March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

So I guess I'm back to having a 12 day LP? It's not bad, it's same as before I got pregnant with dd, but it's just confusing after several months of 13-14 day LPs. I just saw blood when I wiped just now, nothing on the pantyliner I wore just in case. But it looks like the real deal. :witch: (why does that witch have to be smiley; it's like she's taunting me :P)
 
Tricia, you're growing another human being, it's very tough and exhausting. And I really want to tell u it gets better for getting rest and sleeping for weeks but I can't but that's ok bc to wake up in the middle of the night to comfort your LO makes u forget all about your rest and worry only ab him/her getting theirs.

LPJKP(Loren)!!! O my how time has flown by!!! I'm crying and smiling at the same time while reading your post and my DH is looking at me crazy, like not that website again. Lpjkp, your son is absolutely adorable and o my he has a "Girl killer" Dimple!!! And congrats on still BF!! O how I wish I was still BF, I miss it so. Next time I'm going all the way. I'm so happy to see you and your little one doing so well. And yes ma'am, Tyler was so clingy when he was 4 months too but now he's starting to go to others and not cry. The love you have for that baby is a feeling no one can take from you. Congrats Loren and enjoy those precious years!!! Missed you so! Ready for you to join us again. We'll be here, hopefully!

I felt the same way Pinkcasi, I refused any meds from my doc and my DH. I wasn't trying to take any chances.....until one day it was unbearable, then I folded. Lol. And THANKS FOR BEING HERE AND KEEPING THIS THREAD GOING!! Y'all make this thread as awesome as it is!!

Eswemba: Yayy for fertile cm!!!!! And I'm glad to hear the weight loss is still on going!!! You'll going to be a new person in no time....sorry ab the sinus being so bad I do hope it's a great outcome out of all this ickiness. My FX for you always just font give up on yourself bc I'm not giving up on ya!!!

Mowat: Glad the surgery went good and it's over. Waiting again? I agree, we waited long enough. Those waiting responses almost make you want to scream and camp at the hospital overnight for results, bc I barely use to get any sleep when I was waiting for important phone calls. FX for you that everything went well and you'll still be able to concieve.

MamaTex: your baby girl is SO BEAUTIFUL!!! And she looks so long!!!! Congrats gurly and THANKS for sharing your story, it couldn't have been told any better!!! once that baby come, that C-section won't even matter just so glad she made it! Your family is beautiful!! Congrats mama she's all yours well you do have to share w/ DH but we moms know we run it when it comes to the babies!!! God Bless u and take care!!
 
Okay so this seems like pretty basic stuff, but I don't remember this being a thing with me before so I'm confused. I have not bled at all since I posted earlier, so pretty much not even enough for a pantyliner. It was just what was on TP earlier. So do I count that as spotting or CD1? I usually think of spotting as different than true red flow. And it was like true red flow, just not much of it at all. :shrug:
 
Hrm, I want to ask if it could be IB. Take another test tomorrow if there's no further bleeding to be sure.
 
Doesn't seem likely (13 dpo? Pretty sure...), and if it is, tomorrow seems too early to test. I'll see if my temps keep dropping. I don't know if I dare hope. :-)
 
Eye on my last BFP I had two drops of blood on cd 12 and nothing else , tested 3 days later BFP . Not to get your hopes up but that's what happened to me .
 
If it is the beginning of AF, I don't count it as CD 1 until there is flow. If its just a little bit, even if its red, but seems to be there only when wiping, it's just spotting to me. My RE says the contradictory........."the first drop of blood is CD 1"..........but I don't go by that. I rarely have spotting beforehand anyway.

I'm hoping its IB though.......
 
Thanks ladies. :-) I changed yesterday to spotting instead of a light period day on my chart, at least for now. I was just so sure I was ramping up for full on bleeding, I was surprised when nothing else happened. I still think it was menstrual though because I think I saw little bits of endometrium.

Today my temp went back up just a little. I was kinda tangled up in my sheets and body pillow, so I got my heart rate up as I was trying th break free to reach my thermometer, lol. So that might have bumped my temp up. But I also took it too early which would bump it down a little. It wouldn't be the first time my body has trolled me, and it's not unusual for my temp to drop after AF starts. So I guess we'll see....
 
Eyemom, ugh the last few days of the TWW are truly truly the worst. It's pure hell.

Temping sounds SO complicated. I know I'd never be perfect every day and my chart would be all wrong. My cat would come over and step on my face and I'd shoo her away and screw up the temp!

