March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[Pinkcasi]

 

[MamaTex]

Well ladies, all this TTC led me to ask my husband when he would like to have another. He told me, "Whenever you are comfortable with having another one." He had a look on his face that said otherwise though. I asked him how he really felt and he said one was good. He said he didn't want to have to work harder. Lol. He was only half joking. I do want to return to work at some point in the future so he won't shoulder the burden of bringing income into the house hold. Heck, I would be content with him being a stay at home dad if I were paid enough. For now, I want to stay home for Sky even though being at home has made me a little stir crazy. While my mother has offered to watch Sky once she retires, I would like to be at home to be with Sky for awhile as long as we can afford it.

 

[Sweetz33]

Well I tested and it was very little pee....so I will try again in the AM but I am pretty sure AF is walking up my driveway and is in a bad mood haha

 

[lisalee1]

Mamatex,

Babies are a blessing but they definitely aren't cheap! My opinion is perhaps take it a little slower. Your husband might be feeling a little overwhelmed at the moment with all the new financial responsibilities of your new one. Were you pursuing a career before you had baby Sky? Perhaps you might be able to get back into that line or work part-time?

I know a few SAHM. I had a friend who went back to work PT (not related to her previous career) b/c like you, she was getting a little stir-crazy.

I hope you are able to find that happy balance. We all know how challenging it can be! What's most important is that both you AND your spouse are happy.

 

[eyemom]

I agree, some guys it's hard to think about #2 when #1 is still brand new. I wish I were in a situation I at least had the option to be a SAHM. I love my job and everything, at least most aspects of it. Those darn student loans though don't give me a choice.

 

[Sweetz33]

Just a funny picture I found LOL

 

[eyemom]

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Just a funny picture I found LOL

You just gave me a new reason to get pregnant.

 

[Starry Night]

Starry Night- I see you have a 9mth old and are back in the game again with another little one on the way! CONGRATS!!!!

My son is just over 2. The ticker is counting down to his 3rd birthday. It is confusing though and the number at the bottom tricks me too. I look at it and think "DS isn't 9 months old!"

But thanks. This is my third pregnancy in a year so am hoping this one is sticky.

 

[lisalee1]

Starry, thanks for clearing that up. The ticker IS confusing.
Hoping this 3rd pregnancy works out. How far along were you when you had the 1st 2 miscarriages?

 

[nevergivingup]

WOWSERS!! Gone for 2 minutes this time and had to catch up on 2 pages!!! Y'all ladies are chatting away and I love it except I now have to remember everything!!!

Lisalee: Always happy to see u posting and everytime you always know exactly what's going on!! I think that's awesome that you're still going for it, those m/c's really give you baby fever. And I will def tell my DH about our LisaLee trying again too and I will tell him in my 5 year old voice!

Sweetz! How in the world do u remember all this tempting and cp stuff!!! After 7 months of not worrying ab where my body is at I really forgot a lot of stuff!! And after reading your post about tempting I felt like I was reading some foreign language! I have to do better! Now I'm going bk to Google University to freshen up on my TTC terminology and studies O yea and if I hadn't said it today yet.... HOW AWESOME that you're trying again!! It so gets me in the mood so I can join in the talk of "Hey my cp is....." But it's still early Sweetz, that BFP may surprise ya!

MamaTex: Thinking about another one already,eh! It's very contagious esp listening to these ladies which def keeps us current. I'm so counting down the months! And I can vouch for being a stay at home mom, it's really rewarding and tiresome at the same time. It's a wonder to c how he grows daily and to see when he does something new. But when he goes to his aunts house for a couple hours....I enjoy my time away but after 3 hours of him gone I'm speeding to go get him bk bc I misses him so. But I do hope everything works out for you and your family. O and after I finish school I do plan on working full time so I'm enjoying it for the moment. How is the Breastfeeding going?

Starry: When is your next appt? And that ticker of yours... but I'm sure you'll keep us current with your DS birthdays.

Garfie: What's new with you ma'am, I see you're reading and posting.

AFM: after I told my DH ab Sweetz trying again he said, "O yea? Huh" and smiled and walk away to get dress for work. then he came bk and sent me off to go get me and manicure & Pedicure and go shopping He silenced me for the moment but as soon and I need a refill for my hand and my toes done again Im then going to mention LisaLee TTC again and see where he sends me then to shut me up I really need to finish school I understand that so he's looking out for our future I guess.

Hi to all the ladies!

 

[nevergivingup]

Pinkcasi: 31 weeks!!!!! 9 weeks to go!!!!! Your labor plan is really up to you! What's comfortable for you, I can understand u wanting to be induced bc of all the pain and discomfort. I can't wait to hear how it happened! What's your labor plan, will it be medicated or natural?

 

[garfie]

Hi Never - caught I'm posting and reading but not a lot happening with me - FF has me down for 8DPO, but I have had POS OPK for the last 6 days - so which to believe my temps are low as well if I have Od

So come on little eggy out you come

I love it that you are all talking about having another awesome little one - but then I feel sad as I was with you at the beginning of the race and I am still bloody running



X

 

[garfie]

Sweetz - Is it just me for the last few days I can't see your chart

So how can I stalk



X

 

[lisalee1]

Never, you are too funny! Stop pressuring the hubby. Just let it be a planned accident!

