March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!
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OOOOOKKKKKKKKKK, i mean come one ladies i was gone for like 2 hours and it was like coming back to an episode of maury...lol which i am watching right now...they are trying to see if EVERY guy passes the lie dector tests...so far so good lol....
Ok since it seems everyone is sharing about how they feel this thread is going i will share my thoughts to
I joined this thread back in July when DH and I had decided we did want to try again after my mc in april. I found this thread and fell in love with you ladies instantly! When i got my bfp in july and then had my mc a week and half later it was you ladies who got me through. When i post about my dh and his inability to share his feelings, it is you guys you get me through. When i have all my other everyday life issues and post, it is you guys who get me through.
With that being said I can see where there are few who only want to post about TCC or being pregnant. Even though this is a TTC thread i dont think that is what it really is. This is a WHOLE body and soul thread. WE care about eachother in every parts of our lives and thus that is what we should talk about. I know i do it. One post maybe whether not we are trying, one maybe about my crazy MIL, or about my crazy kids or just my crazy life in general. I love sharing my life with you ladies and i love hearing about your lives. To be truthful i dont have many friends out side of family and i NEED you ladies to vent to and communicate with throughout the day or i think i would go crazy!
I am not sure how eveyone wants to go forward with this thread but i know this is what i would like to see. Talk about your whole self! dont just focus on the TCC or being pregnant but all of it! Please still talk about tTC or being pregnant and ask questions! i love trying to be helpful! i dont know if i always am but i try. i want to hear about everything in your life not just one area if that makes sense?
I also know there are some ladies on here that i am closer to and i think it is because they are the ones who post often and share about everything. i do try to though respond to everyone who posts since the last time i was on, but we are all HUMAN here, people will be forgotten but not on purpose and not to mean. it just happens. ok i hope this makes sense..... i still love you all!!
oh and honey boo boo...sorry...i love it lol you better Redneckanize! i want that as my ring tone...i know bad...ooo and did you know CPS did get called on her mom for giving her mt dew mixed with redbull at one pagent.? yeah that is bad but seriously is it really bad enough for cps? what about the kids who are locked in closets or get the hell beat out of them?
oooo and randomness i was thinking about it when i went to pick up dd...ok so we had a dog that was a peakness mix and we had her from the day she was born till we had to put her down when she was 16yrs old! i loved that dog so much i was only 3 when she was born. anyways the random part is she LOVED fried green tomatoes! whenever my mom made them she went crazy! now that is random!
Ok since it seems everyone is sharing about how they feel this thread is going i will share my thoughts to
I joined this thread back in July when DH and I had decided we did want to try again after my mc in april. I found this thread and fell in love with you ladies instantly! When i got my bfp in july and then had my mc a week and half later it was you ladies who got me through. When i post about my dh and his inability to share his feelings, it is you guys you get me through. When i have all my other everyday life issues and post, it is you guys who get me through.
With that being said I can see where there are few who only want to post about TCC or being pregnant. Even though this is a TTC thread i dont think that is what it really is. This is a WHOLE body and soul thread. WE care about eachother in every parts of our lives and thus that is what we should talk about. I know i do it. One post maybe whether not we are trying, one maybe about my crazy MIL, or about my crazy kids or just my crazy life in general. I love sharing my life with you ladies and i love hearing about your lives. To be truthful i dont have many friends out side of family and i NEED you ladies to vent to and communicate with throughout the day or i think i would go crazy!
I am not sure how eveyone wants to go forward with this thread but i know this is what i would like to see. Talk about your whole self! dont just focus on the TCC or being pregnant but all of it! Please still talk about tTC or being pregnant and ask questions! i love trying to be helpful! i dont know if i always am but i try. i want to hear about everything in your life not just one area if that makes sense?
I also know there are some ladies on here that i am closer to and i think it is because they are the ones who post often and share about everything. i do try to though respond to everyone who posts since the last time i was on, but we are all HUMAN here, people will be forgotten but not on purpose and not to mean. it just happens. ok i hope this makes sense..... i still love you all!!
oh and honey boo boo...sorry...i love it lol you better Redneckanize! i want that as my ring tone...i know bad...ooo and did you know CPS did get called on her mom for giving her mt dew mixed with redbull at one pagent.? yeah that is bad but seriously is it really bad enough for cps? what about the kids who are locked in closets or get the hell beat out of them?
oooo and randomness i was thinking about it when i went to pick up dd...ok so we had a dog that was a peakness mix and we had her from the day she was born till we had to put her down when she was 16yrs old! i loved that dog so much i was only 3 when she was born. anyways the random part is she LOVED fried green tomatoes! whenever my mom made them she went crazy! now that is random!
