Ok so do you remember i posted about my friend that got pregnant with her 2nd child the first month of trying and was due in Feb the same time my angel should be turning 1.
Well sh's just text me to tell me she lost the baby, she had her scan today and he stopped growing at 8 weeks, that was 3 weeks ago, im so distrought i dont know what to do, I know it sounds selfish but it's brought back so many horrible memories for me but more than that my best friends heart is breaking and i feel helpless, i was a bit jealous when i knew she'd fallen pregnant so easily again but i never in a million years would wish this on her.
She's asking questions and im happy (if that's the right word) if i can help in any way, as she now has to decide whether to allow it to happen naturally of have a DNC, i cant really answer that, mine happened naturally i didn't get a choice, but if i can be of any help and support to them at all then i hope i am.
I've also told her i kow of a great website that was nad continues to be a great support to me when she is ready.
Im sorry to bring you all down but i just needed to share this, i cant stop crying.