Garfie, no matter where you are in this journey, we are still here with you!

 

[Kat S]

Hi Never - caught I'm posting and reading but not a lot happening with me - FF has me down for 8DPO, but I have had POS OPK for the last 6 days - so which to believe my temps are low as well if I have Od

So come on little eggy out you come

I love it that you are all talking about having another awesome little one - but then I feel sad as I was with you at the beginning of the race and I am still bloody running



X

I'm still running with you. You're not alone!!

 

[Sweetz33]

AF was in fact walking up the driveway....and someone stupidly opened the damn door....who can I blame? I will blame the cat, yeah the cat. I mean it had to be her that opened the door bc I found a dead frog on my floor too and it had her paw prints all over it LOL!!!!

Never you friggin crack me up...BIG time!!! The BNB tri birth baby mommas all trying again at the same time? Let's see if we can plan it to happened again HAHAHA That would be so weird lol

Garfie & Kat...keep on running the finish line is there and ya know what?? I know we are all cheering you on!! GOOOOOOO GARFIEEEEE GOOOOOOO KAAAAATTTTT!!!!! Do a little dance, make a lil love....get down tonight!!

(yeah the dorky Sweetz is back in the house haha)

 

[Pinkcasi]

Pinkcasi: 31 weeks!!!!! 9 weeks to go!!!!! Your labor plan is really up to you! What's comfortable for you, I can understand u wanting to be induced bc of all the pain and discomfort. I can't wait to hear how it happened! What's your labor plan, will it be medicated or natural?

Thanks never it feels like these last few weeks are dragging, I want her to come early because a) the pain and b) I can't wait to meet her, but I want her to be ready, my oh wants her later so he's off after Xmas but I've told him no way am I going past 40 if they're prepared to induce, people have told me that ladies that are induced have more difficult births and oh is worried about us and our recovery.
I don't have a birth plan as yet I have thought about it obviously (thought about nothing else for weeks) I've always said lots of drugs, I want skin on skin contact as soon as she's born, that's about it, I'm seeing the physio tomorrow and she's going to talk about labour so we'll see if this SPD is going to make a difference, I don't know if it'll hurt more or not.

Sorry for the wall of text.
It would be super cool if you three all fell at the same time again lol

 

[mowat]

Garfie, what's up with your chart? When do you normally ovulate? Weird.

Hi everyone! Nothing new here. Waiting one more cycle, and starting to feel pretty good. Should be ovulating the beginning of November. I have to go out of town so I'm hoping I'll be back in time for the fun to begin.

 

[MamaTex]

Kat S and ESwemba84: I am wishing with all my might that you get at least one baby. I won't say I know your struggle because I have not had to deal with a prolonged wait for a BFP but I know how it is to see everyone around you get your BFP when you want one so bad. I will be around until the end. I can't wait to see both of you announce your good news.

Pink: Sorry you got handed such a crappy deck of cards, in regards to the SPD. I had Sky 5 days late and my husband heard a mouth ful every day of how I felt, which wasn't great haha. Men can't fanthom what it is like to be pregnant at that stage so of course one may be ok with you going late!

eyemom: Good luck with your naughty deeds!!

lisalee: I am not in the TTC mindset just yet. I was just curious to see where my husband stood on having another. I was working a job as opposed to furthering a career, if you know what I mean, before I had Sky, but I was working.My line of work was not enjoyable so I am interested in doing something else. Trying to figure out what that is....

never: Breast feeding is going ok. I am pumping now and get between 1.5 to 2 oz total from both sides, which is better than nothing. I am trying out this Mother's Milk tea to see if that makes a difference. I am still supplementing and Sky is growing, so that makes me happy to see.

mowat: Counting down with you!!

Pink: My advice about birth plans is that the most important thing is to just know the options available to you and to ask questions. That's it. What you have in mind may not happen. Things happen quickly so being informed is crucial imo. You can't know about every little thing of course, but never be afraid to ask a question!! I can't wait to hear about your birth story if you care to share and see pics of the little one.

AFM: Nothing new. The husband and I tried to DTD yesterday and it was...ok lol. I thought I wouldn't hurt as much as I did in pregnancy. It hurt just a tad bit less, but hopefully things get back to normal. My drive is back to my relief, but my vagina is not cooperating. Lol. In other news, I have been trying to look into the health care exchange plans, but am having a hard time with the website. For those not in the US, as of Oct 1st the health care exchange went online and open enrollment started. Some people were able to go on websites set up by their state while those like myself, who live in states where the exchanges was set up by the fed government, had to use the healthcare.gov website. It has lots of bugs and does not function well. I am covered now but just wanted to explore options.

 

[Kat S]

Hi everyone! Nothing new here. Waiting one more cycle, and starting to feel pretty good. Should be ovulating the beginning of November. I have to go out of town so I'm hoping I'll be back in time for the fun to begin.

I hope you get a Holiday Baby!!