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Stork: I'm prego, and i def don't feel offended, and neither does Stork or Lpjkp. So I def hope no one else is either. Like you said we've been through this before earlier on and sometimes it has to be said again. But i love when we ladies bring our problems out Bc someone else may be feeling the same way but just don't want to say. Don't feel bad, Bc we're grown scarred women so we all should know how it feels and should understand. And if someone else has a problem and if their right I will bk them up just as well.
Btw: Stork, you better not be being mean to that wonderful DH of yours!! And hey don't feel bad whenever I take pictures I always look like an old woman, all my pictures just turn out like another person took it. But when I look in the mirror I look young again....something is going on???
Sweetz: Awe I love your comment ab this thread and ab me!!! Gosh I just love you and your attitude!! Your DH must be seeing a part of you we haven't met yet(do not show her)!!
Lpjkp; LOVE YA POSITIVISM, girl talk ab that pregnancy!! WE WANT TO HEAR IT!!! Your milestones and everything. Don't feel bad for talking ab it.
BayBeeEmDm: COME BK!!! WHERE ARE YOU, SO HAPPY YOUR U/S WENT GREAT!!! GO YOU!!
Garfie: SORRY THE WITCH HAS SHOWN yet again, and your cycles are still out of wack but don't you give up on us!! Bc we're not giving up on you...and when you get your BFP and deliver that baby you will have a great story of all you went through to get him/her!! And what a great story will be if and when you concieve on the HOLIDAYS!!! GO FOR IT!!
AngelSerenity: WHERE ARE YOU?!! HOPE YOU'RE DOING WELL!! Update us ma'am!
HisGrace: Im so relieved to hear that you're on a mini business Vacae, and you're relaxing. I told my DH that same thing ab "We'll be parents in God's time", after both our m/c. And yet once again, our father blessed us again. One day soon we'll hold our child and so will you!! Take care of yourself first!
Krissy: YOUR HALLOWEEN PIC, was ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE!!! O how I dream of dressing up on Halloween. Y'all look so happy, and your kids are beautiful!!
Kanicky: hello, hope that business is going well. are you in TWW yet?
Aspe: Sorry your "O" is playing mind games but just as long as you cover those bases ma'am, then you're doing everythingvyou need to do now let God work his blessings.
Shefali: I miss ya, hope you're doing well!!
Bama: YOUR U/S was Soooo beautiful. I could cry!! Im still so happy for you! Ma'am, everyday you get a chance to wake up and live life one more daybis a celebration. Now that you're prego, that's God celebration, now show him you're grateful and enjoy and celebrate your pregnancy Bc he is!!
MnJ: 9 wks...it's almost time to obsess over what you're having? Any ideas??
Lisalee: I haven't did a registry yet. I guess I'm waiting for something. But I know you're having fun with that!
Janelleybean: Symptns come and go in early pregnancy. Don't Stress it, youll be ok. Bc I wad that same way, but the next day it hit me like, " Don't worry I'm still here lady"!!
Army: I HOPE EVERYTHING WILL BE OK. Don't give up on your baby just yet!! Hold on for your bean! Miracles can happen!!
Hi to anyone else I forgot!! Not intentional
P.s for clarification: To all the prego ladies, we want to hear about your pregnancy and the milestones and Symptns but just make sure you acknowledge our other women as well, not Just the one you talk or post to every post.
Loving each and everyone of you!!
Btw: Stork, you better not be being mean to that wonderful DH of yours!! And hey don't feel bad whenever I take pictures I always look like an old woman, all my pictures just turn out like another person took it. But when I look in the mirror I look young again....something is going on???
Sweetz: Awe I love your comment ab this thread and ab me!!! Gosh I just love you and your attitude!! Your DH must be seeing a part of you we haven't met yet(do not show her)!!
Lpjkp; LOVE YA POSITIVISM, girl talk ab that pregnancy!! WE WANT TO HEAR IT!!! Your milestones and everything. Don't feel bad for talking ab it.