Operation "Do This At Home" has commenced! I've never tracked my own ovulation before since the doc did it for me. Since I have a cyst and we're not doing an IUI but I can try naturally at home, I got a Clearblue Digital Ovulation kit. For my cycle length, it said to start testing on Day 8. That's today! So I did the test (it was easy!) and it said I'm not fertile today. That's good as it's a bit early. I'm hoping to not see a smily face until next week (especially since my husband has a friend visiting from out of the country through Sunday). Anyone else use these? What day did you see "high" or "peak" days?

https://m.clearblueeasy.com/images/ovulation-adot-window.png
 
I took another test this morning, which was probably dumb but oh well. I am feeling really...really menstrual today. So I'm not really hopeful at all. I felt sort of menstrual during early pregnancy before too, but still it just feels more like my period. So far no more bleeding today.

I use OPKs just about every month and have for quite some time, but I have no experience with that brand. They are quite helpful though. I have used internet cheapies almost exclusively and they are fine (they have lines kinda like a hpt but they are different in that it's only positive if the test line is as dark or darker than the control line. I've had a few internet cheapies that were hard to read because the test line would look half positive and half negative, but I think I read somewhere or somehow decided to treat those as positive. One time I forgot to order more in time so I got some Walmart brand ones (Equate) because they were still pretty cheap. They work the same way (with the lines), but they are pee sticks instead of dip sticks and they were easier to read. OPKs can get so expensive after a while, but they are at least cheaper than those ferning(?) things.

So in theory they can give you 48 hours warning that you're about to ovulate, but sometimes it's less. One time recently I actually ov'd on the same day as I got my +OPK. I don't think I knew that was even possible, but apparently testing every 24 hours, you can test just before your LH surge one night, then the next night catch the tail end of your surge, and then end up ovulating same day as your positive. So I don't think that's a typical scenario, but it wouldn't hurt to keep an eye on any other clues your body may give you.

My OPKs usually look faint for a couple of days, then turn "almost positive," then I get a true positive. I usually stop testing once I get my positive, but sometimes I'll keep going until it goes back to negative (next night or night after) if I wasn't completely sure how to read the results. So I try to start DTD at LEAST when I have my "almost positive," but sometimes we start a little sooner just in case. But then we run the risk of wearing ourselves out too soon. :P It looks like your brand of tests simplifies that "almost positive" to "positive" thing but I'm not completely sure how to read it. I think once you do it a cycle or two though you'll think it's easy enough.

I usually get my +opk around day 13 and ov on day 15. Just on average. Of course your results may vary. Sorry I rambled so much. Good luck!
 
Eyemom, that was REALLY helpful! Thank you for going into detail!!
 
Oh good I'm glad. Sometimes I don't know where to draw the line between helpful and rambling. :-)
 
Oooh, my at-home insemination kit came today! I showed it to my husband so he'd know the plan, and he stared at me like I was nuts. Then he said, "Ok!" So I have everything I need. Now I just need a viable egg to show up.
 
That's sweet that your dh is so ok with it all, my oh never really got involved with that side of it except for the obvious I think he didn't want to take the romance out of it too much, if I said it was time to Dtd then he was happy with that, but when I at one point mentioned the idea of getting an online fertility test for us both to do he was not up for that, thankfully I was being premature and we didn't need too much help, mind you I think in his defence if it did get to that point I'm sure he would put his silly man pride aside.

Hope it works for ya!
 
Still waiting.... Missed my surgeon's phone call yesterday (I think I was getting on the plane), and she hasn't called back yet. Hmmm, Friday at 4---please call!

Had an appointment with my local doctor this afternoon to get back the pathology on my last miscarriage. Normal. Male. Somehow that makes me really sad.
 
Still waiting.... Missed my surgeon's phone call yesterday (I think I was getting on the plane), and she hasn't called back yet. Hmmm, Friday at 4---please call!

Had an appointment with my local doctor this afternoon to get back the pathology on my last miscarriage. Normal. Male. Somehow that makes me really sad.

:nope::hugs:
 
So sorry Mowat. It's only normal to be sad. Praying for some good news and peace to come your way.
 
Still waiting.... Missed my surgeon's phone call yesterday (I think I was getting on the plane), and she hasn't called back yet. Hmmm, Friday at 4---please call!

Had an appointment with my local doctor this afternoon to get back the pathology on my last miscarriage. Normal. Male. Somehow that makes me really sad.

Mowat :hugs: I'm guessing the news from your GP is like a double edged sword . It's good that no on going issues were found but if " normal " then why ?? :nope: hope the news from your op is positive for you xxxxxx
 
Still waiting.... Missed my surgeon's phone call yesterday (I think I was getting on the plane), and she hasn't called back yet. Hmmm, Friday at 4---please call!

Had an appointment with my local doctor this afternoon to get back the pathology on my last miscarriage. Normal. Male. Somehow that makes me really sad.

:hugs: I never found out the gender of my baby. I wish I would have. The pathology report was disturbing, because it was my first MC, they didn't remove everything very gently.

I hope you find out the results soon! It sucks to have to keep waiting....
 
When is your wait over ES ? How long more on your break ? How are you holding up ? I never found out the gender of my LO either .
 

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