't dawn on me that I could very well be a victim to my hormones lol. I mean, I am worried but trying to think forward. I am getting along further than I did last time. I miscarried around the 4 or 5 week mark, I reckon, so I have something to celebrate.

I volunteered again today and helped a lady who had come from a bad home situation. She needed a confidence boost. I helped her format her resume, put all of her skills and accomplishments down on paper, and helped her job search. It was very cool to have her thank me the way she did. She was grateful for me teaching her how to use certain keywords to job search!! You take so many things for granted. This lady was appreciative for learning new job hunting skills. I never thought this volunteer job would be this rewarding. It makes me feel good to finally be able to help people without having someone breathe down my neck!!

 

[mackjess]

Hi Tex. I've been reading everybody's posts today. But I've been following the heartbreaking news from Connecticut today and just don't have much to add. Heartbroken for those kids and their families. We watched Obama address the issue at work today and we all cried. Most of us here have kids. They don't know I'm pregnant and it was really hard not saying anything when they were talking about how much you love your children and how scary everything is. I'm already understanding and changing so much and it's 7 more months before my bean is a baby that arrives.

Sorry for the off topic rambling. I am so happy to read everyone's updates, and FX for those in the TWW. Can't wait for new testers!

 

[meggiemay93]

Hi ladies I haven't been on here since Wednesday so I need to catch up, but first I need some prayers. I'll be testing tomorrow, but I'm pretty I am prego and I started getting lower back pains a little while ago. I'm kinda panicking because I started feeling this same pain a few days before my miscarriage and it was from my uterine muscles contracting. I'm making a cup of red raspberry leaf tea to try and relax the muscles. But I'm really worried!

 

[meggiemay93]

Lpjkp Those ultrasound pics are sooo cute!!!!

Runner yay for getting good numbers!!!

Ty Congrats on a BFP!!!!! I'll be praying for it to stay stuck!!

MamaTex I'm praying for you to get good numbers on Monday!!!

ESwemba I'm sorry you had a meltdown in public! I'm praying that you catch that eggie!!!

Sweetz Yay for firing OB!!! It needed to be done!

Never I'm so glad you found a place! I'm praying you can get all moved in real fast!

Angel I'll be praying for you! Hopefully it won't be long before you can get back to TTC!

 

[Starry Night]

Angel Serenity - that sounds like real tough place to be. How much will this be your decision and how much will depend on the doctor? I really hope they don't keep you waiting long. I know how I feel about the biological clock and I'm only 30. And ouch to being made redundant. Why do so many bad things happen at once? I hope things get resolved quickly and you get your second rainbow soon. I like the feisty attitude.

meggie - I had intense cramps with my son's pregnancy -- and I mean near-miscarriage bad (after I had already lost his twin) and he's here and happy and healthy. Just take it easy.

mackjess - I'm crying about the news too. First heard about it on a Classic Rock station. When those DJs start crying you know it's touching everyone.

MamaTex - Hi! :wave:

AFM - had my follow-up appointment today. As of this past Monday my hcg was 6. The doctor said I could get another test if I wanted but that there really wasn't any point as my ultrasound from Monday came back all clear (and I had a trans-vaginal as well as pelvic).

I reminded him about getting me referred to a specialist to look into my miscarriages. He said the waits were really, really long so it would be faster if I see a GYN first and if the GYN thinks I need to see a specialist then he/she can refer me. I'm in a new province so still learning the ropes of how health care looks here. It seems strange that a second step would be quicker but maybe the high-risk specialists take the referalls of other specialists more seriously than a GP.

Anyways, feeling pretty good about life. Just waiting for AF to start TTC. Doc said to wait 2 to 3 months but it usually takes me longer than that to conceive so I will use those months of healing as practise. lol

 

[meggiemay93]

Thanks Starry Night! I think I may have just over worked it yesterday and today. I didn't really work harder than normal, but they say when you're prego your joints and stuff don't stay where they supposed to be as well. So i'm praying everything is ok.