BayBeeEmDm: COME BK!!! WHERE ARE YOU, SO HAPPY YOUR U/S WENT GREAT!!! GO YOU!!
Garfie: SORRY THE WITCH HAS SHOWN yet again, and your cycles are still out of wack but don't you give up on us!! Bc we're not giving up on you...and when you get your BFP and deliver that baby you will have a great story of all you went through to get him/her!! And what a great story will be if and when you concieve on the HOLIDAYS!!! GO FOR IT!!
AngelSerenity: WHERE ARE YOU?!! HOPE YOU'RE DOING WELL!! Update us ma'am!
HisGrace: Im so relieved to hear that you're on a mini business Vacae, and you're relaxing. I told my DH that same thing ab "We'll be parents in God's time", after both our m/c. And yet once again, our father blessed us again. One day soon we'll hold our child and so will you!! Take care of yourself first!
Krissy: YOUR HALLOWEEN PIC, was ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE!!! O how I dream of dressing up on Halloween. Y'all look so happy, and your kids are beautiful!!
Kanicky: hello, hope that business is going well. are you in TWW yet?
Aspe: Sorry your "O" is playing mind games but just as long as you cover those bases ma'am, then you're doing everythingvyou need to do now let God work his blessings.
Shefali: I miss ya, hope you're doing well!!
Bama: YOUR U/S was Soooo beautiful. I could cry!! Im still so happy for you! Ma'am, everyday you get a chance to wake up and live life one more daybis a celebration. Now that you're prego, that's God celebration, now show him you're grateful and enjoy and celebrate your pregnancy Bc he is!!
MnJ: 9 wks...it's almost time to obsess over what you're having? Any ideas??
Lisalee: I haven't did a registry yet. I guess I'm waiting for something. But I know you're having fun with that!
Janelleybean: Symptns come and go in early pregnancy. Don't Stress it, youll be ok. Bc I wad that same way, but the next day it hit me like, " Don't worry I'm still here lady"!!
Army: I HOPE EVERYTHING WILL BE OK. Don't give up on your baby just yet!! Hold on for your bean! Miracles can happen!!
Hi to anyone else I forgot!! Not intentional
P.s for clarification: To all the prego ladies, we want to hear about your pregnancy and the milestones and Symptns but just make sure you acknowledge our other women as well, not Just the one you talk or post to every post.
Loving each and everyone of you!!
Storked
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Krissy, we used to talk about other things too. But we still addressed each and every person in our posts. If we couldn't at the time of posting we simply said so and caught up later.
But so many ladies have left and I don't like that. I don't like the growing silence. Why post at all if people won't bother replying to you? Because all they wanna hear about is themselves. Like Never said, we are here to cheer each other on. And we would talk about what we did all day, about our favorite shows and things like that. But we still also made everyone feel a part of it all
But so many ladies have left and I don't like that. I don't like the growing silence. Why post at all if people won't bother replying to you? Because all they wanna hear about is themselves. Like Never said, we are here to cheer each other on. And we would talk about what we did all day, about our favorite shows and things like that. But we still also made everyone feel a part of it all
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Never- I wasn't point any fingers at you at all. I'm just saying that some who are farther along in their pregnancy don't post as much as some who are earlier on. So, from being on the sidelines seeing these post this morning one can only put it together that we're talking too much about us being pregnant rather than supporting those who are trying to conceive. I have tried to support everyone and include everyone in my morning posts and through out the day. I was just letting those know how I felt. It wasn't an attack on anyone.
I wasn't trying to correct anyone either, I was just giving my thoughts and trying to encourage those to be apart of the group. I said that no matter where you are on your journey that we all need each other and we're all there for each other. I wasn't trying to single anyone out with the "you" I was just saying that everyone individually matters to me.
AFM- I'm going to be taking a break from this thread. My jar is heavy.
I wasn't trying to correct anyone either, I was just giving my thoughts and trying to encourage those to be apart of the group. I said that no matter where you are on your journey that we all need each other and we're all there for each other. I wasn't trying to single anyone out with the "you" I was just saying that everyone individually matters to me.
AFM- I'm going to be taking a break from this thread. My jar is heavy.
Storked
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Thank you Never, you always make me feel better! You are so right that we are all scarred- that is why we are in the TTCAL section. We must be strong for each other and support each other!
I am nice to him most of the time. Sometimes I have to pester him when he is being grouchy or snooty but what else is there to do? He is human and imperfect
Yay for not being alone on weird pictures. Is it the lighting I wonder? Because IRL I am always mistaken for a teenager but my pictures...yowza!
Did your zits disappear? Are you wearing that pregnant glow?
I love ya Never
I am nice to him most of the time. Sometimes I have to pester him when he is being grouchy or snooty but what else is there to do? He is human and imperfect
Yay for not being alone on weird pictures. Is it the lighting I wonder? Because IRL I am always mistaken for a teenager but my pictures...yowza!
Did your zits disappear? Are you wearing that pregnant glow?
I love ya Never
nevergivingup
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Hahahaha KRISSY!! THATS Y I Love you ladies!! You don't take things to heart but talk it out and handle them like nature loving women!!! Krissy I agree this thread should and is ab alot more than TTC and prego. It's ab everything , lol!!
O and What in the world is fried green tomatoes!!! Sounds a bit interesting and I'm not to interested. Are they bad is that why their rotten.
And no ma'am one man failed the test and didn't make it.
And as far as this thread going further, it's still going to be moving along. We go through this every 3 months, hehehe. It was me the first time bringing it to the table. Every lady is awesome in this thread and brings something special to this thread so keep it coming. We go through things just like sisters but we're I-NET SISTERs....love ya one minute can't stand ya the next, but we'll get over it!
Ok randomness: WHAT IS EVERYONE DOING FOR HALLOWEEN????!!! I want to have a party Soooo bad(Christian of course)...playing Gospel music???!! NOT!
O and What in the world is fried green tomatoes!!! Sounds a bit interesting and I'm not to interested. Are they bad is that why their rotten.
And no ma'am one man failed the test and didn't make it.
And as far as this thread going further, it's still going to be moving along. We go through this every 3 months, hehehe. It was me the first time bringing it to the table. Every lady is awesome in this thread and brings something special to this thread so keep it coming. We go through things just like sisters but we're I-NET SISTERs....love ya one minute can't stand ya the next, but we'll get over it!
Ok randomness: WHAT IS EVERYONE DOING FOR HALLOWEEN????!!! I want to have a party Soooo bad(Christian of course)...playing Gospel music???!! NOT!
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Thank you Never, you always make me feel better! You are so right that we are all scarred- that is why we are in the TTCAL section. We must be strong for each other and support each other!
I am nice to him most of the time. Sometimes I have to pester him when he is being grouchy or snooty but what else is there to do? He is human and imperfect
Yay for not being alone on weird pictures. Is it the lighting I wonder? Because IRL I am always mistaken for a teenager but my pictures...yowza!
Did your zits disappear? Are you wearing that pregnant glow?
I love ya Never
I wish I could be mistaken for a teenager!!! When I was a teenager I was mistaken for an 22 year old, Bc I was more developed. So all the older guys/men and wrinkled perverted men flirted with me!! Ewww! My sits play hide and seek on my face Stork. One day they want to hide then the next day they pop out like, " haha thought I was gone, huh!" and for pregnancy glow try, OH NO!! pregnancy makes you look like that?!! Stork I can't wait til you get prego. So you can give up that teenager looking face and join my old person club!!
P.s. Love ya more; mean it!
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OMG NEver- Fried Green tomatoes is only my favorite book, movie and food! you pick the tomatoes before they are ripe (red) slice them put coat them in a egg and flour then fry those suckers up! its more a southern thing than anything else!
Sweetz- you are just fine!
Sweetz- you are just fine!
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So I'm not sure if I'm being reprimanded here or not? Maybe we should specify? I don't always comment back to every post. I miss so much as I work full time outside of the house and don't always have time to get on the computer at home. When I do post its usually sneaking on my phone at work. I feel like I've commented to a lot of girls' posts on here but yep, I do talk about myself and my pregnancy. Was it too much? Idk but I know one thing, I'm scared to now! I wish everyone the best. I love all u girls and all the different personalities. I love hearing about your lives. I LOVE hearing about pregnancies as that was the whole goal of everybody when they joined. I felt like when a lady talked about ttc issues, we supported her. Encouraged her. Tried to give advice or find solutions. I guess I was wrong? Idk. I guess I'm with Janelle on taking a break. Or maybe I just don't belong at all? So confused... I imagine this sounds bitter but all these posts have upset me and hurt my feelings. Is it okay for me to say that??