StarryNight Yay for your levels being down! I'll be praying that you get a BFP and won't need to see a specialist! and if you do that they'll be able to fix any problems!

 

[Sweetz33]

I read what everyone wrote but I am having a brain fog day. I just am a bit out of it bc of the recent happenings in CT as my daughter is around that age...so I am sorry for not being able to focus enough to respond individually. Xander is kicking up a storm letting me know he's there. I think he senses my distress. DH was very sweet and just held me and let me cry today. He also told me that he will not let anything happen to any of us.

So again I apologize for my current inability to write much...I am just going to go and take a nice bath and call it a night.

Lovers all my BNB girls...

 

[Sweetz33]

28 weeks

 

[MissMaternal]

Hi ladies... Can I join? Quick background on me.. I have had 4 losses. One at 20+0 in may 2010, one at 17+4 in November 2010, and one at 6+6 in April 2011....I then had ky beautiful, perfect daughter in February this year but have since suffered another loss, at 4+6 in October. We have been ntnp #2 since August.

I am 90% sure that I am pregnant...got loads of symptoms and I just "feel" it.... Af was due on thursday an i havent tested yet but i only have one frer left so I'm waiting until this afternoon to do it when my pee is a bit more concentrated! Nervous but excited! I hope it's not all in my head!

Sorry that I haven't read through the thread... It's sooo long lol but l will try to have a look at recent posts to get to know people!

 

[MamaTex]

Hi ladies... Can I join? Quick background on me.. I have had 4 losses. One at 20+0 in may 2010, one at 17+4 in November 2010, and one at 6+6 in April 2011....I then had ky beautiful, perfect daughter in February this year but have since suffered another loss, at 4+6 in October. We have been ntnp #2 since August.

I am 90% sure that I am pregnant...got loads of symptoms and I just "feel" it.... Af was due on thursday an i havent tested yet but i only have one frer left so I'm waiting until this afternoon to do it when my pee is a bit more concentrated! Nervous but excited! I hope it's not all in my head!

Sorry that I haven't read through the thread... It's sooo long lol but l will try to have a look at recent posts to get to know people!

Welcome Miss Maternal!!

 

[runnergrl]

Meggie-share those beautiful lines!!

 

[meggiemay93]

Miss Maternal Welcome!

AFM I was freaking out about nothing yesterday. I went to bed and my back felt better! But I'm so mad at my stupid pregnancy test! I don't get it I should be 21 dpo I usually get AF at 14 dpo! If I don't have dpo right I'm on CD38 and i've never gone past CD35 without getting AF except when I was pregnant! It's been over 11 months since my miscarriage so I shouldn't still be messed up from that! I've felt really wet down there for about 2 weeks (tmi), had sore nips, and nauseated! Sorry about the rant.

 

[HisGrace]

Sweetz - Your bump is so cute!

Never - 28 weeks already! He will be here soon.

Runner - Congrats on your bfp!

Tybabydreams - Congratulations! :whohoo:

Hope I didn't miss any other bfps. Good luck to all ttc this cycle!

 

[ESwemba84]

Meggie: sorry about the BFN.

I am very sad about the CT shooting. I watched the news all day yesterday, and teared up often. I don't have kids (yet) but it was just so heartbreaking to watch parents rush to the school to see if their kid was ok, and knowing some parents did not get that news. Ugh, I just can't even imagine.

My husband took NyQuil last night before bed, so I knew that meant no sex. for now my CM has dried up, and I had a mild temp spike this morning. I'm not sure if that means I already ovulated or if I took my temp too late. I guess tomorrow will tell.

Have a good one!

 

[MissMaternal]

thankyou for the welcome!

I tested this afternoon and got this :

Definitely was NOT expecting 3+!

 

[bamagurl]

Meggie~ Sorry dear. I hope you find out something soon.

MissMaternal~ Welcome & congrats on your bfp!