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AHHHHHH!!! JANELLEYBEAN!!!! In the words of whoever said it, Can we all just get along!!
Janelleybean: There's no need for you to leave, why are your jar heavy?!! If I took what you said out of context, my fault. But there's no need to leave. I'm sorry you feel the way you do but it was not for you to take it so personal. You bring awesomeness to this thread, don't let your pride get in the way. Bc we def love you more then you'll ever know. And I def love when you're here and posting. Talk ab your pregnancy, I do, but just make sure you involve everyone else too. If you still decide to leave, we'll miss ya, but Im asking that you don't and still be our I-NET sister!
Love ya ladies, more then you'll ever know. Nothing is meant to hurt anyone but build us up!
Janelleybean: There's no need for you to leave, why are your jar heavy?!! If I took what you said out of context, my fault. But there's no need to leave. I'm sorry you feel the way you do but it was not for you to take it so personal. You bring awesomeness to this thread, don't let your pride get in the way. Bc we def love you more then you'll ever know. And I def love when you're here and posting. Talk ab your pregnancy, I do, but just make sure you involve everyone else too. If you still decide to leave, we'll miss ya, but Im asking that you don't and still be our I-NET sister!
Love ya ladies, more then you'll ever know. Nothing is meant to hurt anyone but build us up!
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Janelley, we actually don't have a ton of ladies who are in the second trimester. There is Sweetz and Never and Lisa but that is all I can think of. Most everyone is in the first trimester which is the danger zone :-/
But I am sorry that you want to leave now because of how I felt.
Same to you MnJ. Never said there is nothing wrong with discussing yourself or pregnancy as long as we remember to cheer each other on and try to include people. Hell, I used to post like crazy on here. And I always replied back to people. And we have always been happy with girls getting their BFPs because that IS what we are all striving for. But once we get it we don't forget to continue cheering on each other. When it is a lot of me, me, me talk it is hard for other people to post anything. Especially if their posts are ignored so that other people can continue to ramble on about their cycle or their pregnancy.*
This isn't just a TTC thread but a TTCAL thread. We are women who are especially sensitive. Who are sad. And hopeful. And need support. Virtual hugs. Acknowledgements
Never, my face will probably get so fat in pregnancy that I won't even looks human
But those zits of yours are annoying but a GOOD SIGN that your body is working hard for the bun in the oven and I guess you were a hot teenager lol! All them old men wanted to think that they had what it took to attract a pretty young thing hehe. How did you handle it?
I have no idea what fried green tomatoes are
And I love you a thousand chocolate truffles!
But I am sorry that you want to leave now because of how I felt.
Same to you MnJ. Never said there is nothing wrong with discussing yourself or pregnancy as long as we remember to cheer each other on and try to include people. Hell, I used to post like crazy on here. And I always replied back to people. And we have always been happy with girls getting their BFPs because that IS what we are all striving for. But once we get it we don't forget to continue cheering on each other. When it is a lot of me, me, me talk it is hard for other people to post anything. Especially if their posts are ignored so that other people can continue to ramble on about their cycle or their pregnancy.*
This isn't just a TTC thread but a TTCAL thread. We are women who are especially sensitive. Who are sad. And hopeful. And need support. Virtual hugs. Acknowledgements
Never, my face will probably get so fat in pregnancy that I won't even looks human
But those zits of yours are annoying but a GOOD SIGN that your body is working hard for the bun in the oven
and I guess you were a hot teenager lol! All them old men wanted to think that they had what it took to attract a pretty young thing hehe. How did you handle it?I have no idea what fried green tomatoes are
And I love you a thousand chocolate truffles!
Krissy485
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Mnj- 
you are not at fault at all I love you!
Janelle- you know how i feel lady love!
Never-
how did we get here today? its tuesday not monday...Love not War ladies!
Sweetz- have you ever tried fried green tomatoes or just wont cuz its a tomatoe? taste totally diferent!
you are not at fault at all I love you!Janelle- you know how i feel lady
love!Never-
how did we get here today? its tuesday not monday...Love not War ladies!Sweetz- have you ever tried fried green tomatoes or just wont cuz its a tomatoe? taste totally diferent!
